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From: Australia
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posted October 16, 2004 08:34 AM         

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I am dating a aquarius guy,I have been depressed for sometime due to trying to work him out,one minute he loves me the next he is very cold.I kept on feeling he was using me,he broke lots of promises to me.he says he cant cope with my depression and now he wants to be friends again,he confuses me all the time..I told him do you want me out of your life for good and he says no...im so confused when he does that to me...He was badly hurt bye a girl before and tells me he is scared of being hurt again...so we brake off and then he keeps comming back to me to start as friends and see what happens slowely...ITS DRIVING ME AROUND THE BEND...Im a sag.He also ignores me for a week or so and then acts like nothing has happened.

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From: ireland
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posted October 16, 2004 09:04 AM         

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Oh dear you poor thing - I was married to an aquarian with gemini rising and me being very much a scorpio nearly went mad - I was very intrigued by him but he was VERY detached and yes acted like everything was ok and couldn't handle my mood swings. I am now married to a guy with moon in aquarius and again the emotional thing is very difficult. One of my best male friends is aquarius rising and again it's like hitting your head against a brick wall. I do think though we are meant to spend time with them to learn. My suggestion, if you truly love him is dont try to understand him coz you never will and what you lack in the relationship seek in friends - hope this helps xxx

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posted October 16, 2004 09:07 AM         

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p.s. i think they make better friends rather than lovers, partners etc - but even then you will never know where you are with them!! xx

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posted October 18, 2004 12:38 PM         

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One of the things I've noticed about Aquarians and any Uranus influences or aspects, whether Natal, Synastry or Composite - Uranus in terms of relationships always seems to work out better if both people have a "live and let's see" attitude. You'll see the same advice when you read something in Synastry which involves a strong Uranus aspect or influence. It'll always say, the people involved cannot be trying to micromanage the relationship.

It's best not to have an "end" in sight, or in goal. Aquarians have a way of picking up on that quickly.

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From: chicago
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posted October 18, 2004 12:51 PM         

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You are so right AJ. Thats how the relationship that I am currently in is now.
I do not have a problem with that at all.
I like no pressure just having fun and enjoying ourselves. He is a Aqua and I am a Pisces. It was not like that at first I kind of had a goal(moving to fast)but he has taught me the art of patience and helped me to understand the importance of getting to know a person b 4 getting way to involved with them. And I like it cause I see so much doing this then ever b 4. What happens will happen. If ment to be will be.

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posted October 18, 2004 03:03 PM         

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That sounds like a sweet lesson.

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From: San Francisco, CA
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posted October 18, 2004 08:58 PM         

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I can't agree more with what Mamma Mia said. For an Aquarian to fall in love, he/she must feel "free" to do so. If they feel they are being pressured or roped in, they will almost always run.

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