posted February 01, 2005 05:17 PM         

Gemini/Cancer - What a ***** . He was so slutty I dumped him. Only dated him 4 months. He would always call his ex's while he was with me. it's one thing to talk to your ex but he would say things he shouldn't.
He was clingy but I did not want it from him so it annoyed me. I met his family. That ended about 2 years ago. He is still chasing me.

Cancer - Dated one for 6 months. I found out he lied to me. I dumped him. He wanted me back but I didn't want him. We were both very sensitive clingy and cuddly with eachother. We were both such clowns. i had alot of fun with him. Alot of times we were both moody and would clash. We both had a hard time getting away from eachother when we broke up. I met his fmaily also. I talk to him once in a while.

And the famous cappy with aqua rising - Sensitive, sweet, cuddly, tells you the truth to your face. we are still working on it. I never spent so much time with anyones family as I did with his. Right now I am ignoring him.

Of course I have met many other men but only the ones I chose to be with are lucky. Sometimes I hate men.

Why is it that they hurt you when you are sensitive, clingy, and bossy then want u when your being a mean b*tch to them?

I am mean to all of my ex's and treat them abd yet years later they come back for more? I am not flattered by this. it is annoying. unless I actually had feelings for them that would be a different story.

The cappy I was never mean to. But I feel it will start soon so I feel bad because he is going to regret it. I already feel myself wanting to meet new people and that is not good in my book because when I am into you it is only you. I know how I am. i am gonna start being mean. oh well.

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~*~ Cusp: Gemini/Cancer, Cancer rising, Taurus moon ~*~

posted February 01, 2005 10:10 PM         

Pretty much any man can be slutty if he's looking for that kind of attention. that can be embarassing.

posted February 01, 2005 10:12 PM         

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posted February 02, 2005 10:02 AM         

Has anyone here in their dating experience been able to sense what type of woman would be the right fit for the man they are on a date with? Has anyone been able to walk away peacefully knowing there are no hard wrong or right ways to relationships, and that some things just "are" as long as two people are comfortable with each other's needs and wants?

Thanks

posted February 02, 2005 11:11 AM         

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posted February 02, 2005 04:58 PM         

If you want emotional support you can trade the physical for the emotional, but you can't ever give and expect the emotional back. That's what friends are for, always, always watch your back with a date and love your friends.

That is hard but it's true,

If you must have a man and love him, then only promise sex if he shows up on your birthday with a dozen roses and dinner to a place in town everyone will see.otherwise he won't have any respect for you. Men are trained to have no respect for their own emotions, so how do you think they react to the softer side in their mate? Men may pick women for their softness but they stay for the toughness and the ability to hold on like superglue.

Men want to be masculine and they are always looking for ways to be tough, hard, meaner, and that is what they want to see everyday. So warm, kind and assertive is something they expect, but just dont' want to see.

Of course I am talking more about air/fire men. And of course the younger man. Older more evolved men have learned the value of kindness.

I never have any problems with earth/water men as they require more communication and it's less misunderstood for that reason. I have to make an effort. Even Scorpio men do not bother me so much except that they can be cheap dates.

posted February 02, 2005 05:24 PM         

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~*~ Cusp: Gemini/Cancer, Cancer rising, Taurus moon ~*~