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Topic: Hello...would someone look at something for me?
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JustAmanda
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posted January 24, 2005 07:24 PM
 
Would someone look at the charts for my husband and I please? We are facing alot of changes in our lives and I am just curious to see what our chart information has to say about all of this...I'm a total dweeb at reading charts ..thank you.Me December 16, 1970 in Roanoke Virginia at 1:55pm Him August 7, 1969 in Roanoke Virginia --I don't know the time of his birth...does this make it impossible to research? IP: Logged |
running_bull
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posted January 24, 2005 11:19 PM
Hi Amanda,I don't have any information for you about you charts. Just wanted to let you know that I have found people born in 1967-1971 seem to have a really tough time with marriage. I don't know what it is, but I have found people born during these years have the most "starter" marriages or have been divorced after a short marriage. I hope you and your husband can make it through with good communication and are kind to one another. Oh and yes, to create a composite chart his birth time is needed. IP: Logged |
JustAmanda
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posted January 30, 2005 01:17 AM
I have discovered that his time of birth was 8:15amand yes, this is the second marriage for us both... is there a way to look at my chart to see how many times I would be married? I've often wondered if he really is my soulmate...many, many times I feel that he is not. IP: Logged |
Yin
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posted February 09, 2005 08:46 AM
Amanda, here is what I found on astro.com
If you want, you can copy and paste it on the Astrology forum. quote:
Sun in the Fourth House Composite Sun in the fourth house favors a strong emotional involvement. The fourth is the house of your most personal and intimate life, your home, your past and origins in general, as well as your inner feelings and emotions. Thus this position favors a relationship in which you settle down together and share each other's personal lives as intimately as possible. This is one of the best positions for marriage. It indicates a concern for owning a home or real estate together, which may manifest itself as a desire to own land. On the psychological level, you are likely to experience profound emotions together and to become deeply involved in each other's innermost mental and emotional depths.
Moon in the First House
The composite Moon in the first house makes clear that in this relationship your feelings and emotions are very prominently involved. Obviously, this placement is favorable to any relationship in which you want to relate on a close, intimate level. You have a deep emotional understanding of how you get along. But the Moon can also create such a strong emotionalism that you are unable to stand back and look at yourselves clearly in terms of your relationship. Be careful to avoid such extreme emotional involvement. A first-house Moon should give the two of you a strong sense of emotional compatibility. You will feel that you belong together and that you have much in common, which will indeed be true.
Venus in the Third House
Venus in the third house of the composite chart signifies that together you have an intellectual concern with beauty that you may not have been aware of as individuals. Venus in the third house also means that you are in touch with your feelings, that you can discuss your relationship and verbalize what you feel. There is the danger that you will deal with love on a superficial, intellectual level. At any rate, do not try to subordinate your emotions to your intellect.
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AstroText Partner - Short Edition
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for Amanda (female)
born on 16 Dec 1970 local time 01:55 pm
in Roanoke, VA (US) U.T. 18:55
79w57, 37n16 sid. time 19:15:12
PLANETARY POSITIONS
planet sign degree house
Sun Sagittarius 24°24'52 08/9
Moon Leo 09°57'54 04/5
Mercury Capricorn 13°34'42 09
Venus Scorpio 14°16'31 07
Mars Scorpio 06°24'38 07
Jupiter Scorpio 24°33'59 07
Saturn Taurus 16°36'27 01
Uranus Libra 13°04'22 06
Neptune Sagittarius 01°29'04 07/8
Pluto Virgo 29°37'57 06
True Node Aquarius 25°20'39 11
HOUSE POSITIONS (Placidus)
Ascendant Aries 29°39'57
2nd House Gemini 01°56'58
3rd House Gemini 25°35'36
Imum Coeli Cancer 17°20'41
5th House Leo 11°46'49
6th House Virgo 14°26'59
Descendant Libra 29°39'57
8th House Sagittarius 01°56'58
9th House Sagittarius 25°35'36
Medium Coeli Capricorn 17°20'41
11th House Aquarius 11°46'49
12th House Pisces 14°26'59 --------------------------------------------------------------------------------
and Him (male)
born on 7 Aug 1969 local time 08:15 am
in Roanoke, VA (US) U.T. 12:15
79w57, 37n16 sid. time 03:58:34
PLANETARY POSITIONS
planet sign degree house
Sun Leo 14°48'03 12
Moon Gemini 12°16'36 10
Mercury Virgo 00°34'33 12
Venus Cancer 04°52'31 10/11
Mars Sagittarius 07°27'30 04
Jupiter Libra 03°35'00 02
Saturn Taurus 08°46'57 09
Uranus Libra 01°26'18 02
Neptune Scorpio 25°56'23 03
Pluto Virgo 23°29'19 01
True Node Pisces 21°48'26 07
HOUSE POSITIONS (Placidus)
