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Topic: Is Venus in Scorpio too Possessive?
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sweetlibra Knowflake Posts: 573 From: Registered: Oct 2004
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posted November 20, 2004 03:21 AM
HiI was wondering lately if i am too possessive..! I mean i always consciously make an effort not to be too possessive The funny part is that i wanted my partner to give me complete freedom which i give him unwillingly I am libra with Taurus rising. My chart is Sun Libra (6th house) Moon Aquarius (10th house) Mercury Libra (6th house) Venus Scorpio (7th house) Mars Scorpio (7 th house) Jupiter Leo (4th house) Saturn Virgo (5th house) Uranus Scorpio (7th house) Neptune Sagittarius(8th house) Pluto Libra (6th house) True Node Virgo (5th house) Hope this information is relevant Thanks for your valuable time and patience
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astro junkie Moderator Posts: 7827 From: Registered: Nov 2003
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posted November 20, 2004 10:33 AM
You have some great placements which will allow you to adapt to these feelings. I think it also has something to do with the 7th House placement of all that Scorpio, Plus, do you have any Natal aspects from either Venus, Mars or Uranus to your Neptune, which is in the 8th House (which is ruled by Scorpio.)IP: Logged |
Virgo-AriesArtist Moderator Posts: 1285 From: USA Registered: Nov 2001
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posted November 20, 2004 11:25 AM
Woah, you have many identical placements to a Libra (Sun in 6th) guy am sorta feeling out...to figure out what he wants this to be.He's also a Taurus rising, Venus in Scorpio in 7th house, and Mercury in Libra as well as an air sign moon (Gemini). I'll let you know from experience when I can what impact this has on possessiveness. ------------------ -K "Most people love with restraint As if they were someday to hate We hated gently, carefully As if we were someday to love"-Venus Trines at Midnight IP: Logged |
sthenri Moderator Posts: 3358 From: Montreal, Canada Registered: May 2003
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posted November 20, 2004 12:16 PM
Libras can be this way, because they want things to be perfect, maybe you are trying to fix things?I have noticed it's a libra and taurus trait to want to fix things, make them better. I mean you wouldn't watch while your sweetheart was depressed and do nothing, but then you may feel in the way in you do something. It's hard to tell if you are posessive or just strong. I find it hard to tell in myself too, only your partner can answer that. Natasha
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astro junkie Moderator Posts: 7827 From: Registered: Nov 2003
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posted November 22, 2004 01:17 PM
I mean Natasha - even if I were in a room around a lot of people, my man's needs are, and always be, my number one concern. And I don't, and not into, mixing two volatile chemicals together.IP: Logged |
sthenri Moderator Posts: 3358 From: Montreal, Canada Registered: May 2003
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posted November 22, 2004 02:26 PM
Gloria, you are a strong woman so you feel putting his needs ahead of yours is good, otherwise you forget him? maybe? I have friends I do that with but others like it better if they are ignored, to be on their own.Natasha
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astro junkie Moderator Posts: 7827 From: Registered: Nov 2003
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posted November 22, 2004 03:14 PM
Then let them go. If you are still as outgoing as you portend, something else is waiting around the corner.The block I still happen to be on is quite long indeed. IP: Logged |
sweetlibra Knowflake Posts: 573 From: Registered: Oct 2004
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posted November 27, 2004 09:34 AM
