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ChristinaCancerLeoDog
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posted December 04, 2004 01:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ChristinaCancerLeoDog     Edit/Delete Message
I know who I'm attracted to but who is attracted to me. Born July 24, 1970, I am a Leo on the cusp of Cancer, Venus in Virgo, Mars in Leo, Moon in Aries, Chinese Sign is Dog. Most of the time I'm interested in Cancer males but they never ask me out. Most of the time it's Aquarius males that are interested in me and they suck. Right now i'm interested in an Aries Tiger Male born March 25, 1974

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Motherkonfessor
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posted December 04, 2004 05:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Motherkonfessor     Edit/Delete Message
LOL "Aquarius males... they suck."

Thats great. (or at least i think its funny as h*** because i feel the same way.)

You are a leo on the cusp... this is why aquarians are attracted to you. Read in Love Signs, if you have it, about the relationships between opposite signs.

From personal experience, I have seen how this works. When i was involved with a Leo for many years, ALL of his other friends and lovers were Aquarians. Even now, his new friends all end up being Aquas. Its odd.

So you really want a Cancer? Good luck on that. Ask the Universe to bring you someone you can mother...maybe one will show up....

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Aquarian Girl
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posted December 05, 2004 09:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aquarian Girl     Edit/Delete Message
hey, i'm an aquarian and i think aqua males suck too, lol (sorry boys).

pisceans are attracted to me. so are leos. and libras.

aries... hmmm... the men are always attracted to me, but even if they are cute, i end up disliking them for whatever reason in the end. i'm always rejecting aries men. funny, cause my 7th house is ruled by aries.

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running_bull
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posted December 06, 2004 03:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for running_bull     Edit/Delete Message
I have sun in taurus, moon in leo, and cancer rising. usually, i attract those signs.

unfortunately, i usually find taurus men either act too slow, are too similar, or i get cheater vibes from them; leo's usually want too much of my attention (more like all of it); and cancer's make me feel like their mommy, lol.

personally, i love aries their fire is sexy, i love the virgo masculinity, and for some reason sagittarius and i are usually a great match (strange for taurus?).

i know taurus and scorpio's are supposed to be a good match. but, my mother is a scorpio with scorpio rising in the 11th, mercury in scorpio, node in scorpio...my dad always says she's a pistol. so, i tend to stay away from scorpio's out of fear, lol.

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moonbaby
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posted December 06, 2004 06:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for moonbaby     Edit/Delete Message
what?...aquarian guys rule...YEAH and they are attractive and manly....and intelligent and they get my retrograde uranus sag....

uranus.....

my cancer sun in the 8th house loves their unattainability....
and they love the fact that i can actually spell unattainability....


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Virgo-AriesArtist
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posted December 06, 2004 07:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Virgo-AriesArtist     Edit/Delete Message
Well, at the moment, I seem to attract Pisces males...eek .
Why, UNIVERSE, oh, why?

I am attracted to Libra males, literally a whole string of them right now.

BTW, Sun, Merc, and Mars in Virgo, Moon and Venus in Leo, Libra ruled 7th house.

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pixelpixie
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posted December 06, 2004 12:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pixelpixie     Edit/Delete Message
Lately... Gemini and Sagittarius Males just want to take care of me and give me pleasure. Literally like that.. they want to buy me things and have sex with me.(!!!!) Of course, they just WANNA.. I don't actually DO it.
I have two Pisces interested in me in an unattainable sort of way. As in, one says "I love you!!" "What does it feel like to be you?" ( to which I reply.. wanna' feel? ..) Like he thinks I am God's gift to men, but wouldn't make a for real move.. which is fine because I am married after all. Another PIsces I can tell really likes me, and we have an actual connection.. but once again.. friendship only.
Aries men and I attract like magnets.
Same with Leo, actually.
There has been a Taurus interested.. we have an interesting relationship actually.. I think if we were both single, we'd be on fire. I sense a real deepness there.
Two Libra men I LOVE to flirt with. Like over the top flirt. They don't mind. Playful relationship.
I dunno. Lots. I love relationships and entanglements. Multi-facetted. I am such a flirt head.

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virgotaurustaurus
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posted December 06, 2004 01:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for virgotaurustaurus     Edit/Delete Message
haha virgo-aries, I can sympathize over the Pisces males! blllaaaahhh. I'm another Virgo who just doesn't want them

I used to attract Cancers allll the time, and Leos. That's great because I don't really get along with EITHER. ESPECIALLY those Leos I do not like their attitude towards how they think they can *bag* me. >

I then managed to attract a lovely Taurus who turned into not-so-lovely.

