posted November 11, 2004 07:52 PM              

You'll know her right away. She's the charming little thing who in her youth had all the men helping her carry her paycheck home from work. She had the looks and personality to win many a heart and the quest for a new sexual partner. I think she was looking for some constructive outlet like being a mother, and it got all mixed up. Life hands her so many bonuses and yet, she never seems to connect. She manages to turn the terrific job, the devoted husband, and the great family into shambles because she can't say no - to the opposite sex, or over indulgence in drink, or shopping sprees. She never meant to hurt anybody, least of all herself, she was just directionless. About age of thirty-five she'll have a major turning point in her life, a real awakening. If this doesn't shake her out of her dilemma, chances are she'll continue on her course of self destruction. She's basically kind and gentle in nature. Her emotions are just too yielding for everyone's own good. She needs a good support group to keep her working on a solid footing within the home and professional community. If you're a very nurturing individual and have lots of energy to assist her in her everyday affairs, and can stand the sting of an infidelity now and then, I think you've found just the one for you. She can be fun and impish. Maybe you'll want to wait until after she's had her crisis. She'd be excellent in real estate (people do love her), or interior decorating. As a mother she's loving and yes undependable. She really needs her Cancer, or a Scorpio who has risen out of his own ashes. She seems to be most attracted to other Libras or Libra Moon men though.

posted November 13, 2004 10:11 AM              

she strikes me more as the libra-leo through interpretation...but she is full of insecurities i can identify with...true cancerian insecurities and issues....

posted November 14, 2004 09:03 AM              

An iron will, nerves of steel, and a heart of stone. He won't be flattered, cajoled, manipulated, or controlled. You know the odd part of all this? He would love to have his dream come true and have some fair maiden bring out his sweet, gentle side. I don't know what it will take and neither does he, but he is like Scrooge at Christmas. He really wants to do something nice for other people. He just doesn't want to get hurt or to be taken advantage of. That is what makes his barriers so concrete hard. His defences are elaborate. Try to compliment him. First you get the ice cold stare, then a stern nod, and finally the slight blush when he realizes you really mean it. Then he is delighted. He starts to like you. He is timid for all his ferocity. You could take your time and sneak up on him this way. Why bother? because here is a man who knows what loyalty and devotion are all about. He is also a man who will keep the wolves away from your beautiful oak carved, stained glass door. He is excellent provider, father, and a very decent human being. But, like I said earlier, he is going to have to have an awakening. And you know what? He can turn out to be a good companion. He has a silly side. Laughing makes him feel good, and once he gets hooked on that he is very sexually demanding. Like everything else he does for you, he will want to do it the best he possibly can. You will have to go after this man. One, he stays home a lot - he feels secure there. Two, he works obsessively. His secretary stands a strong chance. Especially if she is a Cancer, Pisces, or a Taurus who can be on time.

posted November 21, 2004 02:53 PM              

This woman finds exercise, health foods, and all those awful things come quite naturally to her. And on her they look good. While the early part of her life may not be so easy, as she ages she finds herself and obtains her security. Security is vital to her. Ask her to move about and she gets nervous. Her stomach will ache and ulcers could develop. She's deeply emotional, don't let her Virgo exterior fool you. Because she's logical and clear thinking on most matters, don't imagine she can't lose it over you, threatening her very existence. In spite of her reserve, and yes, dignity, upset her and you'll see her turbulent, excessive emotions explode. She can out seethe, out tantrum, and hold a grudge better than anyone alive. She won't care who knows about the outbursts when they're in progress, but she'll care later when her reserved side takes over. She's a natural with computers, nutrition, insurance matters, or social work. The boss will adore her, her co-workers have mixed feelings (she can be snappish). But no matter, she'll do well in her profession. She can advance rapidly. She'll keep the company secrets. She'll be on time, and she'll work hard. At home she's not the most industrious housekeeper, nor the most capable mother. Oftentimes her children get by with murder. Her husband won't have such leeway, however. In fact, he may have some real solid problems keeping her temper down and her domesticity up. She oftentimes becomes leary after the first relationship or marriage that didn't live up to its promise. The next man will pay. She'll be suspicious of the new man possessing not only his own flaws but the ones from the previous relationships. She was probably one of the women who told me, "There are not 144 types of men, there's only one - rotten." She's going to need you to be a man among men - tolerant, cooperative, and understanding of her quirks. If you pass the test you could have yourself quite a catch. Best chances are Cancer, Taurus, or Virgo. The Leo, Sagittarius or Aries will make her act like an ugly witch.

