posted February 07, 2005 05:06 PM         

I need some help figuring out whether this guy (i'll call him B) in my life is my soulmate. We've been in love for about 4 years now, though it took me a long time to realize it; our relationship has been very turbulent; due to certain situations, i had repeatedly denied my feelings for him & pushed him away, and last year, I ended up with another man (R). But only after did I realize that my feelings for B ran much deeper, and that he in fact might be my soulmate. I'm in a very tough situation now, having committed to R, but I've been seriously considering getting out, and back to B, because I've realized I can't live life without him. Yet I'm scared because this is a huge step, and have been checking for clues to make sure that B and I have a good chance of making it, that this is the "real" thing.

I tried checking my chart & B's for "Dr. Z's six soulmate cues", and found most of them. But then I realized that I might have done it all wrong; I just looked at the synastry charts and counted the number of signs that separate the planets to figure out sextiles, trines, etc. If there's anyone who might be able to help me with this synastry comparison, I'd really appreciate it! Our charts are as follows:

Mine: born on 18 Jan 1977, time 03:08 am IST
U.T. 21-38
78e07, 9n56 sid. time 10:39:14
Planetary positions
Sun Capricorn 27°40'59 02 direct
Moon Capricorn 05°11'26 01/2 direct
Moon is technically near the end of house 1 and is interpreted in house 2.
Mercury Capricorn 07°07'15 02 stationary (D)
Venus Pisces 14°33'13 04 direct
Mars Capricorn 12°42'28 02 direct
Jupiter Taurus 21°11'02 06 stationary (D)
Saturn Leo 14°40'39 09 retrograde
Uranus Scorpio 11°25'49 12 direct
Neptune Sagittarius 15°12'03 01 direct
Pluto Libra 14°11'24 11 stationary (R)
True Node Libra 29°12'49 11 retrograde

House positions (Placidus)
Ascendant Sagittarius 07°37'32
2nd House Capricorn 06°21'34
3rd House Aquarius 06°17'35
Imum Coeli Pisces 08°09'24
5th House Aries 10°24'34
6th House Taurus 10°26'15
Descendant Gemini 07°37'32
8th House Cancer 06°21'34
9th House Leo 06°17'35
Medium Coeli Virgo 08°09'24
11th House Libra 10°24'34
12th House Scorpio 10°26'15
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B's: born on 13 March 1979 local time 2:30am
in Richland, WA U.T. 10:30
119w17, 46n17 sid. time 13:54:43
Planetary positions
Sun Pisces 22°15'06 02 direct
Moon Virgo 17°18'24 08 direct
Mercury Aries 08°20'03 03 direct
Venus Aquarius 11°23'10 01 direct
Mars Pisces 10°42'45 02 direct
Jupiter Cancer 29°15'37 07 retrograde
Saturn Virgo 09°37'12 08 retrograde
Uranus Scorpio 20°52'21 10 retrograde
Neptune Sagittarius 20°28'12 12 direct
Pluto Libra 18°32'36 09 retrograde
True Node Virgo 17°30'18 08 direct

House positions (Placidus)
Ascendant Capricorn 01°35'14
2nd House Aquarius 14°06'22
3rd House Pisces 28°18'21
Imum Coeli Taurus 00°48'19
5th House Taurus 24°06'08
6th House Gemini 13°06'17
Descendant Cancer 01°35'14
8th House Leo 14°06'22
9th House Virgo 28°18'21
Medium Coeli Scorpio 00°48'19
11th House Scorpio 24°06'08
12th House Sagittarius 13°06'17