posted September 16, 2004 07:40 PM         

Those of you with Venus in Aries could be best described as Cupid with a bow, releasing an arrow aimed at a specific target of your choice. Energetic, youthful and direct, lovers with Venus in Aries will not wait patiently for anything. You are active and forthright, no stranger to competition. Those with this placement are daring, freethinking, variety-seeking and enjoy discovering the bliss of love. Your emotions are changeable, fiery, perhaps even a bit on the explosive side. Although you will probably attract a number of people with your energetic lifestyle, beware of your less positive traits. Your self-centredness (which often borders on total self-absorption) may leave your pursuits wondering if there's room for two in this relationship. Remembering that others may not see things the way you do will enable you to keep things going. You will be happiest in a relationship that allows you to be true to yourself.

Aries,a cardinal fire sign can be bold and adventurous, or headstrong and impulsive. With Venus in this sign, you will tend to be passionate and impulsive in your reactions to matters concerning
love and affection, with a tendency to jump into things pretty
quickly. You will be persuasive and demonstrative in your
relationships, and not given to putting restraints on your
affections. You will need to control a self-seeking urge in your
relationships and may tend to be rather inconsiderate to those
loved, probably without realising it, due to an insistence on
doing your own thing, and lack of consideration for the other
person's feelings.
(Not sure what happened with paste above!! sorry for weirdness! lol!)

Not sure about the 'conquering' thing, maybe u like to dominate men to feel secure? Aries like to feel stonger, and Taurus secure, maybe a mixture of the two?
Remember you are a Taurus tho, so somewhere inside you, you have a LOT of patience!!

posted September 16, 2004 11:32 PM         

Look for Earth/Air risings to balance you.

Remember to be the "lady" in the room, and watch your expressions, and movements to make sure they reflect what you want to say about yourself. If you are ready to BE conquered, be sure adjust your reactions, and move more quietly.

I find men are intimidated by lots of movement and noise, I'm not kidding, I had to figure this out since I have a lot of fire in my chart. Don't compare yourself to other people, you are learning, and so you have to do that on your own. Be yourself, just be aware of the one you really care about.

Focus on listening, and imagine you are a singer about to sing a duet, not a dancer.

Remember patience is about balance and respect for yourself, if you show respect to yourself and to others, eventually you will get that back.

I have Venus in Aries and I have to believe in the end, you get what you give, be what you want to receive. And yes we do like to conquer, there's nothing wrong with that, the trick is finding someone who encourages you to pursue other things in life than him, so you can be a we.

I get along well with Libra, Virgo, Aries, some Gemini, and Scorpio men, they seem to like the chase, taming the woman through brains or just sheer stubborness. I wouldn't recommend, trying to tangle with an Aqua, unless he comes to you.

posted September 20, 2004 07:31 PM         

It's cool to me if we date other people too. I don't expect him to drop everyone and I'm not going to rush to do that either... I believe in open relationships as long as I'm #1 at least MOST of the time....or let me think I', #1. So the thing is, I know I could have him anytime I want. I just want to keep that choice/benefit/privilege for us to drop everything and get together on a moments' whim and the spark alive for a while - not just one time....maybe a few months? Should I string it along and wait a while before I bed him or go for it this weekend?

Also, any thoughts on Taurus/Taurus connections? My moon is Aquarius and his is Aries, both our Venus are Aries. My Mars is Taurus and his is Cancer. My ASC is Gemini, don't know his.....

posted October 10, 2004 04:05 AM         

Here goes:

The fellow Taurus Sun/Aires Venus man that I had (thought) I was seducing... I'm wondering if I've been too aggressive and wanting to much have control? I realize I want what I want when I want it. And I've observed he is like that too.

It's so hard not to take initiative, our attraction and chemistry is off the chain! (But is he only interested in sex?)

I also realize that I can be infatuated one week and then, cool off, not interested and on to someone else the next.

Us both being Taurus, I know that he doesn't like being bossed around - no matter who is doing it.

So he is an IT/computer whiz - that's what he does for a living. And for 2-3 weeks, we would email a lot throughout the day and text msg. And he took me to lunch 3-4 times in 2 weeks when we were at the same work-place.

