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Topic: Astrology in love/attraction?
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Raleigh21
Knowflake Posts: 5
From: Washington, DC USA
Registered: Oct 2004
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posted October 12, 2004 12:16 PM
 
Hey everyone I was just involved with a guy who I later found out had a girlfriend, so I cut things off (romantically) with him. We both said that we never had this kind of chemistry with another person at all, and I'm kind of skeptical of him saying that. I mean, on my end I knew how I felt, and I just felt "at home" with him since the day we met.He says that he just feels "natural" when he's around me, and that we have a kind of "all or nothing" thing going on. So I just wanted to know if there is anything in our signs, aspects, or charts that would further say what we both were saying. I don't know how to really interpret that stuff (I'm a beginner) so ANYTHING that ANYONE can point out would be greatly appreciated. thankyou. here are our aspects, etc... his synastry chart is below.
http://www.astro.com/cgi/chart.cgi?rs=&zod=&lang=&ast=&gm=a1&orbp=&btyp=61&sday=12&syr=2004&mth=gw&cid=qllfile8Ja9ws-u1075488141&hsy=&smon=10&nhor=2&nho2=1&go.x=9&go.y=7 here's the link to mines: http://www.astro.com/cgi/chart.cgi?rs=&ast=&gm=a1&btyp=61&sday=12&syr=2004&go.x=9&zod=&lang=&go.y=7&orbp=&mth=gw&cid=qllfile8Ja9ws-u1075488141&hsy=&smon=10&nhor=1&nho2=2&go.x=12&go .y=11 my planets: his: sun: 0 cap 32'5" sun: 20 vir 14'31"
moon: 20 pis 26'50" moon: 3 aqu 51'2"
mer: 18Cap 0'8" Mer: 5 Vir 42'54"
Ven: 12 Cap 23'51" Ven: 5 Sco 21'14"
Mars: 9 Aqu 43'27" Mars: 25 Lib 40'29"
Jupiter: 29 Sco 19'0" Jupt: 1 Leo 29'56"
Sat: 2 Sco 11'55" Sat: 6 Vir 5'25"
Uranus 6 sag 24'45" Uranus: 13 Sco 32'5"
Nept: 26 Sag 53'54" Nept: 15 Sag 37'7"
Pluto: 29 Lib 2'28" Pluto: 15 Lib 33'53"
Node: 4 Can 16'5d Node: 26 Vir 45"45"
Chiron: 23 Tau 29'58"r Chiron: 9 Tau 20'50"r
Ascendant: aries Ascendant: Leo again ANYTHING that someone can tell me will be greatly appreciated. thanks in advance. IP: Logged |
astro junkie
Moderator Posts: 4696
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Registered: Nov 2003
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posted October 12, 2004 07:08 PM
Raliegh -This is just one person's view on this. The Capricorn has more to offer than the other, and has more to lose. The Cap person brings optimisism to the other, and the bond they both feel have to do with Pluto/8th House, as well as Neptune/12 House - should I say - illusions of each other. Cap is getting the feeling it would work out in terms of what's important to themselves, but the other person may not have enough energy to pull the relationship off. As for karma or a long-term look, I'd say again, there is this optimisim, perhaps glimpses of each other's soul, but ultimately will be no more than a friendship. I'm sure you'll get other takes. .gloria  ------------------
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gert
Knowflake Posts: 16
From: south africa
Registered: Sep 2004
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posted October 13, 2004 05:57 AM
All I have to say is that its is not gonna be easy to forget about this person. Normaly when two peoples' ascendants are trine, the feeling of being at home with the person is further emphasised. I once met a girl who had her ascendant trine mine and although our sun and moon signs were incompatible,we managed to forge a relationship for a record breaking 8 months.
You both have your venuses in sextile and within close degrees, as well as your mars in trine which will make it more challenging for either of you to continue in your respective relationships.You may even settle to see each other in secret because the connection is so strong but don't let this happen as no relationship is ever successful if it is done in secret.If he really is serious about you he'll realise the connecion he has with you is rare and will do what he must to keep it. WARNING: with his mars in Libra this will take time.He may even compare you with his current love interest and list the pros and cons of his current relationship with her and the one that he''ll have with you. I have this placement in my chart (venus in scorpio and mars in Libra) and I must tell you that for me it is a challenge to tell someone whom I've been involved with that its over even if I have made my desired match with somebody else.If the girl his involved with is clingy and emotional, it might take even longer for him to break it off because mars in Libra do all they can to keep the peace and still be seen saints by their exes. IP: Logged |
Raleigh21
Knowflake Posts: 5
From: Washington, DC USA
Registered: Oct 2004
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posted October 13, 2004 08:35 AM
THANK YOU BOTH!!!!!!! (I am actually sitting up here grinning from ear to ear because you both were so on point, lol). I am the more optimistic person, and I have always thought that he has a problem "making decisions." lol. It's like even when we had a disagreement I told him to just say bye and end it and he wouldn't (he knew that if he would've said it, it would've really been over)...so rather than make a decision he just does nothing (that's what I say, but he'd say that he's using 'time' to make a decision)......I do feel that we have a bond, and I just was wondering was it mutual. I don't know much about the female he's involved with except that they became a couple 3 months before me. But no, I'm not going to see him in secret (although I knew that he would've been up for it). So we will see what happens. thank you guys again. IP: Logged |
Raleigh21
Knowflake Posts: 5
From: Washington, DC USA
Registered: Oct 2004
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posted October 13, 2004 08:53 AM
thank you both! (I tried to post a thank you earlier, so if this ends up being a double post sorry). Anyway, we were already involved romantically, but he didn't say that he had a girlfriend. Once I found out we stopped talking for 5 months, and in Aug. we started talking again. We were ALMOST about to go back down that "secret" role, when I decided that I wouldn't voluntarily make the same mistake again. So, we both decided that us being "friends" wouldn't work (at least not now) because our chemistry is too strong, although we will be "keeping in touch". ...I was smiling when reading it, because we do seem to share a bond, and I've always thought that he had a problem with decision making (drives me crazy sometimes, lol). And I am also the more optimistic one between us. It's funny because I know that he would have been willing to do the "secret" thing, but I told him that anything romantic is out. He claimed to respect me more for making that decision, so right now we are on distant but amicable terms. thanks again. And any other comments are still more than welcomed! IP: Logged | |
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