Her Illumination: Solid
Her Dark Side: Suspicious

posted November 21, 2004 03:04 PM              

Here is a man who goes from one infatuation to another. Unless you can handle his inconsistencies, and understand that something happened to him as a child that he can't recover from easily, you are going to have your hands full. Maybe his parents were separative, combative or lukewarm in their affections. Regardless, this left scars, and for him it is easier to fall in and out of love than to work on making a relationship last. He has a lot of charm once you understand what makes him tick. He is probably very talented in the arts, but severely lacking in direction. This is where you come into the picture. He needs your direction. He tends to build his castles in the sand, but with a little solid structure could end up with a wonderful career as a teacher or mentor; maybe an inventor. His co-workers admire him. He needs a real steamroller behind him to spur him on. The early 1980's were brutal to this man and he is just now fuly recovering. he likes to have full support and approval for his actions and plans from those closest to him. If he does not have this, and goes ahead with his plans, then he has terrible bouts with guilt. He also has the emotional problem of letting go of the past. He is not as quick to act as the average Arian. This is a good thing as he does not have the physical stamina of most of the other Aries configurations. Since the right choice of a partner is so vital to him, I will suggest all that I can because he's a decent husband and father. He needs an earth/fire sign combination to get him rolling. A Leo or Sagittarius with a Taurus Moon would be just what the astrologer ordered. A Libra who has her Moon in Leo or an Aries would do well with him also. The Libra Moon always attracts people, so the girls should be pretty well lined up for this one. Ms Right must be a caretaker and wonderfully lovely to look at to sustain his affection.

posted November 21, 2004 03:12 PM              

This one is so ramantic and captivating that right away you're hooked. Please stand back and take a good look. She has a way of spinning a tale of woe that may not be factual, but that leaves you ready to beat on your chest proclaiming how you, Tarzan, can take care of Jane. Believe me, this Jane can take care of herself - she can, but rarely has to. She usually marries well and lives a life of ease and comfort. She also tosses in a few tawdry little liasons under oh, such proper cover. As a wife, she's a chaotic. She puts her husband through some unhappy times indeed. As a mother, she can alternate between doting and total inattention, depending on the child. If she can get by, and she can, without working she will. If she were to have co-workers she'd consider them inferior on sight, and they'd know it instantly. She's not therefore immensely popular with females. Ah, but she should care! She's blessed with good fortune all her life, although she totally denies this because she considers living on the golf course a sad fate indeed. Anyone knows the correct address is in Beverly Hills. She'll spend your last dime to get her nails done. Why then are you so besotted? Because she's crafty and charming and funny, and you are defending her to me already. I know. Yes, I'm fully aware that she calls you Daddy, and that she needs you to help her with "things". She's just a helpless little girl at heart, and you're the best thing that has ever happened to her. You may very well be, or she'd be with someone else. I picture her in about 40 years coming down the staircase like Gloria Swanson in the classic Sunset Boulevard. Please give me this: Try two dates with a real person. It's not good for both of you to love the same body. Who she hooks easiest: An Aquarius or Libra Moon, or a Scorpio or Aries macho man.