Then I got a better (real) job about 10 min. away from his. I told him in an email that he was a distraction. And he replied "Sorry!" But I meant it as a compliment. I just started this new, challenging fun job in PR and I have to talk, write and communicate with the media all day, selling people and ideas for coverage. And i want to prove myself too. At the previous job (temp) I had all day to do nothing but answer the phone and email back and forth, flirting with him. Do you think i hurt his Pisces moon feelings? All he does is wait for people to call when something's wrong with their system and he (seems) has a lot of free time on his hands.

Then, with a text msg. exchange... I told him that i was growing weary of the computerized communication and i wanted some human/organic communication. Didn't hear from him... at all. I was asking for a phone call, to hear his voice, or see him. And got nothing. So that didn't work. That was Thursday. BY Friday, I gave in and called him at 6PM. (See I'm stuck on the who calls who first - the guy "should" call the girl more and it seems I was the one always calling... don't know, but I wanted to be pursued, not doing the pursuing anymore.)

He seemed to be happy to hear from me, he was driving and on his way to OC from LA and about to go through a tunnel and asked me if he could call me in an hour on my cel. (What tunnel, I don't know - but I'm not going to obsess here). I said OK. He also asked what i was doing that night (good sign i thought), i said i don't know. that was at 6PM Friday. It's early Sunday morning now, and... no call. I am not trying to make it mean anything. Am I being too impatient?

Note: I do have other suitors and plenty of friends and things to do. And he has someone else he's seeing, he said, but I'm not worried in the least about that. Not yet anyway. Why?

(sigh) men! Why does it have to be so complicated? When 2 people are attracted and know they are, why make the other wait? I HATE flakiness, inconsistency, and when guys don't do what they say they're going to do.

Did I mention that we had sex for about 60 sec. in my office? it was so risky and it was our first time, but it is a blur. but it was thrilling. so this is the part that causes some frustration as well. Pre-sex: communication everyday. Post-sex: less communciation. Coincidence? I know - I need to ask him this - not you all. But I hope at least i'm giving you some interesting reading.

He's obviously a ***** , but about ready to settle-down - almost.

he's 30, i'm 38.
Me: taurus-sun, aqua-moon, gemini-ASC,
aires-venus, taurus-mars.
Him: taurus-sun, picses-moon, ?-ASC, aires-venus, cancer-mars.

With those 2 key water placements, could he really be a kind and sensitive-type of fellow? But with that aires-venus, could he also be the conquer-seeking type? Once you got what you want, you move on? But it was just for one minute! I mean come on. I was robbed He owes me! And NOW he's being scarce?

posted October 10, 2004 10:47 AM         

I might not give you the best advice, or what you want to hear, but for what it's worth it seems my hunch was right about you HAVING to know you're #1. You want the openness and freedom, but you want to be #1. Guys, I'm learning, can be dull heads when it comes to newfangled forms of love, especially the kind an Aquarius Moon person is interested in trying out.

But I also noticed what to me is the culprit. His Mars in Cancer, which I'm sure you've seen me biatch about to no end because I've dated 3 guys IN A ROW with this placement, probably due to my Moon in Cancer.

My ex Mr. Taurus has similar energies as the two of you. He was Aqua Moon, Mercury in Gemini, Venus in Aries, Mars & Saturn in Cancer, Jupiter in Pisces, and Leo Rising. Talk about confusion of energies. He was not able to be consistent enough for me, can you see that with those placements?

And this guy you like has Moon in Pisces, which means he is even more ultra sensitive. The Aries impulsiveness in his chart may actually make him feel shame and guilt when all is said and done.

posted October 16, 2004 07:15 PM         

I would call him again on Monday and being upfront is not being bossy, or demanding.
Honesty is always good, ask him to be honest with you about why he didn't call back???

If you wait too long, you will never find out,

Good Luck,
as for him owing you..never push a pisces moon too hard, they just go away, they like secrets. He will act secretive and flirty all the time. Enjoy satisfying your curiousity

but once that's done, I don't know about the relationship, as a Venus in Aries myself I think sometimes it's better to explore and move on, I have no guilt about that.

posted October 18, 2004 11:28 PM         

Sometimes we forget who owes who a call,
and Pisces is forgetful, so I would call him to remind him that it's his turn.
Stubborn is one thing, but you are talking Pride. That's different, he just doesn't have the Pride you have as a Taurus. But pride will distance you, keep you from being intimates.

Intimate friends dont' have pride, they share everything, so you can be stubborn but don't give up on the intimacy factor, sharing personal thoughts, erasing boundaries,
that is more important at the start.

I know it's hard!
but pride has to go to make it good,
it wil always bounce back,