posted February 13, 2005 11:26 AM         

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Here are our stats:

ME:

Sun Virgo 12°33'35 03 direct
Moon Pisces 21°25'25 09 direct
Mercury Leo 27°23'05 02/3 stationary (D)
(Mercury is technically near the end of house 2 and is interpreted in house 3.)

Venus Virgo 15°01'11 03 direct
Mars Aquarius 11°59'06 08 retrograde
Jupiter Scorpio 29°16'05 05 direct
Saturn Gemini 06°22'02 11/12 direct
(Saturn is technically near the end of house 11 and is interpreted in house 12.)

Uranus Libra 11°59'43 04 direct
Neptune Sagittarius 00°27'42 05 direct
Pluto Virgo 28°53'58 03/4 direct
(Pluto is technically near the end of house 3 and is interpreted in house 4.)

True Node Aquarius 14°21'36 08 retrograde

House positions (Placidus)
Ascendant Cancer 08°47'36
2nd House Leo 02°43'04
3rd House Leo 28°52'44
Imum Coeli Virgo 29°17'33
5th House Scorpio 03°21'25
6th House Sagittarius 07°26'32
Descendant Capricorn 08°47'36
8th House Aquarius 02°43'04
9th House Aquarius 28°52'44
Medium Coeli Pisces 29°17'33
11th House Taurus 03°21'25
12th House Gemini 07°26'32

Major aspects
Sun Conjunction Venus 2°28
Sun Quincunx Mars 0°34
Sun Square Saturn 6°12
Sun Sextile Ascendant 3°46
Moon Opposition Venus 6°24
Moon Trine Jupiter 7°51
Moon Opposition Pluto 7°29
Mercury Square Jupiter 1°53
Mercury Square Neptune 3°05
Mars Trine Saturn 5°37
Mars Trine Uranus 0°01
Jupiter Conjunction Neptune 1°12
Jupiter Sextile Pluto 0°22
Saturn Trine Uranus 5°38
Saturn Opposition Neptune 5°54
Uranus Square Ascendant 3°12
Neptune Sextile Pluto 1°34

HIM:
planet sign degree house motion
Sun Virgo 19°34'43 12 direct
Moon Sagittarius 02°36'12 02 direct
Mercury Virgo 04°19'05 11 direct
Venus Leo 04°17'00 10 direct
Mars Cancer 28°12'28 10 direct
Jupiter Taurus 26°07'07 08 stationary (R)
Saturn Pisces 00°18'21 05 retrograde
Uranus Virgo 11°02'01 11 direct
Neptune Scorpio 15°38'30 02 direct
Pluto Virgo 14°11'20 11 direct
True Node Gemini 28°15'02 09 retrograde
House positions (Placidus)
Ascendant Libra 10°23'47
2nd House Scorpio 05°18'51
3rd House Sagittarius 06°34'53
Imum Coeli Capricorn 13°43'23
5th House Aquarius 19°16'29
6th House Pisces 18°02'36
Descendant Aries 10°23'47
8th House Taurus 05°18'51
9th House Gemini 06°34'53
Medium Coeli Cancer 13°43'23
11th House Leo 19°16'29
12th House Virgo 18°02'36

Major aspects
Sun Trine Jupiter 6°32
Sun Sextile Neptune 3°56
Sun Conjunction Pluto 5°23
Moon Square Mercury 1°43
Moon Trine Venus 1°41
Moon Trine Mars 4°24
Moon Opposition Jupiter 6°29
Moon Square Saturn 2°18
Moon Sextile Ascendant 7°48
Mercury Opposition Saturn 4°01
Mars Sextile Jupiter 2°05
Mars Quincunx Saturn 2°06
Jupiter Square Saturn 4°11
Uranus Sextile Neptune 4°36
Uranus Conjunction Pluto 3°09
Neptune Sextile Pluto 1°27
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Can anyone see a long-term compatibility with us? Is there a soul mate indicator or similar present in our horoscope?

Im asking becuase I dont know how to go forward in this relationship. He means the most to me than any man ever has but I guess I get the relationship I deserve with him as I am quite non-commital and so is he. So we have been 'hanging around' each other, so to say, for about six years now and I guess I've come to the stage where I want my life to move on but I dont know where to go from here. I have such deep feelings for him but I dont know whether I need to get him out of my system and try and find another.

posted February 13, 2005 08:39 PM         

Problem is the two of you are both that way (kudos for trying Virgo & Virgo), so like you said its a very lazy relationship in the area of progress. One reason he may be ducking out of the talk is because your Mercury and Mars aspects overpower his more quiet ones. I'm not saying you have to let him win an argument, just ease up a little and listen to what he wants and needs. let him talk, lol. He'll probably open up if given the chance, well I hope he does. I can't predict if you will make it through, but one sure way to find out is by discussing it.

posted February 14, 2005 09:35 PM         

Sorry, I didn't see anything that reads soul mate, but that's rare I think.

