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Virgo-AriesArtist
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posted December 25, 2004 12:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Virgo-AriesArtist     Edit/Delete Message
So, you're interested in discussing Libra men?

Good.

Cause I've got a few questions...
To start with, how long did it take your Libra to take any definite action once he'd expressed that he was "interested" in you? Did he somehow think you were already taken unless you had stated otherwise? From your experience, are Libra men as into happily-ever-afters as I sense they are? Are they as idealistic about romance as Aries (cause I know my Aries-rising makes me that)?

Whatever else you can tell me about being involved with a Libra, I'd love to hear!

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As if we were someday to love"-Venus Trines at Midnight

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Jazzebel
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posted December 25, 2004 03:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jazzebel     Edit/Delete Message
mmm, I love Librans. I`d like to hear more about them too.

I am a bit puzzled by their behaviour thou, I have to admit. My coworker is a Libra with a Capricorn Moon and he never hit (romanticly) on anyone, he looks and behave comepletely self-contained this guy, like he doesnt need anyone. Very nice, very charming, but never makes a move.. no girls, nor boys. Once I asked him why he did not have a girfriend and his answer almost floored me - he said girls were expencive and high- maintained and he would rather spend his money on something more productive and worthy. Imagine that! Maybe the influence of his Cappy Moon, who knows...

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posted December 26, 2004 04:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for moonbaby     Edit/Delete Message
i wrote you a really long reply, Virgo-sweets, but it got erased

anyways to cut a long story short.
my libra and i were friends first for about a year. he knew i liked him cos i sent out some signals...

thats the thing with libra men. whether they know you fancy them, they will deifintely think you do cos most people do. they're swayed by their charm.

.....but he was otherwise occupied with getting over a 6 year intense relationship, then a 2 year depression as a result. he wasnt feeling me like that.

at a party one night i was drunk and boogied up to him and asked for a kiss

Me: can i kiss you?
Libra: errrr.....
Me: dont worry, everything will be back to normal tommorrow
Libra: ok

we didnt stop kissing after that. but he couldnt commit to me at the start. not that he was seeing other people but he just didnt know what he wanted. the more i was fine with whatever he was doing, the more he wanted me. eventually he fell hard in love with me.


secondly, it is solely all about balance; something i can relate to as my mars is in libra. it is easier to know if you want somehting when you havent got it anymore.

but trust me, VA, if your libra likes you just have patience with his vacillation. let him know you like him though. it will help him decide if and how much he wants you. cos i think their reasoning would be to wonder why you arent giving him as much adoration anymore...which will make him try harder to charm you. they want to be liked by everyone.

and when he does decide he wants to be with you, he will put you on a pedestal and love you hard and treat you like you are the only one who exists

ranti

p/s,
they are definitely into ever-afters...really, truly, thats all they ever want. even more so than libra women. and it could truly be possible to have an ever after with a libra man, cos they know how to love, they know romance and they know beauty all the ingredients of a wonderful fairytale.

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posted December 27, 2004 09:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Virgo-AriesArtist     Edit/Delete Message
Moonbaby, thanks so much for your insight.

Right now, it seems like he is edging carefully around me, coming close, then pulling back. I get the feeling that he dwells on/thinks on this situation between us as much as I do. Maybe I'm wrong, but I tend to trust my gut. See, we are only a year apart chonologically, yet I think somehow, we're both fairly immature in the relationship department, him a bit more than me.
I don't want to be blatant in saying that I "like" him, but can't he tell that I wouldn't have given him this much attention otherwise? I don't really want to just kiss him, that's not my way. How can I best let a Libra male have a more obvious clue that I'm sorta into him? How will they most easily "get it"?

If he's said that he likes me, is it possible to keep it at a friend level for a bit longer until we get to know each other better and he figuures out that he intrigues me?

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"Most people love with restraint
As if they were someday to hate
We hated gently, carefully
As if we were someday to love"-Venus Trines at Midnight

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posted December 27, 2004 12:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for moonbaby     Edit/Delete Message
VA, the very fact that he's hovering around you does mean he his keen on you

and libras are the relationship sign....he'll know you like him if you send out the slightest signals

are you sending out any slight signals? umm..

ranti


sorry to digress, but how do you get italics on this thing?

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Virgo-AriesArtist
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posted December 27, 2004 12:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Virgo-AriesArtist     Edit/Delete Message
Hovering=keen on me? yeah! ::grins and winks::

To me, signals are excessive attention, which I do give him more than most. What are other good signals, in your opinion?

