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Topic: Why Do We Love To Be Missed?
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astro junkie Moderator Posts: 3937 From: Registered: Nov 2003
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posted September 01, 2004 07:56 PM
... cuz, like I'm looking at his aspects and I'm grinning going - yup - he misses me ...I know it's got something to do with "distance makes the heart grow fonder" or whatever... IP: Logged |
LibraSparkle Moderator Posts: 1616 From: Vancouver USA Registered: May 2004
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posted September 01, 2004 08:45 PM
I guess it kinda reaffirms their love for you.IP: Logged |
astro junkie Moderator Posts: 3937 From: Registered: Nov 2003
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posted September 01, 2004 09:44 PM
Ah. Yes.IP: Logged |
Gemini Nymph Knowflake Posts: 263 From: Registered: Jul 2004
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posted September 02, 2004 12:03 AM
Who are you talking about, the Cancer Mars guy or this other guy? Water moons need a lot of reassurance that they are loved, and easily take to heart gestures that demonstrate another's love (or lack therefore of). I don't tend to want to be missed, but it greatly affects me when it's made known to me that someone has missed me. IP: Logged |
astro junkie Moderator Posts: 3937 From: Registered: Nov 2003
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posted September 02, 2004 12:43 PM
It's been one and the same guy for the last three guys...Yeah, I'm an Air Sign too, so I don't like "sticky miss-you", just an "I missed you" once in a blue is sweet. Or maybe somewhere between one in a while and once in a blue. (My Cancer Moon). IP: Logged |
Virgo-AriesArtist Moderator Posts: 919 From: USA Registered: Nov 2001
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posted September 02, 2004 12:54 PM
We love feeling as though our relationships with people matter to them, which is impossible to discern unless we have some time apart, and then we miss each other.I'm definitely one for geniune sappy expressions of loneliness away from a person or people. You shoulda seen my letters and cards home while I was in CO... I usually don't send them out to people other than family, as I'm real cautious as to how my expressions get interpreted. I think if I was dating someone, I'd send them a lot of romantic notes and cards to let them know how often I thought of them. That's just how I am. Missing people, I don't know, seems an integral part of life and attachments, for if you don't bond with others, there's nothing to "miss".... ------------------ -K "Most people love with restraint As if they were someday to hate We hated gently, carefully As if we were someday to love"-Venus Trines at Midnight IP: Logged |