Ascendant Virgo 05°12'46
2nd House Virgo 29°40'53
3rd House Libra 28°49'43
Imum Coeli Sagittarius 01°44'59
5th House Capricorn 05°32'04
6th House Aquarius 07°04'48
Descendant Pisces 05°12'46
8th House Pisces 29°40'53
9th House Aries 28°49'43
Medium Coeli Gemini 01°44'59
11th House Cancer 05°32'04
12th House Leo 07°04'48 --------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Composite Horoscope midpoint method
PLANETARY POSITIONS
planet sign degree house
Sun Libra 19°36'27 04
Moon Cancer 11°07'15 01
Mercury Scorpio 07°04'38 05
Venus Virgo 09°34'31 03
Mars Scorpio 21°56'04 05
Jupiter Libra 29°04'29 05
Saturn Taurus 12°41'42 11
Uranus Libra 07°15'20 04
Neptune Scorpio 28°42'43 06
Pluto Virgo 26°33'38 04
True Node Pisces 08°34'32 09
HOUSE POSITIONS (Placidus)
Ascendant Cancer 02°26'22
2nd House Leo 00°48'56
3rd House Leo 27°12'40
Imum Coeli Virgo 24°32'50
5th House Libra 23°39'26
6th House Scorpio 25°45'54
Descendant Capricorn 02°26'22
8th House Aquarius 00°48'56
9th House Aquarius 27°12'40
Medium Coeli Pisces 24°32'50
11th House Aries 23°39'26
12th House Taurus 25°45'54
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GemStar
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posted February 09, 2005 07:59 PM
First...I see that You are having a Pluto conjunct Sun transit. Read up on that particular transit as it creates BIG changes for you (within you I believe). I think there is usually three passes and can last 2-2.5 yrs or so...you will have to check to see where you are in the transit cycle.I have a good friend who is going through a Pluto opposition Sun transit and it is totally changing her ideas and causing some major thinking within her marriage...which BTW has not been so hot for many years. Google the information, check on Bob Marks site etc... Hopefully that will give you some light!
Hang in there! Gemstar
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JustAmanda
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posted February 12, 2005 10:47 AM
Gemstar that is AMAZING because YES my marriage is over in my heart...we are simply roommates right now...and I've about had it with being that anymore...WOW! IP: Logged |
running_bull
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Registered: Nov 2004
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posted February 12, 2005 04:54 PM
Hi Amanda,I am going to take a quick look at your synastry. A site that really helps me when looking at the different aspects is http://www.astrology-numerology.com/synastry.html it really has a lot of useful info.
This site is also good http://groups.msn.com/horoscopeschat/relationshipastrology1.msnw It looks like you have a few things working for you, namely Venus trine Mars, Moon trine Mars, and Moon conjunct Sun. This would indicate the relationship would have had excellent attraction and good sex. Maybe he felt more for you, than you did for him? Did he seem really manly and masculine initially? Obviously you know there are a few problems, specifically with basic relationship stuff. With Sun squaring Pluto, you may feel unwelcome pressure from him, Mercury square Neptune, could mean you deluded yourself into believing something he said even though it may not have been realistic (I know that sounds harsh, sorry). In synastry Saturn is supposed to be the planet that gives a relationship strength, with your Mars and Venus opposing his Saturn, you may not like him very much as a mate and both of you may need to work very hard to keep the relationship together. I'm sort of curious how long you waited before getting married. from the aspects it just seems like tough going from the start. But astrology isn't everything, you can have perfect aspects to someone and the relationship still won't work. Ah, the mysteries of life. I wish you and your hubby well Amanda. IP: Logged |
JustAmanda
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posted February 14, 2005 11:44 AM
Hi Running Bull! Well, we met on September 24, 1992 and were married on September 10, 1993. I was so much in love with him that I only had eyes for him. However, during that time I was fighting with my ex over custody of our daughter, and he drug our divorce out over a year because of it. In July of 1994, I discovered a horrible thing about my husband, and that is that he was molested as a child, which fueled him to have an addiction to pornography. At first it was phone sex, and we entered therapy, because I viewed that the same as being unfaithful. Please noone make fun of me for that, for I've had a very hard time dealing with it--for several reasons. One of which is I've never had a lot of confidence in myself, therefore it hurt me deeply to know he was doing that. I stayed on with him, not knowing what else to do, and over the course of the past years since that time, he's wasted so much of our money on his habit, with thousands of dollars in phone sex bills, digital cameras, webcam videos, websites to host his pornographic photos of himself, internet accounts in order to email these photos of him to other women that he met through sex chat rooms...SOOOO much money ...all the while I stayed and tried to forgive and forget. I've tried really hard, especially since August 16th of 2001, which is the day I caught him with his webcam while he transmitted live video feed to another woman, while he was watching her. That was the most horrible day of my entire marriage. I've tried so very hard, I've prayed to God, I've begged God to help me I've begged him to show me the way... and leaving him and getting on with my life is the only way I see ...so see? This is why I'm trying to figure these things out so badly...impatience I suppose... thank you so much for your help...for all of you...I'm glad I can come here and talk about this now...completely open about it... *breathes a sigh of relief* IP: Logged |
