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hereisgone
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posted November 17, 2004 05:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hereisgone     Edit/Delete Message
Don't know why I haven't seen this forum before. But anyway, just thought I'd post that I haven't seen the Taurus man (see LOL forum - Snowball's Chance?) for over 2 weeks now. At first it was driving me crazy, now I'm ok with it, though definitely not over him.

I'm worried that, even though he said he was interested, he'll either forget about me or find someone else he likes better. Is this reasonable or just my own paranoia? Maybe a little of both? Anyone know a good website dedicated to understanding Taurean men?

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Teo Torriatte
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posted November 19, 2004 06:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Teo Torriatte     Edit/Delete Message
Hi there,
don't know if you have already seen, but there is an interesting thread on Taurean men and relationships over in the Astrology forum which you might find helpful. I think it's title is Taurus sun/taurus moon.

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LibraSparkle
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posted November 19, 2004 11:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LibraSparkle     Edit/Delete Message
My hubby and bro-in-law are both Tauras men... Maybe I could answer some questions.

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hereisgone
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posted November 23, 2004 12:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hereisgone     Edit/Delete Message
Teo - Thanks so much! I have no idea how I missed that. It gives so much info and explains alot about him.

LS - 2 Taurean men, how do you manage? This one is driving me crazy and I haven't even talked him in 3 weeks (and only seen him once). LOL.

I have 3 planets in Scorpio and 3 in Virgo, so as you can imagine, I want to know every single last detail. I got 2 more boxes of nerds today (his favorite candy) and can't decide whether or not to put those out for him like I did the others. It's driving me crazy that I don't know if his mind is made up about me already or if he's still trying to figure it out. If the latter, wouldn't he come around once in awhile?

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LibraSparkle
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posted November 23, 2004 12:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LibraSparkle     Edit/Delete Message
Give him the candy!

Taurus people only think of Food and Sex (well, and keeping a bunch of useless crap that gets on this Libra's nerves).

You probably don't want to throw sex at him right away... Food's a good place to start

I still think you should invite him over for dinner. I'm telling you, really... Good food is an excellent way into a Taurus man's heart.

hehe... I manage alright. I only have to live with one of them I only see my brother in law a few times a week, and even that's usually only in passing as we collect our kids from school.

Oh... and BTW, FLIRT girl! Work it!

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hereisgone
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posted November 23, 2004 04:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hereisgone     Edit/Delete Message
I've decided to put the candy out for him next week when he comes back (deer season + Thanksgiving = almost no one is working).

Oh how I would LOVE to invite him over for dinner. My worry is him telling a friend to tell me to "give it some time".

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hereisgone
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posted November 23, 2004 04:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hereisgone     Edit/Delete Message
I went to astro.com and made up a natal chart putting 'unknown' as the time of birth. It put in hypothetical noon, and got these results.

Sun - Taurus
Moon - Libra
Mercury - Taurus
Venus - Aries
Mars - Aries
Jupiter - Gemini
Saturn - Leo
Uranus - Scorpio
Neptune - Sagittarius
Pluto - Libra
True Node - Libra
Chiron - Taurus


And here's mine:

Sun - Scorpio
Moon - Sagittarius
Mercury - Scorpio
Venus - Sagittarius
Mars - Virgo
Jupiter - Virgo
Saturn - Virgo
Uranus - Scorpio
Neptune - Sagittarius
Pluto - Libra
True Node - Virgo
Chiron - Taurus


Doesn't seem like we have anything in common. And since I can't get his exact time of birth, I can only guess that maybe half of this is right. How many times to planets change signs each day? Since I know the day, but not the time, could these be at least close?

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Yin
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posted November 23, 2004 04:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Yin     Edit/Delete Message
No worries - Taurus men are very sluggish. It might take him some time to make up his mind!

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maroon_flower
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posted December 11, 2004 02:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for maroon_flower     Edit/Delete Message
Hi, a warm hello to all. Yep, i too have my heart set on a taurus guy..and slow is an understatement! I mean, he writes me lovely emails.. he is so nice/funny and we chat for 5 hours then, suddenly i dont hear from him for 2 weeks. Doesnt even reply my sms/emails..claims he's been very busy with work. Is he upset with me? Or is he just taking his own sweet time? Sigh!
I know.. I know.. i guess patience is a virtue...that i sorely lack.
Any insight, lovely people?