posted November 23, 2004 07:52 PM              

This is the lady with the talk show hostess personality. She can lead, inspire, debate, and delve into your deep, dark secrets, and you feel like she becomes your friend in the process. She isn't afraid to share her thoughts and feelings with others. In this respect she's the least typical of the Scorpios. She wants to roam, not cling, to soar, not sting or crawl about. She's determined to get ahead, and romance may play seco\nd to her career. She wants power, and her determination and single-minded purpose is the currency she uses to pay her way. Yes, she'll use you to get ahead. She'll never admit it to you, but her Sagittarius Moon finds it unforgivable and picks at her conscience, denying her rationalizations. Even if it seems she doesn't pay for her misdeeds, her Moon keeps taunting her to strive to be a better person. This one will hunt and fish with you. You can take her to Africa and she'll outshoot you and the rest of the hunters. She's ardent in her approach to life, and she's blunt and opinionated. The 1980s have do\ne more to create change in her life than the planets will do for decades. If you find her uprooting her life, making sweeping changes as a result, please bear with her. She should survive the transition all to the betterment of her and her relationships. Stormy weather is predicted for her most of her life, but she fares well whatever the climate because she can survive. She may be intemperate, dogmatic and nearly impossible from time to time, but she'll make it. If you work for or with her, brace yourself for lots of changes. In her own way she tries to be kind with everyone, however. As a wife, I suspect you've figured her for something less than a dependent, clinging vine sort. You may have lots of bowls of cereal for dinner. The children will be mostly your responsibility. The Aries falls hard, the Scorpio Moon or Sun feels compelled to be with her. The Pisces gets wiped out.

posted November 23, 2004 08:03 PM              

This is a real type B personality. A little prone to procrastination and laziness. The teaming up of two air signs leaves a personality that is easygoing, intelligent and that spends most of his life caught up in his ideas. He is light and airy, and like the restless wind, prefer to wander. He travels, not necessarily abroad, extensively. He is always on the go. He hasn't any hard and fast goals. He is much more a spur-of-the-moment person. If however, he is lucky enough to land in the fields of promotion, public speaking, teaching or travel-related areas, he will take on more stability. He is persuasive and has a good sense of what is and is not marketable. How to cope with this man? Change your intrest every few weeks, change your topic of conversation every few minutes, your hair color and your state of emotions. Then talk like crazy the few moments he is quiet. Do you look like the lady in red? Good for you. It'll drive him crazy. He loves a beautiful woman. Wear lots of jewelry. Dress with drama. Put "Woman's Wear Daily" to shame. Praise him. Flatter him. Talk softly and carry a big boa. He may even give some thought to wandering back to you from time to time. Why bother? Beacause he is so charming, and usually quite appealing, to boot. And think of the challenge. Chances are, he will not make tons of money. But, he will want to spend what he can to beautify his home and you. He'll help you shop for the children's clothes, and he'll read them bedtime stories. He isn't usually a drunk (well, maybe if he was born during the 1940s or in the early morning hours) nor is he typically a wife-beater or a compulsive gambler. He is sweetness and light, and he will be intellectually romantic. What does that mean, you ask? Get to know him better. It'll knock you off you satin slippers. Best bet: Libra, Aquarius, Gemini or Taurus.

posted November 23, 2004 08:13 PM              

Sensitive and overly emotional, this man puts each and every woman he likes on a pedestal. As soon as he finds the flaws, she begins to topple from her stand. Each affair, and there will be many, is deep and meaningful while it lasts. It is just that he feels very let down that the perfect woman of his dreams was just human after all. His common sense will never tell him that the flawless woman does not exist. It is simply too harsh a reality. He will therefore, be inclined to periods of depression, overindulgence, intemperance. He weaves drama into everything. His day takes on colors and feelings unknown to the rest of the world. He has, with the exception of romance, an almost sixth sense into people. He belongs working in or around hospitals, institutions, the sick and the poor. His love humanity extends to his over-protected children. Oddly enough, he can handle the disharmony of these surroundings, because he feels he is almost on a mission to better their lives. However, your hanging around the house in an old bathrobe, or heaven forbid, allowing him to see you with rollers in your hair, will leave him devastated. The vision of you in that condition will haunt him as he sees his co-workers in their nice business clothes, fully made up. Then the need to flee to comfort of a prettier set of arms arises, right there by the water cooler. Multiple relationships are not unusual for this man. He possesses a quiet, sweet charm, and a just and fair way of handling people that lures many a woman into his bed. He is sensitive to drugs and to sugar. It is important for his mental health to have a diet free of sugar, and a lifestyle free of drugs. Another beautiful Libra, a sensitive Pisces, Cancer, or a devoted Taurus are his best matches.

