posted September 17, 2004 07:29 AM              

OK-Here are the stats:

Aqua Sun-4th
Can Moon-12th
Aqua Venus-8th
Cappy Merc-7th
Taurus Mars-11th
Vigo Jupiter-4th
Scorp Neptune-5th
Saggy Saturn-6th
Leo Uranus-2nd
Leo Pluto-3rd

I am not sure what patterns are seen with someone who suffers from Bi-Polar disorder...definitely VERY SCARY stuff when it is out of control...also a shame when it involves an otherwise Peaceful Soul such as my Ex. The Sun/Moon combo that Miss Muffett wrote for him (Aqua Sun/Can Moon) was right on the money...he is the NICEST person I have ever known and giving to a fault! How rare it seems these days! That disease is like being dealt a really rotten hand of cards...and not being able to escape from it...

We have always been good friends to each other and I never felt animosity towards him for his mistakes....(no, not cheating-he was very loyal...other worse mistakes IMHO) Our divorce was a sad event no doubt and friends still ask me how he is...and then say what a tragedy it all was...

It IS interesting though that people either KNOW first-hand about the disruption of Bi-Polar or they have No Clue about it...Many think it is an 'over-diagnosed' issue...maybe for some people it is taking depression too far for the diagnosis...for others that truly suffer from this horrible pain-it is no fun and very real. And of course, if you are partnered with someone who is not able to stay under control, you KNOW beyond a shadow of a doubt...

At least for Me-I watched it progressively get worse and had to leave a near perfect union of marriage because it put me in too much danger...it was very sad indeed.

For those of you out there who do suffer from Bi-Polar Disorder/Manic Depression, please know that I have the deepest compassion for you and understand it better than most...some of the most wonderful and intelligent people (super creative too!) have to cope with this difficult challenge...

posted September 17, 2004 12:41 PM              

I see the Uranus and Pluto in Leo and I say Wow, that's a lot of energy.

Did you say he had a Cancer rising? Yes that's pretty moody, my ex Libra had Moon on the Ascendant and so I understand a little. Yes I dream about him all the time, worry all the time, and he had digestive problems too. Not much earth to hold him down, only Venus and Pluto conjunction, and Saturn in Capricorn.

He is much better living on his own, my ex was the kind of person who was good for a few minutes, an hour, but couldn't handle long term exposure to another person. Frazzled his nerves.

I would call him but then he would have my number and never stop calling, I can't take the chance, although I do care. He was obsessive and stubborn in believing that I was seeing someone else, and that wounded my cancer moon too deeply.

It seems like there is the moody unpredictable type around, and it's easy to believe, "I will MAKE this work". I've watched unhappy people and they always start out by comparing themselves to other happier people.

Which sign is the least jealous of other people? Aquarius, so that's why I admire Aquas right now. It would be nice to meet, moody, but balanced.

Ideally if someone is having problems, they could get help from family, when I am at the stage where I just don't have the emotional resources I opt out of romantic relationships. I will not watch or be watched while waiting for things to get better anymore.

posted September 17, 2004 01:01 PM              

In a word, he is stubborn. He is also always there if you need him, a strong handsome shoulder to cry on, understanding, gallant. And, for those of you into domination, he can be a real pushover in love. He is a little naive. I think he deserves much better than to be taken advantage of though. He is lovable and will share your life, hopes, dreams, and chores with you. He will meet you more than halfway to be sure. He is capable and responsible at home and at work. He is a good parent. He may talk a lot about discipline and God forbit, a spanking, but he is very lenient. He usually has few children. Either one, or a set of twins. He is always wanting more, though. Courtship with this man could drive you crazy, but in marriage he is relatively dependable. One thing, either way, from the moment you mett him he needs attention. He has a fair amount of pride and yes, conceit. He is ambitious. But he needs a supporter. He had a strong attachment to his mother, may even resemble her, and yet there is the basis for his primary misunderstanding about relating to women. He does have trouble with that. He has a tendency to over-idolize the woman of the moment. And when the relationship falls flat on its face from his unrealistic expectations, he can't figure it out. For all he has to offer, he has a lot of trouble maintaining a relationship. he means well, but you know about the road that was paved with good intentions. If you are a strong actress, a professional gambler, a computer whiz, or a doctor, I think he'll behave. Otherwise, you'll have some rough days ahead. He must have a challenge. A dramatic one. A Leo, Sagittarius, or determined Libra stands the best chance with this one.

posted September 17, 2004 01:54 PM              

Luckily, my Ex was not moody (hard to believe for Cancer Asc) I think mainly because we were so happy as a couple...not too many rainy days...