Peace & Love.

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maroon_flower
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posted December 11, 2004 02:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for maroon_flower     Edit/Delete Message
Oops, sorry to have barged in on your thread like that ..by the way, how are things going with you and your taurus guy, Hereisgone?
Hope you both are happy.

Peace & Love !

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sthenri
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posted December 12, 2004 01:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sthenri     Edit/Delete Message
He could be going through a lot of stuff right now and needs to be alone. It's meant to be that way. That's my experience, with Taurus, there are highs and lows and they know when they need to alone. Taurus is artistic always, no matter what, and chances are he needs to create, it's an urge that just comes over us sometimes and we forget everything else.

Be resigned that it's a good thing, and I am sure he will be fine. He will pick up on your worry later too and won't have a clue what he did, so try not to be anxious. I am that way too, totally clueless as to what I did wrong, if I did nothing. Especially Scorpios need lots of contact and I forget that.

Remember that Taurus is going through some tough times with Neptune in Aquarius squaring our suns. We are breaking with ideals and looking for a better way to live, and work.

This is totally unlike the way it was before, home and family are somewhat less important know, instead emphasize inner growth and change. Try having a conversation about change.

Natasha
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maroon_flower
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posted December 13, 2004 06:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for maroon_flower     Edit/Delete Message
Gee, thanx Natasha ! What u said rings so true.. He is currently creating a new business and i know he is so excited with it.He is happy when he tells me all about it. Like a much loved hobby. Yeay.. as long as he's ok, then i guess i can calmly go about me own stuff. hmm, interesting.. i didnt realise that scorpions need constant contact.. suppose that explains a fair bit. he he . I'm still a wee babe in this wonderful world of astro!

Peace & Love !
Scorp/pisces with taurus rising


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hereisgone
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posted December 13, 2004 10:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hereisgone     Edit/Delete Message
I'm glad to see this thread come back to life.

As for Mr. Taurus, not good. I'm pretty sure he's not coming back. Haven't seen him in about 5 weeks now, I think it is. I've lost track of time, it just seems like forever. I decided to start my own little recovery program called MR (Mike Recovery), lol. I'm on day 15 now. Some days are better than others. But I know he's better off, and I just want him to be happy.

I was thinking last night how crazy it's all been. I got so attached to someone with whom I've never even had a real conversation with. Just being around him made me feel happy, warm, safe, etc, etc. At the same time, it was so obvious never to work out; I just didn't want to see it. A coworker asked if he had a gf. He told her yes, for 5 months, but it was just a fling. All I paid attention to was the fling part, without realizing that Taurus typically doesn't like change and is very devoted to loved ones. I just hope she loves him as much as I'm sure he loves her.

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maroon_flower
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posted December 13, 2004 11:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for maroon_flower     Edit/Delete Message
Hi Hereisgone !
Well , tis a pity he wasted the chance to get to know u better. Perhaps he has been busy... and not thinking of another lady as u suspect. As sthenri has said :
" Remember that Taurus is going through some tough times with Neptune in Aquarius squaring our suns. We are breaking with ideals and looking for a better way to live, and work. This is totally unlike the way it was before, home and family are somewhat less important know, instead emphasize inner growth and change. Try having a conversation about change."

What better way than to get it from the horses mouth? Would it help if you called him up and asked him how he was etc? A light conversation.. Dunno.. as they say, it aint over till the fat lady sings. Is one last try worthwhile!?

Any taureans reckon otherwise? Two loving scorps in the dark here...

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"Giving up doesn't always mean you are weak. Sometimes it means that you are strong enough to let go".

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hereisgone
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posted December 13, 2004 12:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hereisgone     Edit/Delete Message
Yeah, but I don't want to get my hopes up just to get hurt again. Rejection is my greatest fear.

LOL, I was just thinking... one night last week some dishes I had in the drainer settled and made a loud noise. Scared the crap outta me and before I could catch myself I yelled "MIKE!" My neighbors must've thought I was crazy.

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sthenri
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posted December 13, 2004 01:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sthenri     Edit/Delete Message
Well, yes when a man is going to reject a woman, he wont' tell her. He just stops calling. men are terrible at breaking it off with anyone, and he probably did feel something for you.