posted November 24, 2004 09:30 AM              

There's only 2 things I disagree with though. I love children and would prefer being a stay-at-home mom (with a small home-run business) than leaving the kids with dad and working. No bowls of cereal for dinner in my house. Full-course breakfast and dinner with the entire family at the table.

And romance being second to career. I prefer to have an even balance of both. Maybe it's my Gemini ascendent.

posted November 25, 2004 07:17 PM              

Jut as the man with this configuration eventually tries to do something for the betterment of mankind at his own expense and sacrifice, so will this lady. She's unassuming, friendly, yet intuitively wise about people and their motives. It's for this reason that her insights often lead her to spiritual pursuits, religious undertakings, or the fields of healing. Whatever her shortcomings personally, she gives more than she takes. She's a very decent human being who'll leave the world a better place for her having inhabited it. Not overly ambitious, she can in fact appear lazy. She's simply tuned in to higher things than career and salary increases. Fortunately, the universe has a way of lending her a helping hand, and she's often lucky in material affairs in spite of herself. This is especially fortunate because she has periods of near recluse during her life, along with periods of phobias and acute anxieties. Her whole life is an oddity of being too insightful and too fanciful. Blame this alternating on the troublesome Pisces Moon with all its shadings of intemperance. She's a warm co-worker and a delightful parrent. As a wife she's elusive, with almost no pretences or complications aside from her complex visions and insights. In social situations she's a shadowy figure that everyone notices by her vague presence there. This dichotomy leads to many misconceptions abut her, as well as much gossip. She's simply light years ahead of the rest of us, although it doesn't manifest itself in the form of education. She can, in fact, be a poor student due to inattention. She has a spark of genius. Eventually the switch will be turned on and she can finally follow her own course in life. She may outgrow most men. She could use a match to her Sun or Moon, or a Cancer would be oh, so nice.

posted November 27, 2004 01:00 PM            

New here and saw this wonderful thread.

Can you do this combo for me?

He: Leo Sun/Cancer Moon
Her: Taurus Sun/Cancer Moon

posted November 29, 2004 05:33 PM              

The Sun is the ruler of Leo, and the Moon is the ruler of Cancer. Here we find the planets in their dignity, or simply put, where they belong. Dignity is the word that describes this man well. He is a perfect gentleman, and charmer. He has a soft way of presenting himselfthat commands everyone's attention. He can do exceptionally well in the boardroom, or the bedroom. He can be a real heartbreaker, and whose gets broken the most often? Mr. Leo-Cancer. Part of the reason, is that he sometimes slips on his code of ethics (he couldn't resist her advances), or inadvertently lets someone down. When he settles down, he wants to provide the best and most lavish for his wife and family. If he fails to be able to do so (and this usually won't happen) he is devastated. Think of him as a young, idealistic Gregory Peck type in "To Kill a Mockingbird". He is genuine, sincere and loyal, whether at work or at home. Imagine how he would hate to not be the best friend, or best lover that you have ever known. Handle him with care, as he is sensitive, and oh, so adorable. Okay, so you want to know his flaw. Well, he does have a quick and nasty temper. He is prone to depression when he gets emotionally hurt. Often, this manifests in backaches and stomachaches. He receives impressions much like a mold. A lot of his happiness depends on you. He needs to be babied, but he'll be worth it. He will love your children as much as his. He will smile as he helps you with the household or cooking chores. Just keep in mind, he is still the King as he helps you wash the dishes. Don't demand anything, and he will do his best to give you everything. He is a sucker for pretty girls; dainty and curvy, feminine and fragile. A Cancer Sun and Leo Moon is, of course, perfect. A Sagittarian or Pisces is a good match also.