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scorpbaby
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From: Ny, USA
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posted September 17, 2004 10:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for scorpbaby     Edit/Delete Message
I saw Mr. Pisces last night,he told me I looked great,flattery takes me too far...And of course there was the infamous "eye communication" going on.

The first thing I asked him was if he's still with his girlfriend, he said he was(at least he's honest) I find myself being so secure and honest with him. I just am so straightfoward with him, and I feel safe. I never am that way with guys it's so strange. I know I could be with him if I wanted, but I'd be setting myself up for disappointment.

Should I just let him go?

I wished for him, really, sometimes I think willed it all, and then he appeared. I blame my mars singleton in the 12th.
It was all just another silly dream of mine....

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astro junkie
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posted September 17, 2004 01:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for astro junkie     Edit/Delete Message
This would be just my opinion, but, it seems you are doing what we are all guilty of doing at some time. It's as if you are looking for an "end product" as a result of the relationship. I say this because I have mostly Cardinal & Fixed signs and I know it can be so difficult to have that "go with the flow" attitude.

He has a girlfriend now. That does not mean he will always have a girlfriend. Take a deep breath, take it one day at a time. Think "Mutable"...

But this is not to say to lower your standards.

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scorpbaby
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posted September 17, 2004 02:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for scorpbaby     Edit/Delete Message
Thankyou for your words AJ.
I never really go with the flow, and I've been jumping the gun... thinking about the "end product". What's going on is bittersweet.
I could just dare to love but most likely I won't.
I'm too busy thinking about all the reprucussions.
He's a cautious guy too, probably not as easygoing as most Pisces.
He's got a Cappy moon & Venus it makes sense he's so commited to his girlfriend but why does he have something out for me, doesn't make sense
Yea he could just "want" something from me, but he's acts so respectful. Oh I wish I could read minds@!

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LibraSparkle
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posted September 17, 2004 02:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LibraSparkle     Edit/Delete Message
I'd be careful here. I dunno about the astro stuff...

But.. this guy's meeting with you even though he has a girlfriend (she prolly doesn't know). What's to say that if you do get with him, he won't do the same type of thing behind your back?

If he can be taken so easily from her, what's to say he can't just as easily be taken from you?

***This is just my opinion, and how I would look at the situation if I were in your position***

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scorpbaby
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From: Ny, USA
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posted September 17, 2004 03:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for scorpbaby     Edit/Delete Message
Hi LibraSparkle,
Well I'm not meeting up with him or seeing him in anyway like that. I just see him out sometimes on campus and it's only a flirtation between us. And he's not the flirtatious type, I think we just like eachother.
I don't think he's a cheat, which is great, and that's why I was hoping he wasn't with his girlfriend anymore. His girlfriend goes to a different college, in a whole different country even. I don't know his intentions you're right, he could very well be one to cheat on a girlfriend. I'm going to be cautious with this one, thats not a big change for me.

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