If you call him, he will either blurt out don't call me I have a girlfriend and hurt your feelings.
Or say what's this about???
Either way it's not what you want.

But if you want to initiate contact just to say Hi, you can. You won't be able to push it to the next level such as le'ts meet for coffee? Because you can't see his face and may misjudge his niceness. So you can ask him if he'll be around or if he'd like to call and chat sometime? But I would only do that if he sounds really passionate about hearing from you, instead of nice and polite. men are usually nice and polite to every woman.

A call just to say Hi, I called to see how you were these days? come by and chat sometime, and if he asks where to, say anywhere, home, work, office, be open. Then let him make a move.

It's just that men always do that, stop calling but it could be that you were too nice and he didn't feel a spark of interest from you, as you say there was no real conversation.

Either it will hurt your feelings, or you will still wonder, but at least his ego will be stroked.

It's not a perfect method, but calling men is sometimes satisfying!

I know what you are going through! I went through this with someone this year, and he told me he had met someone very special and wanted to talk about her. I was pretty angry and we couldn't be friends. So decide if you want to listen to him talk about his girl now, because if you don't, I wouldn't call until you are. Men are funny that way, they will obsess about her to everyone, not thinking that other women are really interested.

Personally I would not leave a phone message, and if he's not there, hang up without one. Calling him at work is better for him, he'll be more lively.

If he's interested don't hesitate to propose a conversation over coffee or his choice of beverage, and offer to pay.

That's my advice, but I have been around Earth men before and they are difficult sometimes to get a rise out of. If you do get him alone, make sure to make a move of some sort, such as a hug, or at least a pat on the arm. If he doesn't offer another time to get together, let it go.

Take Care,
Natasha

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hereisgone
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posted December 13, 2004 05:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hereisgone     Edit/Delete Message
Well, there will be no phone calls. I don't have his number.

It's strange that this topic came back up today. Just a bit ago, a coworker who works downstairs (she was my "spy" when he was here, lol) called to tell me he was downstairs getting lunch. She kept telling me to come downstairs. I really wanted to, but didn't. These past weeks have been so hard; if I saw him now, I'd burst like a floodgate, I just know it. He already knows I like him. If he's interested he has to say or do something. I can't do anymore. If I kept after him like I was and eventually won him over, I'd always doubt his sincerity. Already I'm doubting his flirting (maybe he was just being playful and friendly).

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maroon_flower
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posted December 16, 2004 08:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for maroon_flower     Edit/Delete Message


I guess if its meant to be, then it'll surely happen...somehow, someway ...In the meanwhile, I'll just have to try to be cheerful, feel the sun shine.. and live life like there's no tomorrow!!

A big understanding hug to all da women hopelessly in love with slow-to-make-up-his-mind Taurus !!

peace & love!

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maroon_flower
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posted December 16, 2004 08:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for maroon_flower     Edit/Delete Message
Hereisgone, what if ur guy is shy to approach you..? Or that he reckons u are popular and so will definitely already have a guy. I mean.. here we are, obsessing about his motives, when.. he could be equally lost.. not knowing how to get in touch with u .. without facing rejection? Sigh, i truly wish i could be of some help ... i know, I know..i'm thinkin like a scorpion..and probably giving u ideas u've already figured out yerself.

Couldnt ur friend find out more real info.. i mean.. if he really has a girlfriend or was he just tryin to act macho by saying she was a fling etc.. ? Just a thought. :blueheart:

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princess_aqua
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posted February 23, 2005 01:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for princess_aqua     Edit/Delete Message
I dated a taurus man for more than 3 years and I must say that the way to a Taurus heart is through his stomach! They love women who can cook. It's a big bonus!

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maroon_flower
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posted February 23, 2005 07:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for maroon_flower     Edit/Delete Message
Yup..food seems to be THE key to the bull's heart and senses. But, getting them interested enough to stop by ones kitchen is the problemo! Why oh why do they take almost eternity to make up their minds? he he.. patience..yup, the virtue i sorely lack... esp when in love!!

Hmmm... but their tempers are also supposedly umm.. dynamito! Not sure i could tolerate an encounter. Ah well.. the arrow has struck,I suppose i ought to run along and polish me culinary skills... just incase he's finally decided that i measure up. And even if he doesnt, atleast i'll have a nice smelling kitchen with lotsa yummy food!!

Peace &


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