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virgo
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posted September 13, 2004 11:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for virgo     Edit/Delete Message
Ya..I made this stupid mistake.
I just started college...I'm loving it. I'm srrounded by actors everyday and I get to do what I want everyday...it dosnt even feel like going to school.
I promised myself not to like any guys in that class..and that this is a competation...and im paying alot of money for this and i dont need a guy or whatever.

on the first day, we all had to introduce ourselves..and i told them i was a dancer etc...and after one of the acting teachers gave us a tour of the campus and i was walking and all the sudden i hear my name..and there was this guy...lets call him Mike, started talking to me and asking me what kind of dance i do.
It was bit weird to me cause nobody really bothers to talk to me..usually cause i dont bother opening a conversation...but he seemed interested. and my friend was like "i think he likes you" and i was just like whatever..im not gonna think bout it....and she told me that he kept looking at me...I kinda had this feeling that he liked me..
I'm not sure why...I have a strong feeling he dose...I wish I could ask him why...cause I dont know why he would and what he sees.
but anyways..I kinda just shurged it off and didnt think too much bout it.
Than I got to know him better...hes the clown in the class..he will make jokes..say really weird stuff...and just talk bout something out of nowhere.

Usually the kinda of guys I've liked in the past were reallly weird, funny, and just easy going goofs but also they could be seriouse at the same time.
Hes like that...but I still didnt pay too much attention to him.
I wasnt gonna make myself fall for him and thought if I'm really gonna like him than hes gotta show me something more cause i dont want to like him and chase him around and him just playing games.

well, that went to crap. I spent more time with him...the first thing I thought of was that he was either a sag or gemini. and just today he was talking bout something and he said his b-day is decemeber 4th..and i was just like yes!!! cause i was right..so im getting good at this guessing thing.

anyways...I've gotten to spend more time with him..and hes soooo funny. I fall soo easliy for funny, creative, weird guys. and thats what he is.

I'm stupid but when i start to like someone i like daydream bout them and how it would be if we were to go out...but im not clingy like that..im not looking for a husband..or controlling or too mushy. thats just what i do when i start to like someone.
and he like always flirts with me. he flirts with everyone else..but with me is different. and we talked bout signs for a bit..and he asked me what my sign was and i said virgo..and he was just like oh...than he kinda went off and said "any leos here!?!?"...and i was just like whatever...i shouldve maybe said i was a leo...
anyways..just found out couple days ago hes got a girlfriend. and im just like what the hell..why are u flirting with me.

but i gotten to know him and i know hes not that type. like the cheeting type. he seems very loyal but at the same hes just flirty somtimes.
i dont know..im just stupid. still i think he atleast liked me a little. it just seemed so obviouse to me even my friend thinks so.

im trying to find my book so i can read on sags but i cant find it!!!!!! and my aries friend has my love signs and she keeps forgetting to give it back!

what should i do? i dont like him that much yet...like there is no butterflies in my stomach...i havnt had that in 2 years..so thats good..im not too attached...
but hes just soo charming...its hard to ignore him. he says such stupid **** that i find reallly funny.

anyways..i dont know. i dont know much bout sag man either so i would like to know more..till i find my book...
i dont know what to do with him..im stuck with him for a year....and hes soo smart too..he isnt just a goof...he can be really seriouse..and he loves acting..like me...its just...ya. id ont know anymore

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astro junkie
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posted September 14, 2004 12:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for astro junkie     Edit/Delete Message
Go for the experience. The only thing you wrote I disagree with is when you said you just know he isn't the type to cheat. You don't know that. I'm not sure any of us really ever do, even if you're married for years. Don't leave it up to him to calm down your fears regarding this. He is not you, and what he sees in you might be "nothing". But he MAY be FEELING something.

Just take responsibility for your actions. You can always come back here and cry if you need to. But just don't put people on such high pedestals. Remember, I know what that is like. Try to hook up with a Pisces friend, you are opposites, but you'll have a lot in common.

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miss_muffet
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posted September 14, 2004 01:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for miss_muffet     Edit/Delete Message
Hello

My husband happen to be a Sag. He's just Mr. Wonderful. But then again, he's got a Virgo Moon. So, my suggestion is not to judge the book by it's cover and get to know him as a person. He might just surprise you.

