posted February 18, 2005 06:11 PM         

First of all, I would like to you all to know how much I appreciate reading the forums. They are so insightful and informative. Almost like a guide for the lost souls. Thank you all....

I would really appreciate if anybody could help me with a very personal matter in my life. I am in a long-term relationship with an arian who is very loving and caring. But we have problems that seem insurmountable in terms of communication, ideals and sexuality. The gap is considerable between us.

It so happens that Fate has presented me with a situation that can make or break my relationship and can modify the course of my life path. I feel a connection with a sagittarius man. We have always been strongly attracted to each other without either ever pursuing each other. What I had thought to be mere attraction, I now feel is much more significant than that. We have been talking to each other quite a lot. We can share those intimate aspects of our lives and character that we can never share with anybody else. We both feel that we are soulmates.

I do not posses much knowledge in astrology. I would be very grateful if anybody can check the required parameters like synastry, etc., to evaluate the prospects of both the relationships.

I have always been seraching for someone I could connet to. As soon as I gave up my sarch, I landed into a long term relationship that almost feels like a burden now. I have met someone who could be my soulmate but the situation is so compoundly complicated that it has led to wonder if I would always be serching for someone.......

Your interest in the matter is highly anticipated and appreciated.

Thankyou

PS These are my details

born on 3 Jan 1978 local time 04:15 am
in Navsari, INDIA U.T. 22-45
72e55, 20n51 sid. time 10:25:31
PLANETARY POSITIONS
planet sign degree house
Sun Capricorn 12°11'52 02
Moon Libra 17°38'19 11
Mercury Sagittarius 21°26'32 01
Venus Capricorn 07°34'52 02
Mars Leo 08°31'26 09
Jupiter Gemini 29°36'46 07/8
Saturn Virgo 00°05'14 09
Uranus Scorpio 15°23'27 12
Neptune Sagittarius 16°48'37 01
Pluto Libra 16°37'07 11
True Node Libra 10°20'01 11

HOUSE POSITIONS (Placidus)
Ascendant Sagittarius 00°27'51
2nd House Capricorn 00°02'20
3rd House Aquarius 01°30'30
Imum Coeli Pisces 04°30'52
5th House Aries 06°35'09
6th House Taurus 05°14'01
Descendant Gemini 00°27'51
8th House Cancer 00°02'20
9th House Leo 01°30'30
Medium Coeli Virgo 04°30'52
11th House Libra 06°35'09
12th House Scorpio 05°14'01

These are the details of my long-term partner
born on 11 April 1977 local time 12:15 pm
in Karachi, PAK U.T. 07:15
67e03, 24n52 sid. time 01:00:47
PLANETARY POSITIONS
planet sign degree house
Sun Aries 21°17'03 10
Moon Capricorn 27°39'05 07
Mercury Taurus 10°32'32 10
Venus Aries 13°15'29 09
Mars Pisces 17°18'57 09
Jupiter Gemini 01°31'55 11
Saturn Leo 09°57'06 01
Uranus Scorpio 10°33'00 04
Neptune Sagittarius 15°59'30 05
Pluto Libra 12°34'55 03
True Node Libra 24°21'06 04

HOUSE POSITIONS (Placidus)
Ascendant Cancer 23°45'36
2nd House Leo 17°41'05
3rd House Virgo 14°55'17
Imum Coeli Libra 16°29'22
5th House Scorpio 20°29'56
6th House Sagittarius 23°26'44
Descendant Capricorn 23°45'36
8th House Aquarius 17°41'05
9th House Pisces 14°55'17
Medium Coeli Aries 16°29'22
11th House Taurus 20°29'56
12th House Gemini 23°26'44

This is our composite chart
Composite Horoscope midpoint method
PLANETARY POSITIONS
planet sign degree house
Sun Pisces 01°44'27 06
Moon Sagittarius 07°38'42 03
Mercury Pisces 00°59'32 06
Venus Aquarius 25°25'11 05
Mars Taurus 27°55'12 09
Jupiter Gemini 15°34'20 09
Saturn Leo 20°01'10 11
Uranus Scorpio 12°58'13 02
Neptune Sagittarius 16°24'03 03
Pluto Libra 14°36'01 01
True Node Libra 17°20'33 01