Sorry AJ for not replying.. This is my complete chart which i got from astro.com I dono how to interpret it or what is relevant Planetary positions Sun Libra 16°54'54 06 direct Moon Aquarius 02°34'03 09/10 direct Moon is technically near the end of house 9 and is interpreted in house 10. Mercury Libra 24°05'50 06 direct Venus Scorpio 21°43'41 07 direct Mars Scorpio 14°08'22 07 direct Jupiter Leo 05°48'08 04 direct Saturn Virgo 09°17'50 05 direct Uranus Scorpio 14°54'36 07 direct Neptune Sagittarius 16°03'10 08 direct Pluto Libra 16°36'42 06 direct True Node Virgo 26°37'54 05 direct House positions (Placidus) Ascendant Taurus 10°40'39 2nd House Gemini 09°54'12 3rd House Cancer 06°25'34 Imum Coeli Leo 03°15'12 5th House Virgo 02°59'28 6th House Libra 06°22'17 Descendant Scorpio 10°40'39 8th House Sagittarius 09°54'12 9th House Capricorn 06°25'34 Medium Coeli Aquarius 03°15'12 11th House Pisces 02°59'28 12th House Aries 06°22'17 Major aspects Sun Conjunction Mercury 7°11 Sun Sextile Neptune 0°52 Sun Conjunction Pluto 0°18 Moon Opposition Jupiter 3°14 Mars Sextile Saturn 4°51 Mars Conjunction Uranus 0°46 Mars Opposition Ascendant 3°28 Jupiter Square Ascendant 4°53 Saturn Sextile Uranus 5°37 Saturn Trine Ascendant 1°23 Uranus Opposition Ascendant 4°14 Neptune Sextile Pluto 0°34
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astro junkie Moderator Posts: 7827 From: Registered: Nov 2003
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posted November 27, 2004 10:57 AM
Have you had good times with any Taurus'?IP: Logged |
MysticScorpio Knowflake Posts: 258 From: Registered: Nov 2004
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posted November 27, 2004 07:52 PM
Hey AJ, here's my chart, there r some things that I'm not sure abt tho coz I'm still kinda of a beginner. I would really appreciate it born on 24 Oct 1983 local time 04:30 am in Al-Jahrah, KWT U.T. 01:30 47e40, 29n20 sid. time 06:48:14 PLANETARY POSITIONS planet sign degree house Sun Scorpio 00°03'58 01 Moon Taurus 25°47'07 08 Mercury Libra 25°37'43 01 Venus Virgo 14°03'37 12 Mars Virgo 14°47'42 12 Jupiter Sagittarius 10°48'53 03 Saturn Scorpio 06°22'12 01 Uranus Sagittarius 07°04'43 02 Neptune Sagittarius 27°01'21 03 Pluto Libra 29°29'10 01 True Node Gemini 16°40'55 09 HOUSE POSITIONS (Placidus) Ascendant Libra 10°33'31 2nd House Scorpio 08°53'23 3rd House Sagittarius 09°23'38 Imum Coeli Capricorn 11°05'20 5th House Aquarius 12°52'46 6th House Pisces 13°13'32 Descendant Aries 10°33'31 8th House Taurus 08°53'23 9th House Gemini 09°23'38 Medium Coeli Cancer 11°05'20 11th House Leo 12°52'46dpuLH2 12th House Virgo 13°13'32 ________________________________________
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astro junkie Moderator Posts: 7827 From: Registered: Nov 2003
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posted November 27, 2004 08:10 PM
Suuuuure thing Mystic Scorpio - What can we focus on first? IP: Logged |
sweetlibra Knowflake Posts: 573 From: Registered: Oct 2004
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posted November 28, 2004 05:49 AM
Oh! AJ My dearest friend(gal) is Taurus. Yes we had very good time together. Now we are at different cities. I was attracted to my Guy coz his character somewhat reminded me of her To be frank, i wanted a guy like her... She used to connect with me at a higher level.. i mean it was like she could read my mind.. Sometimes it was scary but it was easy since i didnt have to explain her how i feel. She was the one who taught me to love deeply..to show emotions... i feel we are not that near now.. i mean.. i dono.. i feel we are so different now.. i feel i became too silly for her now
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MysticScorpio Knowflake Posts: 258 From: Registered: Nov 2004
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posted November 28, 2004 07:07 PM
I'm sorry AJ for not replying before..I'm not sure wht we can focus on, my love life would be good coz its not going very well. Thanx, I really appreciate you taking the time and reading this IP: Logged |
sthenri Moderator Posts: 3358 From: Montreal, Canada Registered: May 2003
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posted November 30, 2004 10:23 AM
