Posts: 52
From: chicago
Registered: Aug 2004

posted September 22, 2004 12:02 PM         

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Hey guys I have a question need your input...
Suppose the guy that your are dating best friend of 13 yrs sends you a text message asking you, can you guys go out. I realize that it maybe a test or whatever, but do you tell your guy or do you just tell the friend to beat it and keep it under your hat. I ask if you should tell cause thes guys haver been friends so long and I would hate even if I could to come in between their friendship. If I could nip and then I will do that. Plus I do not want to hurt my guy he is a Aqurius and you guys know the emphasis they put on friendship. His friend has been around for 13yrs and has helped my guy get through a many of things I know this. So what would you do????? I have already mad a decision just curious is to what you all think...

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From: Ontario, Canada
Registered: Aug 2003

posted September 22, 2004 12:28 PM         

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You should just say no.
Test or no test, it is wrong.
I know, believe me.

But.......

sometimes fate leads you to places that are uncomfortable, and yet.. fated.
You already have your answer.. I would be quite beside myself over the text message though... possibly a test..... one I wouldn't want to fail.. it's not like it's face to face and the sparks have been undeniable for years.
That might be a different story. the one you write for yourself..
That being said.. if 'asked out' in this way, it is your responsibility to be true to you, and what feels right.
I know your answer is no.

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From: chicago
Registered: Aug 2004

posted September 22, 2004 12:31 PM         

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Oh yes my answer Was HELL NO!!!!! I was not flattered at all....

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From: ireland
Registered: Sep 2004

posted October 08, 2004 02:20 PM         

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I would have just texted him back and said "i think you have the wrong number" and then when you see him give him an almighty stare!!!! Good luck xx

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Registered: May 2004

posted October 08, 2004 02:28 PM         

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Pixie, I love you.

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From: chicago
Registered: Aug 2004

posted October 08, 2004 02:48 PM         

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Yeah it has been handled he will not b trying me again believe that..

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posted October 08, 2004 06:03 PM         

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I would be discreet until I could figure out what the hail is going on.

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From: Ontario, Canada
Registered: Aug 2003

posted October 08, 2004 08:10 PM         

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Yin, I love you too.

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