Certainly not to glamourize him but I think the Cancer aspects made him snuggly and clingy...always wanting to please...

As far as getting support from family...well, that seems to be a challenge for many of us...I believe our souls are in the family 'unit' to learn and/or teach one another...parents and children both ways...and eventually Understand the differences in evolvement and Accept where people are...even if you are the child!!

For me, I love the loyalty of my friends and they are my 'hand-picked' support system...I really believe in the freedom of choice as far as friends go (lovers too!) and trust my intuition if someone is not all that I had hoped they were/could be....and am willing to let them go if needed. Otherwise you can 'sink' with others who prefer to remain in the dark so to speak...No Thanks!!

Recently I read an excellent quote:

"Giving up doesn't always mean you are weak. Sometimes it means that you are strong enough to let go".

Perhaps society tells us that giving up or 'quitting' on someone or anything (job,etc..) is wrong and that you must never do so. I think the lesson people have to reach is that Life eventually sets you up for this lesson (many times!!)...it is up to us to form our own ideas...realizing that the masses are not always right!!

Anyway, I liked that quote a lot.

Also, I understand about not wanting to 'watch' or be 'watched'. "It is What it Is" Philosphy is one that I follow...not wanting to waste too much time with something that most likely will not change...either way, I believe your intuition is always guiding you (even if it seems contrary to what you THINK you are 'supposed' to be doing or feeling). Maybe that is the Gemini Sun in me talking!! Long ago I have given up the 'believing in potential'...only to be disappointed with reality. It is What it Is. Also, it may have something to do with my ridiculously high ideals (Scorp Asc?)...Hmmmmmmm.

posted September 17, 2004 04:31 PM              

Take Care,
Natasha

posted September 18, 2004 04:02 PM              

Sun, Scorpio & Moon, Libra - Male
and
Sun, Scorpio & Moon, Leo - Female

posted September 20, 2004 02:27 PM              

This is one of the most charming men of ths Sun-Moon combinations, and the romantic par excellence. He is magnetic, persuasive, ardent and loyal. In one hypnotic nod he gestures he understands your more complex emotions. He can dress and undress you, both physically and emotionally. No matter how preoccupied he is about other things, if he is interested in you, he will never let the slightest incident in your life go unnoticed. He lives to understand you. He will calm and reassure you in the midst of his own inner turmoil that you are totally oblivious to. He is friendly and genuinely interested in others, whether at home or at work. He is a defender of the underdog, and often ends up in a legal or service related field. While he makes friends easily, he wants only to surround himself with the most refined of the group. He has high standards and is prone to criticisms and analyses that tend to sting and smart. He is less abrasive with his children. What does he need to accomplish to balance out his life? To find the right partner. His every emotional fiber calls out for a mate. He needs to share his dreams, his goals, and every waking moment with someone. If you are that someone, you will not have to worry about being left home alone a lot. He looks for beauty in a woman, and for style (yes you can splurge on that new leather dress) as well as elegance. The woman in the tacky plaid coat could give him nightmares for a week. Your four letter words will get you demerits on your score card. He will have no use for foul language (unless it is under covers, of course). The beautiful Libra snags him right off the bat, the Capricorn or Scorpio hangs in there for years. The Cancer or Pisces can relate to him. The Aries goes for his throat.

posted September 20, 2004 02:50 PM              

The male of this combination wants sex and places a high priority on it. The female of this configuration uses her sexuality in the most constructive ways. There have been some top models and beauty contestants in this Sun-Moon position. They project both sexuality and drama. They also frequently make jokes about how they reached the top with their sex appeal. They know what they've got and they use it, but not in the casting couch fashion. They project this incredible aura of majestic voluptuousness. It's a big sentence and I really wouldn't use it on anyone else, but she deserves it. She's ambitious and she can stand on her own two feet. Yet, she can turn around and be a loving and devoted mother and wife. It just takes an exceptional man to domesticate her and it's not her natural instinct. She's daring and she can travel to the exotic, study for the bar, design jewelery, become a police woman or a coroner. She's her own breed of cat - the lioness. She's often self destructive on the emotional side of her life. Passionate, her love affairs are often tainted by some undercurrent of the forbidden, sordid, or discredited. She will however, rise again from the pit she has plunged herself into. And while domestic harmony will never be what she gets, her own brand of marriage or partnership will be stable and often very lasting. There will be nothing dull or ordinary about her life - it'll take many a twist and turn. She'll undoubtedly endure all this to her credit, and end up with some financial security which she'll have earned for herself. To survive life with this one, you'd best not have too many plans about wearing the pants in your family. Look for a Scorpio, a Capricorn who wants to be bossed (there are a few), or a Sagittarius who doesn't get all that wrapped up in emotional scenes.