sweetlibra, why did you ask about being posessive in the first place if your name is sweet libra? My merc in Gemini/7th house is curious???Have there been times when you felt out of control of your emotions regarding your relationships? Taurus women do need to feel secure about their emotions it's true, but we like to be remembered more, so most likely you are not silly. I have noticed water venuses have an issue with Trusting, it can get frustrating after a while and Taurus doesn't like to be frustrated much. Best thing to do with a Taurus is trust. Natasha Taurus Cancer Moon IP: Logged |
sweetlibra Knowflake Posts: 573 From: Registered: Oct 2004
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posted November 30, 2004 11:49 AM
Natasha, "Sweetlibra" is what i wanted to be and what i am when i am normal. I was worried about my possessiveness for my guy. when i feel low,i can't control my feelings. its so bad but i hurt his feelings deliberately (worse since i know what hurts him..!) at that time i totally forget our relationship..He's like an opponent and i want to win at any cost..! Rest of all times im the sweetest gal he can ever get With my taurus friend i think, trusting is the problem. gosh i dono y but i always keep some distrust with everyone... My justification is that in future if they leave (!!) me i wont be hurt..! it looks so strange even to write.. Natasha,I love You Taurus people IP: Logged |
sthenri Moderator Posts: 3358 From: Montreal, Canada Registered: May 2003
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posted November 30, 2004 12:40 PM
I know how you feel about trust, but life is short:>Open your heart, and you will be okay. When you are low, find out what is causing it, and whatever that is, try and fix it preferably with another friend than your boyfriend. Then you won't be tempted to act up, later. I too hurt people's feelings when I'm down. Focus on the things you can do to feel better, and make a routine of it. LIke drinking hot chocolate, and then calling a friend just to say Hi. Eventually you will find out, nothing is bugging you in particular, it's just a mood that passes. But what you do while it passes is important. If you feel down you can even post here, venting is good for you. Thanks! Natasha
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MysticScorpio Knowflake Posts: 258 From: Registered: Nov 2004
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posted December 01, 2004 07:19 PM
I have posted my chart info in more than one topic in the hopes that someone could help me interpret it but I can't seem to get any help.I apologize if I've had to sign out before but smthg came up and I had to go. I don't understand what it is since I'm genuinely interested in knowing. Thanks anywaysIP: Logged |
sthenri Moderator Posts: 3358 From: Montreal, Canada Registered: May 2003
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posted December 01, 2004 11:27 PM
Mystic Scorpio, why not start a new topic in Astrology? I have noticed Scorpios do not start topics often??Don't be afraid to do that, Do you consider yourself assertive? With a Libra rising you must be charming, what do you do for a living or are you in school? Natasha Taurus IP: Logged |
MysticScorpio Knowflake Posts: 258 From: Registered: Nov 2004
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posted December 02, 2004 09:18 AM
Edit PS I think Taurus women are really nice, I have a Taurus friend who I really get along with IP: Logged |
sweetlibra Knowflake Posts: 573 From: Registered: Oct 2004
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posted December 05, 2004 09:11 AM
Hi sthenri, Could you tell me What makes my words venomous when i get angry? (Only with close friends/family members) Is it my Scorpio(in venus,mars & uranus) or Aqua moon? just curious IP: Logged |
sthenri Moderator Posts: 3358 From: Montreal, Canada Registered: May 2003
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posted December 05, 2004 05:00 PM
I think it's more the Aqua Moon but it could be the square, do you have a tight square from Venus to Moon? I have noticed that air moons can get things just right, and say the truth even when it hurts. It works for me, though.Take a look at your Venus and see if there is a square, you may be mean to others when you feel threatened emotionally. Natasha
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