HOUSE POSITIONS (Placidus)
Ascendant Virgo 27°06'43
2nd House Libra 23°51'43
3rd House Scorpio 23°12'53
Imum Coeli Sagittarius 25°30'07
5th House Capricorn 28°32'32
6th House Aquarius 29°20'23
Descendant Pisces 27°06'43
8th House Aries 23°51'43
9th House Taurus 23°12'53
Medium Coeli Gemini 25°30'07
11th House Cancer 28°32'32
12th House Leo 29°20'23

These are the details of the person who i think could be my soulmate
born on 27 Nov 1977 local time 07:15 am
in Karachi, PAK U.T. 02:15
67e03, 24n52 sid. time 11:06:45
PLANETARY POSITIONS
planet sign degree house
Sun Sagittarius 04°43'25 12
Moon Gemini 19°34'36 07
Mercury Sagittarius 24°51'38 01
Venus Scorpio 21°13'42 12
Mars Leo 10°01'28 08/9
Jupiter Cancer 04°18'43 07
Saturn Virgo 00°21'18 09
Uranus Scorpio 13°29'38 11/12
Neptune Sagittarius 15°26'46 01
Pluto Libra 15°53'39 10/11
True Node Libra 14°03'58 10

HOUSE POSITIONS (Placidus)
Ascendant Sagittarius 07°52'31
2nd House Capricorn 08°19'11
3rd House Aquarius 11°27'13
Imum Coeli Pisces 15°32'15
5th House Aries 16°58'50
6th House Taurus 14°02'13
Descendant Gemini 07°52'31
8th House Cancer 08°19'11
9th House Leo 11°27'13
Medium Coeli Virgo 15°32'15
11th House Libra 16°58'50
12th House Scorpio 14°02'13

This is our composite chart
Composite Horoscope midpoint method
PLANETARY POSITIONS
planet sign degree house
Sun Sagittarius 23°27'39 01
Moon Leo 18°36'28 09
Mercury Sagittarius 23°09'05 01
Venus Sagittarius 14°24'17 01
Mars Leo 09°16'27 09
Jupiter Cancer 01°57'44 07
Saturn Virgo 00°13'16 09
Uranus Scorpio 14°26'33 12
Neptune Sagittarius 16°07'42 01
Pluto Libra 16°15'23 11
True Node Libra 12°11'59 11

posted February 18, 2005 09:20 PM         

Sorry, I didn't take a look a look at the synastry with your partner because I am pressed for time. But, I wanted to say you have some lovely aspects in your chart that point to you being a smart, warm, and outgoing woman. I can't see any reason why you would be perennially searching for a mate.

A Cap Sun and Libra Moon may make some pursuits more difficult, as you may attract one type as a Cap Sun, but then have your Libra Moon or Sag Rising object. I have the same issue sometimes, lol

But, you have a lot going for you. Particularly with Mercury in Sag in the 1st house, you should have a keen mind and an excellent way of speaking with people. Maybe even speaking to them as a teacher. Even though people usually seek your counsel, there is nothing wrong with opening up a bit too, once you get to trust them of course.

posted February 19, 2005 06:42 PM         

Me, I want a man who wakes me up in the morning and makes my coffee, cares when I'm sick, calls me often, that's what I need. It's not what I want it's what I must have. So my future is a little easier that way, not by much but every bit helps. BTW I have a Sag rising too, so I relate to indecision with men, Sag men are too sweet:>

posted February 19, 2005 09:43 PM         

I agree with you so much and it is something that I have been thinking about. Your needs are fairly simple. I was like that until I got now. My partner is with me in every way. We both care for each other. But he is so insecure about relationships. There is no further growth in the relationship. In fact we are regressing. Behaving very childishly with each other. There is a huge communication gap. Although we know most of the time what might be going on in the other's mind, but the confrontation of the most issues never happens. All we do is argue and argue almost all the time. We just don't talk!!! I have lost all my friends just to be with him. I am feeling it is more of a compromise rather than an active happening relationship. He is not adventurous at all. There are other things as well. We have never been on the same wavelength. But that is my fault as I thought it is alright because I always thought that it is impossible to find someone who actually thinks like me!? It seems I want some major changes in my life and myself most of all.