Miss Muffet

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virgo
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posted September 18, 2004 01:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for virgo     Edit/Delete Message
ok, I decided bunch of times to forget bout him and that hes not worth it. Than I find myself daydreaming about him. Than an hour later, something happens and I tell myself the hell with him, and that I'm not in this acting class to meet anyone like that, than 10 minutes later, I find myself daydreaming about him AGAIN...

Today, he was 6 hours later for class...he said something like he got into a big fight with his gf the night before..and i guess he just wasnt in the mood for it to come...but he apologized to everyone, and didnt make any excuses for himself or try to make it like its not his fault. I like that about him.
Than he kept complementing me in class, like when I did my commercial, he said it was really good and he liked it...and when it was time to comment/critize my work, he said i had a very nice voice...
it was compliments after compliments..and little looks in between.
Than at the end of the class, I'm ready to go out the door..and there he is with this scorpio girl..and hes hugging her...I saw them..I made a quick eye contact with him while he was still hugging...and I just left after that.
Is he playing games?

I know his b-day is dec 4...but i cant remember if its 1980..or 1979..
hes 24...
and he was born in oklahoma..but i dont know what part...as soon as i find it...I will post his chart..and i can get some insight on this...like why do i like him..would it ever work?
bllllah. i dont know. i just cant get him off my mind

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astro junkie
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posted September 18, 2004 03:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for astro junkie     Edit/Delete Message
Virgo -

I noticed something about the way you speak about this guy in two posts now. This is based on pure logic - as in - if you take an actual Logic course in college-type logic.

Everything time you mention something about that guy's behavior which you thought was nice or admirable, there is also a possible alternative reason they could have acted that way. Yes, you have trouble for disillusionment like most of us, but I've got to give you a wake up call, and I hope it's not taken the wrong way, because it's like I were talking to my little sis.

Everytime you start daydreaming about a guy, wondering this and that, he loves me, he loves me not ... ask yourself one thing. How would you feel if that person became your boyfriend, but after spending 3 years of your life with him, he leaves you permanently, and for someone else.

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Peri
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posted September 18, 2004 07:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Peri     Edit/Delete Message
I am also falling for a Sag(moon in gemini, venus and mars conj in scorpio, merc in cappy, jupiter also in scorp, saturn in taurus) I just cannot resist his charms....ahh...so I understand you very well Virgo, good luck to you with him

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virgo
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posted September 20, 2004 04:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for virgo     Edit/Delete Message
thanks for the replies...

Its funny you mentioned Pisces astro..I just noticed I been surrounded by a lot of Pisces all the sudden. My brother is one..and my grandma just came here for a visit..and staying here for couple months and shes a Pisces. My first best friend, also a Pisces..I havnt talked to her in a year..and I just started talking to her yesterday...This guy in my acting class..I just found out hes a Pisces. I'm not really attracted to him. Hes not really my type.

Anyways..I just got back from class.
First, I just wanna say thanks for not getting annoyed by me and my complaining...or maybe you are but your not saying anything..if you are..just tell me and I'll shut up next time

but..um..today was probably the worse class.
I just feel so empty and stupid.
Its not fair you know...how come I cant have a bf...
I'm totally fine being by myself..but I've been like this for 18 years...dont you think I deserve a little something...
I may not be the best gf or know everything bout relashinship stuff...but I would try my best.
I'm not the clingy time..talking/seeing eachother 3 times a week is fine for me...
I barley care bout looks.
Today he came in..looked like he hadnt any sleep..and had a cold. I still thought he looked good.
I just dont feel he likes me...I KNOW he did..for the first couple days we met...I just felt it..it was obviouse...I dont think he cares anymore...its ok...usually its like that...some guy likes me for the first couple days than they loose intrest..maybe cause I cant look good everyday and dont have enough time to get ready...
I'm really hurt..cause i got attatched again..i have to see him everyday...I guess I'll get over it soon.
it seems I can ONLY like the guy...and nothing will never happen.

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astro junkie
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posted September 20, 2004 04:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for astro junkie     Edit/Delete Message
Who taught you to be so judgemental of yourself?