Yin
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posted February 14, 2005 12:39 PM
OMG, Amanda! That is horrific! You must be hurting like crazy! I'm so sorry you had to go through it! I'm not in a position to tell you what to do. But if I were you, I would free myself from him( divorce, legal separation etc.) and look for professional help.  IP: Logged |
JustAmanda
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posted February 14, 2005 01:58 PM
Thank you Yin...yes, it has been a roller coaster life for me. I've stuck it out with him because I thought that maybe he would change or come to love just me again, I've carried his burdens and supported him when he finally confronted his abuse and told his parents about it--the abuse was from his grandfather. I stood by him throughout all of that, and loved him as best as I could. But honestly, I don't have that anymore. I *care* about him, and I hate to think of hurting him, I truly do. But I hurt every day, DAILY I have reminders of what went on. I swear I've prayed about it, and like my mother said last night, maybe it seems as if my prayers have not been answered because this is not what God wants for me anymore. I guess I've thought of leaving Richard as admitting failure in marriage AGAIN. And failing in God's eyes by not being able to forgive him, for Christ forgave me for my sins by dying on the cross for me...which, in turn this has led me to alot of questions about my own faith...I'm scared ya'll...I'm scared that if I move out, I'll be signing a lease for a year and what if I determine I've made a mistake and I want to go home to him? What if I decide that I really do love him and it's too late? What if What if What if? I'm just so scared...I'm terrified...however...oddly, I'm calm...the other times I've attempted to leave, and see *I* have to be the one to leave, because those walls in that dungeon of a house are closing in on me...but the other times I was a basket case...but I'm not this time..not like I have been.... just pray for me that I'll make the right decision... oh and I've been to therapy...ALOT. IP: Logged |
running_bull
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Registered: Nov 2004
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posted February 14, 2005 03:34 PM
Hi Amanda,With a Sag Sun, Leo Moon, Mars in Scorpio, and Aries rising; I would think you would be more of a kick butt and take names kinda gal. Again, that's an example of the variability of people when looking at astrology. I always seem to recommend a book, lol. But, I know of one that may interest you very much, its called "Female Rage" by Mary Valentis and Anne Devane. You can probably find it at your local library. Its not about making yourself angry. Its about recognizing when you are filled with rage and how to work through it to your best benefit. I wish you well Amanda in any decision you make. I also hope your daughter is well and that your husband will find his way, if he wants to. IP: Logged |
JustAmanda
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posted February 14, 2005 03:50 PM
Thanks for the book suggestion Running Bull. I will look into that one for sure. Well, as far as me kicking some butt ha, here's how I am..I take about as much as I can from a person, when I can't take anymore is when I bascially just snap and make my mind up and there's no changing it. Hence what has happened to me in my marriage. I've made up my mind, and this is it. Apparently something in my chart makes me a very forgiving person though, for I can't hold a grudge at all, which is why if I am going to act on moving, I must do it fast...otherwise I will reason my way out of it. I think too much too...thanks also for the well wishes, for myself and my daughters, he and I have a child together as well...but we are going to be ok. I have that feeling...it's just scary going through so much change. oh and one more thing, I've noticed that astro.com is the only site that lists my rising as Aries, all the rest list it as a Taurus...how bizarre?
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running_bull
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posted February 14, 2005 04:17 PM
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oh and one more thing, I've noticed that astro.com is the only site that lists my rising as Aries, all the rest list it as a Taurus...how bizarre?
You're at 29º of Aries, which is the tail end of the sign. Often being at the end of a house or sign will be interpreted as the next one.
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JustAmanda
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posted February 14, 2005 04:22 PM
OOOOOOOOOH OK! Thanks!And Running Bull, thank you again... IP: Logged | |
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