BTW, To get italics you put [ i ] [ /i ], without the extra spaces, around the word or phrase...

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"Most people love with restraint
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We hated gently, carefully
As if we were someday to love"-Venus Trines at Midnight

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posted December 27, 2004 02:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for moonbaby     Edit/Delete Message
thanks sweets

libra guys love erotica....so,

dress sexily...your clothes should look like theyre easy to take off

libra guys are kinky behind closed doors, they are up for most things and they love sex. they are not predators, a la leo...but once they get some steady loving, they dont take it for granted...they definitely appreciate it

also dirty talk is good... anything light will suffice...they not into vulgarity....avant garde is the way forward; be suggestive, be humorous, be bold...purrr!

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posted December 27, 2004 03:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Virgo-AriesArtist     Edit/Delete Message
Hehehe
I love your ideas, but....
See, until I actually get a real invite out from him again...:sighs::, all this play and enticement will have to happen at work...

How can I tailor your suggestions to contact within the workplace (and the break room ?)

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We hated gently, carefully
As if we were someday to love"-Venus Trines at Midnight

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posted December 28, 2004 04:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for moonbaby     Edit/Delete Message
well, try and get him alone in the break room...but i'm figuring as a he is a libra thats kinda easier said than done.

so the best way is to get him out of the work place...invite him out for a glass of wine and a tet a tet....or to check out an art exhibition somewhere...or to a new restaurant around the corner.

the invite should be subtle...thats the buzz word VA, subtle

i figured out how to do bold

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moonbaby
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posted December 28, 2004 04:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for moonbaby     Edit/Delete Message
VA, you dont happen to have any experience communicating with arians do you?

paranoid, difficult ones that is.

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posted December 28, 2004 11:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Virgo-AriesArtist     Edit/Delete Message
Moonbaby...here's an update:
Weirdness of weirdness, an Aries/Scorpio coworker, he kept pestering me about the Libra/Gemini, I mean, somewhere around 4 or 5 times, saying stuff like we would make a good couple, asking had the L/G and I ever seen that movie, how the L/G really likes me alot, asking if I liked the L/G, saying he'd heard we were dating...yada yada...then, he had the audacity to say he'd been 'paid' to ask me, that the L/G wanted him to ask me this stuff, etc.

Strangeness...completely.

Could and should I have believed the Aries/Scorpio coworker? In my opinion, he likes to be "in the know" on everything that is going down around the store, but hey, I could be wrong. When confronted about if he saw the L/G outside of work, he did say that he and the L/G used to hang out alot. ::confused as heck::

As far as my experiences with Ariens...Let's see, I have a really close friend (who I happen to be meeting at the mall today) who's an Aries Sun, Mercury, and Venus...Communicating with Ariens has to take into consideration that they enjoy kicking back and acting childish, and if you can get them to willingly indulge, they will be even more receptive to opening up for some true and sincere communcation. I've found that the paranoid ones (cause I had a really immature prof in HS that was that way) is to confront them in a non-emotionally-charged manner, because otherwise they will feel threatened by the overwhelming tension of emotions. Act calm, and dish it out with them face-to-face. Never, I repeat, never write anything important, or touchee down to give to them, because then it allows them time to brood/stew over it, and have a stubborn reaction ready and waiting, and they wil not want to discuss it.

Hope this helps...

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"Most people love with restraint
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We hated gently, carefully
As if we were someday to love"-Venus Trines at Midnight

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posted December 28, 2004 12:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for moonbaby     Edit/Delete Message
f*ck, VA, that means i have gone about things with my bro in a really bad way. whenever he acts up i shout sooo hard at him...then feel sooo soo bad about myself...cos nobody likes to be shouted at really. but he shouts too...thats no excuse though, cos you cant fight fire with fire, right? but i have backed off and will let him be for about a year...until next disfunctional family xmas, i guess.
but thanks sweets, that did help a lot

so, this co-worker, hey?! i think his integrity can be questioned but he did let you in on valuable info...which is the libra is hot on you. you know men and how frightened they are of rejection...even more so for a libra cos it makes them question their entire being. so, f*ck it , make the first move. invite him out...or say summin' like 'i was going to invite you out for this movie that was playing but its not showing anymore. oh well, next time hey' and swan off, wiggling your skimpily attired bootie.

i'm loving this VA...cos its it arid down my end; as in bales of hay billowing.

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