I'm not sure what sign the boy is who wants me this time around, he LOOKS like he could be a Scorpio possibly, but is too extroverted for me to believe it. Probably another darn Leo. *sigh*

I wish Libras were attracted to me, I adore them. I also am attracted to Sag's. And maybe some more Taureans, please. <3

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virgotaurustaurus
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posted December 06, 2004 01:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for virgotaurustaurus     Edit/Delete Message
Oh yeah and more Aquarian dudes would be nice!

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hereisgone
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posted December 06, 2004 02:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hereisgone     Edit/Delete Message
Can't comment on this; no one's ever been attracted to me. BTW, I also don't care much for Aquarian men. Too flighty.

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pixelpixie
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posted December 06, 2004 02:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pixelpixie     Edit/Delete Message
Hereisgone~
*cough*BU###HIT*cough*
Whaddya' mean no one has been attracted to you? I believe that as much as I believe my left foot is on fire right now.

P.S.~It's not. Actually, my toes are cold!

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future_uncertain
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posted December 06, 2004 02:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for future_uncertain     Edit/Delete Message
I tend to attract Saggitarians and all the earth signs... maybe because I'm a sag and my Jupiter is in Taurus?

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hereisgone
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posted December 06, 2004 04:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hereisgone     Edit/Delete Message
LOL! Ok, let me rephrase that. I don't know of anyone who has been attracted to me. It's quite embarrassing, but I've never dated, and guys have always kept their distance from me. Maybe their intimidated by my Scorpio-ness, lol.

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ghanima81
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posted December 06, 2004 05:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ghanima81     Edit/Delete Message
Jeez, if I knew the answer to that... lol

I would probably say, using the sign that I have been 'persued' by the most as an example, Geminis are usually attracted to me. We can always have a good go of 'mental olympics' and my walking contradiction Aqua sun/ Leo moon may be recognized by thier suns as kindred... Most of my best friends are Geminis, and the buck stops there for me... they are a bit too murky for me sometimes... love em dearly as friends , but trying to date a party host when I'm the ultimate party guest... just doesn't work out.

Others would be Aries, maybe cuz I'm Aries rising... and sometimes Scorpios, but that could just be the way they are... they give everyone that look And the Libras... but I'm never sure if it's me, or if it's just that they flirt with everyone that way... that sparkle and dimple are a bit decieving. hehe

Ghani

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ChristinaCancerLeoDog
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posted December 06, 2004 10:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ChristinaCancerLeoDog     Edit/Delete Message
Hey hereisgone, I totally know where you are coming from, no one wants me either, but when a guy is attracted to me it's usually an aquarius. My last bf was in 2001 it only lasted a month. He was an aqua Jan 25, 1957, his chinese sign is Rooster, venus in aqua. He was the sweetest guy in the world, even while we've been broke up but i haven't spoken to him since '03.The one b4 him was a cancer born June 25, 1970, he was a big jerk. that last 5 months, from 1999-2000. The one b4 him was from '92-95, he was an Aqua born Feb 18 I think, cusp of Pisces. Lived with him very stormy relationship, he was mean and ugly to me and also the last guy I had sex with. Yes you read right. I was also married to a Scorpio born Oct 27, 1972 from '90-'91, another stormy relationship

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sweetlibra
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posted December 07, 2004 10:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sweetlibra     Edit/Delete Message
Its always Aries / Gemini with me..
and Leos... (which is ok since i don't like Leo men..!)
With Gemini i dont feel anything other than friendship [ i feel they are not macho enough.. is it true? i never tried anyway ]
I am attracted to Aries men (obviously )

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Virgo-AriesArtist
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posted December 07, 2004 11:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Virgo-AriesArtist     Edit/Delete Message
Ghani...You're Aries-Rising too?! Yeah! I'm not alone... And yes, ya know at the moment, the Libras are just swarming...oddly enough.

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sthenri
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posted December 07, 2004 09:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sthenri     Edit/Delete Message
If somone's sun is in your seventh house, you will feel burned out eventually, and want more from him/or her. I have Gemini in the 7th and I get burned out on Geminis quickly, as they seem to take a lot and give back little.

They do make very good friends though, the females, I mean.

Flirting is great, but has anyone noticed that the bigger flirt is usually the worst lover? As if they are overcompensating? Every man I met who was a huge flirt, was a let down in that department.