You can't live a full life like that. What if God took away someone you loved? Would you think you were being punished? Then God must be a Virgo to keep track of all these details ...

If you pick out 100 famous actresses, you'll find that even the most well-connected, most beautiful women in the world have relationship problems. Count your blessings or you will continue to go unnoticed!

"Big Sis"

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Yin
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posted September 20, 2004 06:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Yin     Edit/Delete Message
Beware of the Sag's attention span - they lose interest as soon as you show some interest in them.

Yeah, I got some bitter memories up my sleeve - don't ask.

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astro junkie
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posted September 20, 2004 07:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for astro junkie     Edit/Delete Message
When it comes to Sag, they are really good at figuring out your intentions. If early on they feel like you are looking for a "boyfriend" or "husband" or "committment", and if they are not willing or able to provide that for you, they're not going to stick around, and you're left going huh?

I've always been the same way if I thought someone was looking for "girlfriend" material, or someone they can introduce to their mom. I run the other way. It's very uncomfortable, and I'm not even a Sag.

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virgo
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posted September 20, 2004 10:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for virgo     Edit/Delete Message
I think I'm doing a lot better than this morning...thanks.
I was watching Johnny Depp today in "Whats Eating Guilbert Grape"...and in one scene the girl says "I dont really believe in beauty. It dosnt last. Your skin starts to wrinkle and your boobs might sag. Its what you do that really matters"
I liked the last line..
I just always been concerned about how I look, not really about anybody else..but just myself.
I spend almost 3 hours getting ready for class and I never think I never think I look good enough.
thats why somtimes I dont wanna talk to guys...or I just keep things to myself and be really secertive..it might something to do with my scorpio moon too..
But anyway...I'm not gonna be like this anymore.
And I think I'm over the sag now...I just really liked him.
I guess in a way they are kinda like Aquas. Dont show too much interest..or reveal yourself too much and get them guessing.
I wont bother too much with him anymore...
I'll talk to him if he says something or I might later start a conversation but I wont be paying too much attention to him anymore...
I'm gonna see how that works out.

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posted September 20, 2004 11:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for astro junkie     Edit/Delete Message
Good, you got your coolness back. Now you just have to duel it out with your personal demons. All of us with strong Scorpio influences have to. (It's like the law or something).

Are you able to show a lot of emotion, or channel a lot of emotion into your acting? You do have demons. Wanna be REALLY bad? Don't think about a guy once when you get ready for school. Just go however you first feel like going. Actors are incredibly creative people. Be creative. Think more about your EXPRESSION rather than your REPRESSION. Don't you like people who have the courage to be themselves?

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purple_scorp
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posted September 21, 2004 05:11 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for purple_scorp     Edit/Delete Message
Hi virgo,

I recently came out of a long-term relationship with a Sag man.

He was very clever with his words and he knew what to say at the right time. He was a wanderer - his mind, his eyes, his hands.

With your Scorp moon, I'm guessing that emotionally, he will be too much for you to handle because of jealousy, and that will be compounded with your "detailed" Virgo.

Run, don't walk - in the opposite direction.

Oh, btw - he had a girlfriend too, when I first met him.

purple_scorp

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puppyblew
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posted October 10, 2004 02:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for puppyblew     Edit/Delete Message
virgo, please go read my post on here. the "i finally did it" one. the differance is my teacher was my high school teacher and i am out of college by now. i thought he kind of liked me in high school. i didn't let it go at that. i had to start talking to him after i went to college. i could have sworn there was some sort of connection between us to -- if hundreds of emails from him don't prove anything i don't know what does. But, i believe i saw things that weren't always there. he never really did go out of bounds by insinuating he liked me - never. but, i thought that because he wrote me, ect.... well, the fact of the matter is that i wasted, i mean WASTED 4 years of my life wondering if he liked me, ect. don't let it happen to you. i think it has something to do with the relationship between teacher and student. i don't know. i just know that if i hadn't put him on such a high pedestal he would have been gone from my mind and dreams a long time ago. 4 years of dreaming and i finally get the guts to ask if i really dreamed his feelings and he never answers me. it's not worth the pain. dreams hurt when they burst. if you must, then make sure it's real -- on both sides.
love ya
~puppy~

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