posted February 12, 2005 12:58 PM         

Amoungst the things which have been slipping is Astrology and I find when I look at our synastry chart for myself and Andrew my mind boggles at the lines . .

So! Help! Please?!

There's Me,

Sinead
December 27 1980
7:30 am
Toronto, Ontario, Canada

and

Andrew
March 14 1979
11:43 pm
Ottawa, Ontario, Canada

The relationship in its entirety baffles me (Not really a new thing for me with Venus in the 12th ).

posted February 12, 2005 04:06 PM         

I'm going to go out on a limb and say, he probably doesn't tell you much and you have to guess a lot at his true feelings. Do you also find that when you try to have a "talk" it never quite ends the way it should with a resolution? He's in his 20's so i wouldn't say he needs to grow up a little, lol. But, maybe he needs to treat you better and with much more respect.

posted February 16, 2005 09:14 PM         

One of the reasons I put this up here is I have never had such a consistently mind boggling relationship. With all my cardinal energy I usually know where I'm going and what I'm doing, and this is actually the first relationship of any sort I've had where I couldn't find my feet. And I mean at all. I'm fairly good at reading people so my inability to do so here, well I kind of like it, because I can't be compelled to make things better or held responsible for hurting feelings/messing things up when I don't know what the heck is going on!

Except you know, I'm also very capricorn, and when I don't know what is going on there is no control!

Oddly enough the fear crap (Saturn Saturn Saturn!) often associated with me not feeling in control is entirely absent.

Anyhow Andrew and I got together over christmas, then drifted apart, and were back together mid january and don't you know, the tide has gone out again, but there's still a 'tie' there. That whole Venus sextile Venus thing we just like each other. Wordlessly. *snort* Laff.

What conversations we have tend to be theoretical and unconnected with reality or either of ourselves personally, or when it does concern ourselves there is a lot of misunderstanding and/or qualifying to the point where its silly. We've had precisely one conversation about the relationship, which quite unexpectadly revealed we were in perfect accord (Big, Big, Big, relief, but also, weird heheh).

posted February 17, 2005 05:54 AM         

I could definitely see that there was some difficulty communicating. What you should do is sit him down and say "let's cut the crapola, I like you and you like me. I want to be a real couple. When we have a problem, I don't want to break up. I want to work on it, see if we can fix the problem, and make the relationship stronger."

Say, "I know as a Pisces you want to run away when there is a problem, but you can't because I'm a Capricorn and what I say goes." lol, i'm being humorous. but, it will have to be said.

Also, you have something to work on too; in your natal chart, moon squares venus, so please try not to make him your own personal yo-yo. One thing you may want to try is being more romantic with him, maybe invite him over for a bubble bath (you giving him one), wash his hair, rub his ears, do all the talking you want to while he's relaxing in the bath... that way he will be able to see you are strong, but also caring, soft, and sexy.