posted October 13, 2004 10:03 AM         

Maybe he is gay? Is he insecure about himself physically? Maybe he doesn't want to get involved, just want the physical closeness. Maybe he doesn't know how much you really want sex. Maybe he has specific fetishes, which are the only ways he can ...

posted October 13, 2004 03:17 PM         

We would end up okay, but I felt his motives were different than mine for being physical, less about emotional intensity, more about playful touching. I think Taurus moons prefer something more friendly because it says long term to them. Taurus moons feel objectified sometimes. Scorpio moons like more emotional intensity, so you two are better as friends unless you can communicate really well.

Pisces love to touch and cuddle, but are not exactly comfortable with mega sex. Pisces is never assertive about sex, even the males, so you will have to take the initiative, even if your fantasy is for him to take control.

Try asking him to direct you, how bad can it be if he's not that bossy? See where it goes, but tell him you want a man who can fulfill you on every level-that's a good way of putting it.

Otherwise he won't fulfill you on any level, due to inexperience or he may just be naive. With every couple, intimacy is unbalanced, too much intensity, or not enough, but make sure you have basic compatibility

Check our the emotional needs and energy levels you two have and compare, if it's not working your needs and energy levels may be too different. What about other needs, long term goals?

I have to say Scorpio moons have tons of energy, in every department.

posted October 13, 2004 03:41 PM         

My advice is this: you can't change someone into something you want them to be. I realize you have feelings for him, but believe me, 4 years without a physical relationship has made me indifferent towards my Libra. And your self-esteem takes a crushing blow, I'm still trying to convince myself that I'm not hideous. If he is not what you need, look elsewhere. Don't waste your time on someone who seems to want you around for certain reasons. Best of luck to you, and let us know what you decide to do.

Kat

PS-It is wonderful of you to love someone so much, and there are people out there who appreciate every bit of love they get. If only everyone could be that way.

posted October 13, 2004 07:35 PM         

Tyler pisces sun 12 degrees
rising sign gemini 24 degrees
moon in taurus 19 degrees
mercury in pisces 29 degrees
venus in capricorn 29 degrees
mars in pisces 3 degrees
jupiter in cancer 29 degrees
saturn in virgo 10 degrees
uranus in scorpio 20 degrees
neptune in sagittarius 20 degrees
pluto in libra 18 degrees
n.node in virgo 17 degrees

me virgo sun
rising sign virgo 4 degrees
moon in scorpio 16 degrees
mercury in virgo 7 degrees
venus in leo 23 degrees
mars in cancer 9 degrees
jupiter in cancer 3 degrees
saturn in leo 24 degrees
uranus in scorpio 9 degrees
neptune in sag 13 degrees
pluto in libra 13 degrees
n.node 15 degrees in libra

posted October 14, 2004 07:05 PM         

About your pisces guy: I know a few such guys and they're all a bit like your friend. I strongly suspect that he actually secretly wants to be dominated and I think you should take the lead! Honestly! And I kind of understand it too - I have a pisces moon and when it comes to love and sex I tend to hold back and wait for the other person to take charge, because I'm too shy to initiate anything. When he starts to feel more secure with you, he might start to show his more passionate side and maybe even dominate you!!! But i think you may have to do the leg work first.

posted October 15, 2004 12:55 PM         

Yes I would love your insight on this!
I got to see him last night,he's been working out of town for the last month.I think I'm just gonna have to get the nerve to romance him and sweep him off his feet.
And take the lead! He's so sensitive and it really brings my sensitive side out. With my Aries ex-husband it was a Fire Hot passionate realationship it was very aggressive and very sexual we both were.With My pisces guy it's a inocent type of realtionship more feeling,more deep emotional connection..we can talk about alot it's just hard to talk about us and how we feel about each other.
But we did talk last night about us.I think he's scared to commit,and I think he's really scared that i've got a 3 year old boy (Gemini).
He said we could try to have a realtionship when things slow down in his life...(o.k)
He jokingly said why don't you go out on the town with other guys why would you want a bum like me!? (O.K)
You can have any guy in the city--(one thing i really like about him he's always complimenting me)
I have found that he really likes it when i make him dinner(he loves food).

