posted December 24, 2004 10:08 AM
Okay, I'm going to try to give you something, but I'm just beginning to learn how to do this, so it will be very basic and maybe even inaccurate! First of all, he looks like a very romantic guy. His Pisces sun could make him "softer" than most men, but his Aries moon and Leo rising could make him more overtly masculine than the typical Pisces. Your sun is Capricorn, which may make you more reserved in expressing affection, but Scorpio moon indicates that there are deep emotions there, maybe even to the point of a wish to dominate or possessiveness. Your rising is Pisces, which blends well with his sun... you guys have a wavelength on which you can meet one another, and it helps you understand his softer side. To me it looks like you may have a tendency to try to dominate him and it may appear that you can do so, but his Leo rising and Aries moon will lash out if you push him too far. Do you guys experience power struggles?
Your venus is Aquarius (like mine!) which will make you somewhat aloof sometimes and may make it challenging for you to really commit. This doesn't mean you don't really feel affectionate love for him, but you may have a tendency to pull away when you start to feel close. You really need his friendship as much as you need his love. His venus is Aries, so he likes a challenge, so this may be good for both of you. Also, his Aries venus probably makes him an ardent lover... sometimes you may feel like he is bursting with emotion for you which will make you pull away a little bit even while you appreciate his enthusiasm. Just make sure not to pull away too far or be too emotionally distant with him because that could cool his emotions to the point that they burn out.
One thing you have to remember is that his sun, his moon, and his rising all indicate a need for validation. It's easy for Pisces to lack confidence, and Aries and Leo only look very confident, so they need to know that they are genuinely loved and appreciated or they will deflate. When this happens they are likely to respond by being cold and sarcastic or blowing up into a fiery rage.
You are much cooler on the surface, but there is a lot of potential for deep love and loyalty from you. Just watch your Scorpio moon with him. Especially your tendency toward jealousy, which you will most likely try to keep well-concealed. However, this isn't always possible for you and when you've been aroused, watch out! That's when you will be likely to lash out at him, undermining his self-confidence. And you may have lots of opportunities to work on this because women probably find him very sweet and charming!
Hope this helps. Like I said, I'm new at this and I welcome any positive or negative feedback.
Best wishes to you!
Carissa
P.S. How long have you been involved in this relationship? OH, and welcome to Lindaland!