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posted January 20, 2005 01:02 PM         

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What is it? I am so tired of my relationship with my Aqua guy I can just scream. I am so balanced I have 3 air 3 water 3 fire and 4 earth in my chart. I can handle alot at one time and keep moving. This guy sends me over the edge sometimes. One week we are ok the next week he acts so FUNKY and when I say is there something wron he says no I am ok evrything is ok, but his actions are clearly shoing me something esle. one thng I hate is he will pick my feelings ask a million questions,but when I try to get a understandin on his feelings no deal.

It started last week with me and the skii trip I went on he started acting so funky the closer I got to going on the trip. He would die first then to admit that he was jealous or insecure by me being around alot of other single brothers. I did my best to assue him w/ut him knowing that I will be back to him. He is just complicated and flighty as hell and I am SICK of it. So he says nothing is wrong but he is still acting real distant I understand the distant thing, but i have not seen him in a week now have not seen him since I have been back from my trip. We have talked though. I sent him a text message when I was on my way back he texted me right back and that he has been doing atleast. I just told him via text last night that I am not going to stay in a lifeless friendship, i have not done anything to him been staying in my own space keeping my emotions in check keeping my own counsel and there is still a problem. So I told him BYE Via text that is last night and I have not heard a thing. Fine I am tired and if our friendship meant anything to him he would atleast try to see what I am feeling or tell me what he is felling so that we can work on it. Im out... Ok I just had to vent as I do...

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posted January 23, 2005 02:21 PM         

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Aqua males are very perplexing (LOL), I'm sorry to hear about your breakup . The Aqua-male experience is one I think most women ought to go through in their lifetimes, just to be able to appreciate the sheer unfathomableness of the sign. I have just the same problem with my Aqua at times, so I do know where you are coming from. They will die rather than admit they are jealous(remember - they need to be in control of their feelings at all times), but won't divulge any of their feelings to you, unless they have maybe a little Fire in their chart. Does your Aqua have any Fire in his chart?

AriesTiger
P.S. I know this probably isn't much comfort, but Liz Greene's description of the Aqua male on Astro.com fits them to a hair.

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posted January 23, 2005 03:16 PM         

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Hi Mama Mia,

I know how you feel, it's natural to feel frustrated. Vent all you want on here, it helps

Your friend sounds like an okay guy based on a number of threads. But it looks like you two have different ideas about companionship. Breaking up is a hard decision when your heart is in it. I think you made the right choice, but I sort of think you will have trouble keeping the promise to yourself . . .

It takes time . . . you are a Pisces and you already know this. You guys know lots of things . . .

Aphrodite

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Love all, trust a few. Do wrong to none.
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posted January 24, 2005 11:15 AM         

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Thankyou Ariestiger for your kind and undestanding words. By you having an Aqua of your own you do know exactly how I am feeling. He has a lil fire in his chart,BUT he has no water. So you do the math. I have the water. This is not the first that he has gotten distant and getting distant here and there is not the problem cause I do that. But an entire week and your telling me nothing is wrong. BULL CRAP. I stop going on your word and go on your actions now. Tell me whats up I don't have thin skin. Hoe do I get into Liz Green section to read that part..

Aprodite, He is an okay guy just a lil immature for me I think. I also think that he is afraid of how he feels about me. I do know that they have to be incontrol of their feelings. It is hard on me right now im constantly in thought of him. I will be okay I am trusting GOD more and more on this, he knows what is best for me. I look at it like this when one door closes another one opens. And if he is/was not the one that only puts me closer to the one..

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posted January 24, 2005 12:48 PM         

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Sorry to hear this, your Aqua does sound immature and he is missing out on a significant relationship with you,

I know the feeling, but he isn't a baby. I personally like Aquarius men very much and love them but I do not like having to be blamed for all the feely/touchy emotions, which are a healthy part of life. They make me really angry sometimes..
When they do, I go here to this forum http://www.consciousloving.com/forums/

Natasha

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posted January 24, 2005 01:03 PM         

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Thankyou Natasha for seeing what so many ppl see. Even his closes friends have seen it. One of his best bus told me I just wish that I was the one that met you in the gym that day. The first time his best bud met me we all must have hung out like a few hours and he told his boy if I were you my search would be over this would be it. I am not an angel but I know that I am the cream of the crop and bring so much to a relationship/friendship and I brought the thunder to this one cause I really wanted it bad. But like every other guy that I had in my life that did not work out rather I ended it or he did came back even if it was 3 yrs later. So he will be back just think it may be too late. And I can give him a feww numbers of the other guys so that they can lick his wounds, its nothing nice. That famous saying once you in you are in, but once your your out you are so out...

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posted January 24, 2005 01:29 PM         

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Those Sag and Aquas - why dont they come with a warning label - Attention: Can cause unbearable confusion, possible heartache and pain and/or disappear without a trace periodically. Can leave you in total bewilderment sometimes. Buyer discretion adviced!

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posted January 24, 2005 03:02 PM         

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Oh Natasha I found the Liz Green thing, I just had to crack up laughing to myself.
especially at the part that was said that if they feel intense emotional feelings that they cannot control they detatch and beecome all frosty. THATS what I saw.. Too Funny...

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