Men always think I am unfaithful! Even though I am as loyal as a puppy. I give off vibes, but it's just my dress, and shoes.

Don't worry Christina, if you are born year of the dog, then you are loyal, and loyalty is rewarded in this life. There were times when I was sure I could never be attractive again. But you will meet someone who will draw you out.

Compatibility and quality are more important than anything.

Once you find what you want, you will know why you had a dry spell. It's the waiting that's the hardest part, I know.

Natasha
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ghanima81
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posted December 07, 2004 09:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ghanima81     Edit/Delete Message
Natasha,

OMG!! My last roommate was a Taurus female, and she had this super crazy flirtation with this dude from New Zealand... they finally 'consummated' their flirtaion, and she was soooooooooooo dissapointed... she was like ''wtf was that supposed to be?'' Hehe... it is usually true... they do seem to be 'overcompensating' for something... like, they are not actually interesting enough to actually have anything to talk about besides sex and how much they would do to you... blech... LOL

anyways... I have Libra in my seventh... hmmm. I would actually think that would be a good thing to be with a libra? Just wondering why you say that...

Ghani

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Aquarian Girl
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posted December 07, 2004 11:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aquarian Girl     Edit/Delete Message
I wonder if the flirting thing is the same for women? The bigger the flirt the bigger the flop in the sack?

I'm not really a flirt at all... well sometimes my warmness and friendliness is mistaken for flirtation... but I really don't flirt.

Any men care to share their experiences with the flirtatious type?

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pixelpixie
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posted December 07, 2004 11:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pixelpixie     Edit/Delete Message
Maybe I am a windbag, but I love sex and make it awesome. Maybe my desire to talk about it and flirt stem from a healthy attitude about it, or happy mercury/venus/ascendant aspects? Maybe I am insecure? I haveparts which are insecure.. but really. I love flirting... I flirt everywhere, with everyone. it's a huge identity thing with me. ( Even when I was a child, and come to think of it, my darling Libra daughter is a huge flirt already at four)
Yeah, I am all talk.. but not all talk. I follow through... It just happens to be a thing that I love and I love experiencing.. including talking about it.

I am speaking from a personal level.. maybe some people talk because they need the build up.. I talk because I love the build up.. There's certainly a difference there.

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BlueTopaz124
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posted December 08, 2004 09:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BlueTopaz124     Edit/Delete Message
My friendliness and direct approach is VERY often mistaken for flirting as well...probably because if I'm interested in someone/something I will ask very direct questions (not personal though, I don't go that far) and is often mistaken...

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sthenri
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posted December 08, 2004 10:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sthenri     Edit/Delete Message
If I flirt a lot, I'm not going to have sex. When I want to have sex, I am different, I am warm, intimate, I look deeply into his eyes, and say "I miss holding you" Or I just look into his eyes and ask for a warm hug. cry with frustration:>

When I'm flirting, it's because my mouth went crazy again, and I say things that pop into my head for no reason. But then I back off when it get serious. I imagine it's the same for flirts everywhere.

And yes I was with one of the biggest flirts ever and he was a flop.

Ghani, there are some synastry links a few pages back I posted. One said that someone's Sun in your Seventh house causes that person to take and make the 7th house person want more. Sort of a quick connection for the Sun, but too much leaning on the 7th house person emotionally.
This works well as friends, but can be uncomfortable for lovers.

I can say that most Gemini men make better friends for me because they lean on me emotionally, I am super Momma, there for all the confessions. I get burned out emotionally for a while and then I come back. But as day to day lovers, it's much less appealing because of a lack of spark I think.

Maybe I just have too much air, I need the Virgo earth male to hold me down. I do have a thing for Aquas though.

In synastry Mars/Sun connections mean a casual affair, leading to friendship, more on the Sun person's part in terms of love than Mars. Mars learns about romance from the Sun person who is usually wiser and then moves on.

So you would think these aspects would be great for romance but they are not exactly great.

I mean, I fall for my opposite all the time Scorpio, and it actually works well, when I commit. If I can't commit I run, but sometimes it works.

Anyway the 7th house connections are more about support and friendship.

Natasha

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hereisgone
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posted December 09, 2004 03:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hereisgone     Edit/Delete Message
I sometimes flirt like crazy with guy friends, but can't when it's someone I'm really interested in.

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scorpiosphinx
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posted December 20, 2004 11:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for scorpiosphinx     Edit/Delete Message
every guy i've fallen for has been an aquarian. Maybe its my gemini moon

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