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Topic: Confused by Synastry!
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Aquarian Girl
Knowflake Posts: 479
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Registered: Aug 2004
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posted December 26, 2004 09:50 AM
 
OK... I'm dissecting my synastry chart with G... and I'm confused once again by looking at this stuff too closely. I've told before to pay attention more to the houses the planets fall into... so I've been doing that and waving away any possible confusion that could ensue by just looking at the houses... but tonight for some reason I decided to dissect things by degree and now the things I'm confused about have some pretty important implications! Either my Sun and Mars are Square his Pluto or trine! Eeeek. By house, they are square. By degree/sign they are trine. My Sun and Mars are at 4 and 5 degrees of Aquarius and his pluto is at 8 degrees of Libra. But by counting only the houses they're square. Also... one more question... his planets in my chart don't form many tight aspects... but vice versa... my planets in his chart, form many more tight aspects... does that mean anything? Anyway... I would appreciate any light that can be shed on this trine/square deal. I want to be trine! Not square! But... whatever  Whatever it is, it is... It was meant to be that way and we'll figure something out either way, lol. Square spells S-Q-U-A-R-E not D-O-O-M-A-N-D-G-L-O-O-M!  IP: Logged |
future_uncertain
Knowflake Posts: 329
From: ohio
Registered: Aug 2004
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posted December 26, 2004 09:31 PM
I'm not exactly sure what you're saying... maybe posting both of your birth info would help. What house system are you using? I would think you would count the degrees, which would make it a trine, regardless of the houses. If it's not 90 degrees, give or take a few, it's not a sqare, right?This actually reminds me of my own confusion over "Relationship Signs." Aspects are configured in there by simply counting (equal)houses. Is this a proper method, or was it used in order to simplify? IP: Logged |
Aquarian Girl
Knowflake Posts: 479
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Registered: Aug 2004
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posted December 26, 2004 09:43 PM
I think that's why I'm confused too, because of counting the houses with relationship signs... that and because I once posted a question here about something similar and someone told me to forget the signs the planets fell into, but to pay attention to the houses... so I'm wondering if that applies here too?IP: Logged |
lllog
Moderator Posts: 886
From: Springfield MO
Registered: Jun 2002
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posted December 28, 2004 11:30 AM
When you were told to pay more attention to the house locations, they didn't mean for aspects. The House location of one's partner indicates the area in life where they will affect you for good or bad the most. Aspects ignore houses and are strictly interrupted by the +/- 1 degree rule of thumb.Lanny IP: Logged |
Virgo-AriesArtist
Moderator Posts: 1093
From: USA
Registered: Nov 2001
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posted December 28, 2004 11:39 AM
AquarianGirl,
I was told by a very good astrologer friend to look at squares like this:Building Blocks... See, with too much "harmony" and not enough challenges/places to conflict, it is hard to grow within the relationship. Squares in synastry or otherwise, give you (singular or plural) expereinces that foster strength. ------------------
-K
"Most people love with restraint
As if they were someday to hate
We hated gently, carefully
As if we were someday to love"-Venus Trines at Midnight IP: Logged |
chrissymgreen
Knowflake Posts: 215
From: hurst, TX, USA
Registered: Sep 2004
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posted January 06, 2005 11:00 AM
a g,dont worry about it, doll - as far as the aspects go the degrees are what counts.
c
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