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Topic: Transit During Break Up
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astro junkie
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posted October 06, 2004 10:45 PM
 
Wow Puppy - no wonder I could relate to your experience. I'm a Libra with Cancer Moon, Taurus Rising at 29.48 degrees.Are you having any of those "break-up" Transits with the NN, etc, like I mention at beginnning? IP: Logged |
astro junkie
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posted October 07, 2004 12:09 AM
For the hay of it, I researched Guy #3's Charts on astro.com, and I found some other things he has in common with Mr. L.Both have Uranus in their 10th House, and Neptune in their 12th House. But Guy #3 has A TON of really really harsh aspects, which I could sort of pick up on subtley. Just harsh Mars, Pluto & Saturn stuff giving him LOTS of power struggles in all aspects of his life. He also has some intense Uranus aspects which can make him impulsive to boot. Like, for a Libra like me, it would probably be easy to get sucked into petty arguments or power stuggles with this guy. That's probably why in the Composite, I was like AHHHHH!!!! Not good! But he's basically history, unless he wants to be a good boy and be friends. But he already started getting on my cloud with Mr. L, asking too many questions, making too may generalizations and assumptions. That Capricorn tendency towards being judgemental. I don't think Capricorns are that way because they know better, I think it comes from innocence which turns into ignorance if they are not careful. Like childhood images and cliche's seem so real to them. IP: Logged |
astro junkie
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posted October 07, 2004 03:02 AM
Wow - I just spoke to Mr L, we're trying to plan some time together, and he sounded very frustrated - and I asked him why, and as usual, he's a bit hesitant to talk about his emotions, but realizes that I have a way of making him feel comfortable doing so - then he hinted that it's about money. As you can imagine, this is difficult for a Cappy Mooner, much less any person. It also confirms what I've been feeling from him for a while, and much of it connected to family, so it's not so simple.I looked at his current Transits. As for aspects, he has Transiting Moon Square his MC, and Transiting Moon Square his Chiron in Taurus in his 4th - (security for his family?) As for House Transits, he has Neptune & Uranus still Transiting his 2nd House, and Uranus is almost on top of his Natal Par Fortune in Pisces in his 2nd House,(don't know if that last one is a strong influence). None of this phases me. IP: Logged |
sthenri
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From: Montreal, Canada
Registered: May 2003
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posted October 07, 2004 10:31 AM
Gloria, it sounds like he is trying to tell you how he feels through money problems-maybe you don't want to know about the finances, and he wants you to pay attention? It's accepting to ignore money problems but for some people, it's a cry for help emotionally.Maybe you could focus on small ways he could empower himself financially? Such as cutting expenses, or taking an inexpensive trip? Or preparing a meal together? Cappy moons usually like to cook. Natasha IP: Logged |
astro junkie
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posted October 07, 2004 10:54 AM
Natasha -Yes! This sounds right. And yes, I've had every intention of being a captive audience to his inner world, but he's basically created a boundary there. It's so silly because as friends, he would be more relaxed with me talking about money. That's why back when he told me he wasn't in love with me, and somehow I picked up on him meaning "YET", I concluded that he was trying to create more stability for both of us before inviting me into his world. I'm not hanging my heart on this, because I could be wrong, but I don't think I am. And Libra's don't like to feel like someone is coming into their life to bulldoze it, and we don't like demanding people. So I've been EXTREMELY patient, and I have infinite patience for him. But sometimes I try to figure out if I should find someone else to at least lie next to in bed (no sex). And when I try to sort of feel out what he would want, it's for me NOT TO. It's for me to be free to do what I want, but that if I want to be with him, to hold on. I hope he's not the type who will bring yet another situation to a dramatic head, where this time, I'd have to break down his door and apply electrodes to his brain. Shock treatment is not out of the question here. Like my favorite scene in "Moonstruck", when Cher slaps Nick Cage, "SNAP OUT OF IT!!" That scene gets me every time. Hee hee ... Thank you ... IP: Logged |
KarenSD
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From: San Diego CA USA
Registered: Sep 2004
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posted October 07, 2004 01:58 PM
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astro junkie
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posted October 07, 2004 04:43 PM
I KNOW! It's one of those I can never get sick of. Haven't we all been there?  IP: Logged |
puppyblew
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From: usa
Registered: Jul 2004
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posted October 08, 2004 02:56 AM
astro, we both have our true node in cancer, so yes, the stupid saturn transit is effecting that as well. go figure. 
my libra is also experiencing fincacial hardships. i think it must be something with the libra with cappy moon that they are galant enough to "refuse" romance until they feel they can provide for a woman. my libra and i had such a hard time breaking up. i would get so frustrated over him and his job and horrendous financial situation and we would break up and get back together all over again because i just couldn't be without him. the last time (of too numerous to count times)we broke up and i tried to make up he said that he was hurting me too much and would not date until he is financial ok, ect. i hope he does something about it! right now, i feel ok i guess as friends. i have grown alot even though it's only been a few months. that whole cappy deal (the other guy - jerk!) has certainly opened up my eyes to what a great guy he is (my libra).  IP: Logged | |
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