Another thing I found when I was at his place a couple old pictures of an ex-girlfriend on the top of his dresser.
a pair of womens underwear in his bathroom and condoms everywhere in his room on his table.He does have a roommate but....I do wonder if he's just playing me too.
My ex-husband(aries) cheated on me 5 times before I finally divorced him.

posted October 15, 2004 01:50 PM         

Let me say this first of all, that I know that most Pisces have wandering eyes and like to make EVERYONE feel sunny and happy. So we flirt. We flirt even with members of our own sex... not in an overt way (unless we're gay, of course, I am writing this strictly from a heterosexual point of view, no offense meant!) but the flirtation is always meant to make the person we are with feel nice and comfy.

However, if we truly feel we are loved in full and we really believe it and know it (which is rare!), there is nothing better than that feeling! So while we might still LOOK around (a lot), we are loyal to the end when feeling safe and loved. We want, no, we NEED, full acceptance of ourselves... and that means the understanding by our loved ones of all of our quirks and flaws and dreams and crankiness. Yes, in full, all the time, and remind us of it!.

Not sure Pisceans are cheaters (and I've been cheated on a few times, in very painful ways, once by an Aries, so I totally understand THAT one!) but the roving eye is a fact of the matter. Having condoms around is not a big deal.

And it wouldn't surprise me if the women's undies that are around serve as just a sweet reminder of someone. I have pix of my NICE exes, not of the ones who hurt me, but I do have them around. They're not out on the dresser; but a couple of them COULD be. Harmless, you know. They're not in my life other than friends, and I don't even talk to any of them, but I always consider my exes (the ones who didn't hurt me, that is, which are a couple) friends, even if we never speak to one another again. We hate losing people in our life....

But back to the undies... of course Pisces as a feminine sign, he could want those for more than just memories! I have a lot of guy clothes myself, and I also have some of my exes' clothes from past relationships!!! I don't keep them out and about but I know 'em in my closet and they make me smile sometimes!

WE LOVE FOOD. Yes, wine and dine us to the end. And personally, in a curious sort of way, I love how Virgos eat - cautiously and healthy 'cause it's good for me. I eat pretty carefully myself as a vegetarian, but that doesn't mean I don't loooooove food.

I'm surprised he doesn't talk about his feelings. I could do that all day. But the thing I understand, he may not feel comfortable doing that with you because the "vibe" may be a bit off. I have been able to talk about my feelings to the nth degree with others but with the Virgo guy I like right now, I don't think he can handle them, so I keep quiet. Who knows? He may be able to handle my emotions, but they are so deep and so REAL that I fear being too open. Your Pisces guy may sense that from YOU. So if you could perhaps put his mind at ease and let him know that you want to know how he feels and of what he dreams, make him feel comfortable that you are good to go with him being honest and open... that might open the door to more communication.

And communication is KEY.

I hope this helps!!!!

I'll be thinking of you and wishing you well.

posted October 20, 2004 06:51 AM         

Rising: Gemini and Virgo.
Match: Average match
Love to talk to each other, may find the other stimulating but apt not to take each other seriously!

Sun :Pisces and Virgo
Match:Excellent match.
Love style is sacrificial, selfless.Pisces loves to succumb and Virgo likes to organise.Made for each other!

moon Taurus and scorpio
match: average
Emotionaly complex scorpio may be irritated by tauruses plodding.Taurus may accuse scorpio of rocking the boat too often and unnecessarily.Difficult!

mercury: pisces and virgo
match:good
Virgo may feel that Pisces ideas too impractical.Pisces may feel virgo lacks imagination.Both are tolerant though so there should be no major problems.

venus: leo and capricorn
match: bad
Leo is demonstrative and passionate in love while capricorn prefers the less "flashy approach".Leo could find capricorn unresponsive and cold while cap will not like leos dramatic appeal in love.

mars: pisces and cancer
match: Excellent
Pisces and cancer understand each other and empathise with each other in every setting.Sex is not erotic rather tinged in fantasy and dreams.You both will prefer cuddling and staying in bed rather than facing the big bad world.Add some practicallity but otherwise an excellent pairing.