posted September 20, 2004 03:51 PM              

loooove if you could do mine also...
i'm an aries with moon in sagittarius
my potential love interest (*ding ding ding*) is leo with moon in aquarius...

posted September 21, 2004 07:21 AM              

Does he look like his mom, only taller? Did he worship her just a touch? Think maybe you can fill her shoes? Does he think that he was reincarnated from Robin Hood? Did he secretly believe in Santa Claus until he was twelve? There is a lot of wonderful child in this man. And he is looking, quite frankly, for a mother. Conversly, he is not the best father and husband material. To tell you the truth, he needs one. He is so idealistic that he sees almost everything with rose colored glasses. Lead him around, but don't attempt to remove his glasses. He can't live with the realities of the harsh, cruel world. The ugly truth about life hurts him. That is why he needs protection. Not that you could guess he needs such care the way he is so adept at surviving financially. This is especially true if he was born about 6 or 7 at night. This is very fotunate configuration for financial success. He will be a fair co-worker. He is also possessed with a strange set of religious beliefs. What's so strange? Well, for all his ethics, he will think having a half dozen girls on the hook is perfectly moral. And so as not to hurt anyone, he tells them all he loves them. And then when it is time to leave, a little sotry like his work for the CIA requires him to move to Iowa in the morning and sever all ties, or he has just developed bone cancer and won't be able to attend your graduation tonight, usually does the trick. For him. Because so help me, you'll believe him. Or maybe you give him enough rope that he just leaves without hideous lies. He doesn't allow himself to think he lied, he was feeling bad and he did meet someone who lived in Iowa once. If you want to forgive his, do me a favor and sleep with his best friend while he's "out of town". An Aquarius, a Sagittarius, or a Gemini, or the motherly Cancer are possible victims.

posted September 21, 2004 07:34 AM              

As you read this, she's probably out skydiving, flying, or on a cross country skiing adventure - if you're lucky. If not, she may have taken leave for the tennis matches at Wimbledon and left you to water her plants. This fiery lady goes off on some pretty wild tangents. She wants variety, adventure, and excitement in her life. She lives each and everyday to the fullest. She usually has long legs, no matter what her height, and they're in constant state of motion. She probably thinks a soap opera is some exciting new form of theatre where you pitch your new crusade. She can't stnad being tied down to household chores, and will fight you for the privilege of hauling the trash and repairing the roof. She often gets caught up in the double standards - yours, not hers. She can stray pretty far from home, and yet manage to expect fidelity on your part. This is one of the ways in which wshe is considerably naive. She has an impulsive, expansive, and childlike nature. Duty and responsibility come hard to her. Her intentions are good, but exciting things happen to detour her. A spirited co-worker, she can enthuse others on any project or task, and then totally lose interest herself. Her best chances for career success come from the fields of travel, exploration, or publishing. Her very own import-export business will be a good opportunity for success. She needs a man as adventurous as she is - no use trying to settle her down. She can stay happily unwedded for years with the same man. Being a mother will be another of her adventures in life. Her children will adore her. Look to another Sagittarius or a surprise match with a Gemini. A Scorpio fling is bound to happen, with stormy results.