You are right, nothing is simple in relationships. I don't believe you can tell through astrology if a relationship was meant to be. For example, I love my ex-boyfriend very much and we have some very nice aspects in synastry. But, we aren't together now because it wasn't working for either of us.

I can't say we will never be together in the future and I would never say I wasted the time I did spend with him. It was a learning experience. I know a lot more about myself, what I offer, and my wants, needs, etc., now, than I would had we not met and spent time together.

posted February 15, 2005 09:36 PM         

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he is the typical Virgo can't committ to anything

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Virgo is one of the signs I don't seem to know that much about, or conversely, have major misconceptions about them.

In another thread someone commented that Virgos were kinky, as if that were common knowledge. Is that the case? I was under the impression they were somewhat sexually repressed as a Sun sign (obviously other aspects like Venus affect that as well).

So Virgos are notorious avoiders of committment? That doesn't make sense per my understanding of Virgos - in my experience they seem to be able to commmit no problem, at least, to all sorts of service-related things (work, helping people, etc). I only dated one for a few months right out of high school, and come to think of it, he was the only bf I'm aware of to have cheated on me...and he was quite the shameless ******* about it as well.

Sorry to hijack your thread Moonshine. If you would prefer, just say the word and I'll edit this out and create it's own thread.

It's just, I have been trying to understand Virgo for some time now, with 5 planets in Scorp and Pluto in Virgo. This is the second time I've seen a comment that doesn't jibe with what is probably my misconception of how Virgos are.

posted February 15, 2005 11:55 PM         

I remember that thread about kinky Virgo's, even posted on it.

posted February 16, 2005 12:02 AM         

Or maybe it was just in a thread that went way off track, like they often do.

posted February 16, 2005 12:12 AM         

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I think there was another kinky Virgo thread. LOL!!!

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posted February 16, 2005 06:16 PM         

You all say interesting things but Desperate housewifes is starting so Im gonna come back in an hour to reply!

posted February 17, 2005 04:41 AM         

About the sag moon and pisces moon combo: not sure its a good one...we both want freedom - I know he does, and for me I guess Im too idealistic as well.. as well as too perfectionist lol. I look at him and see all his faults, but then I do love him too.. and I find it hard to reconcile them sometimes!

I dont know what his problem with me is, he doesn't tell me! and as much as i want to, I find it hard to fully open up to him and let him know my secrets.... Im afraid he'll judge me or go off me, I guess I need tofeel more secure to do that - is there a communication blockage in our chart??

About the kinky virgo-aries guy who wanted me to pee in front of him in the other thread: I've since found out that not only is he a Christian, but celibate too! Go figure that one out!!!

posted February 17, 2005 06:10 AM         

You could try to coax a real response from him, though. Have you ever made him angry? Does he ever vent? If so, that's the time to ask him about how he really feels. Good luck.

posted February 18, 2005 02:52 PM         

The 9th house wouldn't have much to do with love. Perhaps his mind or the way he thinks really appeals to you. Or something about the way he communicates may spark something in your mind and compliment your feeling's as a sag moon?

What may also help this aspect, is that he has sag in his 3rd house. it just adds more fire to the mental connection between you both.

A good explanation for your attraction is the lovely Sun conjunct Sun aspect, coupled with his Sun conjunct your Venus. Those aspects should make for a feeling of knowing each other and feeling good in each other's company.

posted February 20, 2005 04:39 PM         

I m not sitting aroud waiting for him even tho it might sound like it. And Im not putting a gun to his head - he's telling me himslef that he wants to see me. And then letting me down. Every time. I really like him and I thought after all this time that we were at the very least friends . But I dont know what he's doing -- either he's no longer into me but too chickenshit to tell me or he's met someone else and too chickenshit to tell me. I feel like he's just stringing me along. I deserve better than this from him. Im a fool becuse everytime I get my hopes up an I should know better by now! He should just be a man and tell me straight. I guess Im getting my just rewards for being the same way with boyfriends in the past.
But Im a long time friend I deserve better dont you think?