posted September 21, 2004 12:44 PM              

Idealistic, romantic, and somewhat flighty, this man has a lot of women in his life. He usually pursues ideas, not women, and since women usually have to come to him, you can be sure he has a few tales to tell. This onw will kiss and tell, by the way. Traits like loyalty and devotion are often strangers to him. He loves on an abstract basis, to be sure. He is eccentric, inventive and almost (he'll never admit it) poetic. He can envision, rationalize, and philosophize better than almost anyone. His lightning quick change of moods is fun. His unpredictability is exciting, except at work, where it borders on erratic. If you can hang in there and accept him for what he is, he is a perfect date. He is a Full Moon baby with all the implications, but he has more of a chance of projecting his insecurities into creative channels and to utilize his talents for public affairs or dramatics more than other Full Moonies. He's friendly and will love your parties, your friends, and your dreams. He won't, however, get all wrapped up in you. Nor will he be possessive. His relationships are platonic even in the height of passion. He has a fondness for children and can play with them on their level. He does well with the raising of children when he does not have to carry the entire financial load. Too much responsibility makes him bolt. A people watcher, he wants to be fascinated by the complexities of mankind. You will need to offer him a head full of ideas. Maybe your inventions are better than his and your ideas more far out. Appeal to him between the ears. This is his most erogenous zone. He looks for his companionship along the signs of Aquarius, Gemini, Sagittarius, and Leo.

posted September 21, 2004 01:14 PM              

a scorpio fling OR TWO had happened... and the word "stormy" is not even the word to describe them! DEAD ON!!!

and re. my potential love interest- hmmm... so women would come on to him huh?... i'm soooooo not the proactive type... aiiiiiiiiiii~

on a separate note - someone told me a long time ago that as you get older, you'll tend to become more and more like your rising sign... anyone out there knows if that's valid?

posted September 22, 2004 07:14 AM              

This one often gets an early start in attempting a conventional relationship, but as she grows older, she may surprise everyone with her unconventional choice of the young poet or bohemian who has retired early in life. She's a sought after sweetheart, and she can certainly have her pick. She's one woman who can see the diamond in the rough when it comes to romance. Helpful and loving with everyone, it's no surprise that in her earlier years she may have been duped. She emerges wiser but not necessarily sadder. She still manages to see the best in everyone and will not hesitate to lend a helping hand when asked. This little ray of electric sunshine is everyone's favorite and she has many friends among her co-workers and neighbors. She appears delightful and uncomplicated. She's probably not that simple - she doesn't want to get bogged down in heavy debates, so her opinions are not necessarily all that well known. Intuitive and imaginative she has odd little hobbies that may drive you nuts. She's attracted to astrology and related fields, and in fact, may have bought you this book as a guide to your little black book. She could probably devise a new rating system for you. She's usually more of a friend than a lover at first. She comes by friendships quite naturally. And while you may become hooked early in the romance, she may not have made the transition from friend to lover as fast. Once she does, she will quite simply knock your socks off with her sexuality. As a roommate, she's not apt to leave her nylons draped over the shower curtain rod. More likely, you'll be tripping over radios in need of repair, or some other odd little piece of debris. These are her treasures, do not touch. As a wife she'll try to tidy up a bit. Her unpredictability delights her children. If she's the one for you, I hope you're the Sun sign of Aquarius or Taurus, or the Moon sign of Libra or Gemini. There may be a few other lesser signs before the main stellar combination.

posted September 22, 2004 07:22 AM              

Taurus is steady and slow. Aries is not. That is the basic conflict here. So he can surprise you; poke along, and then be lightning quick to a decision, action, or adventure. This man likes to please people, and he gets along well at work. If he falls in love with you, you can be sure he'll keep you, and your happiness, in his thoughts. He will try to be a good husband. Another batch of good news about this one, you'll never have to guess how he is feeling or what he is thinking; nor will your children. He'll tell you. Rather bluntly, in fact. He is that way about sex too. Earthy, and no pretenses. A natural born money maker, he has plenty of drive. A business deal will energize him into a near frenzy romantically. Remember I said he lets all his feelings show, so you won't have to wonder why he's so excitable, even in bed. He wants and needs the same genuine responses from you. Insipid creatures will not attract him. The Aries Moon has a tendency to bring out quickly angered personality, and the Taurus wants peace and tranquility above all. He is also a creature of comfort. So, even if he hasn't quite learned to control his temper yet, he is quick to forgive and basically very loving. Venus ruled Sun and Mars ruled emotions leave no doubt about his masculine traits. He'll be steady and faithful (once he settles in), and spend lots of time trying to make you one of the boys. But he'll want you to be ultra feminine; dainty curvy, perfumed and dressed to kill. A Capricorn, another Taurus and an Aries with plenty of earthy planets in her chart stands the best astrological chance of snagging this one.