posted March 09, 2005 03:28 AM         

thankfully im not in a relationship at the moment (nor do i plan to be mwahhaa) and thus i am safe from this bickering.

*crosses fingers hoping that her ex and his gf will break up anytime soon....like NOW*

*evil cruella deville laughter*

posted March 12, 2005 02:24 AM         

but on a more general note, yeah lots of women can't stand the others and they try to bring the other down or at least spread wicked rumors about even their friends.. why IS it? why can't women be friends? why all this jealosy??

posted March 12, 2005 03:13 AM         

If it is #2. a man--then there is:
1. a woman behind him (mother)
2. a woman behind him (sister)
3. a woman behind him (ex gf)
4. a woman behind him.....

posted March 12, 2005 03:19 PM         

Thanx for understanding

posted March 15, 2005 03:22 AM         

i avoid all girl sleepovers and days out like the plague

im one of those 0.00001 percent of women who would really rather shop, get their hair done, etc. all ALONE ALONE ALONE!

men can most of the time be so much more logical and detached, and not freak out about things, or snap back at you vengefully...

my divorce was brought about primarily becoz of my mother in law, who sorry to say is the biggest B|TCH in the world, and im not sorry about the language, because she really is, she is the personification of the word itself, in fact her picture shud be right there in the dictionary next to the world. She has made my life hell, villainized me and outcast me in all our mutual friends with such detailed lies that everyone believes i was committing adultery or i have some disease whereas both are big fat lies, I think the only disease around here is HER, and she needs to be cut off and thrown away like a cancerous limb. She has played a cruel cruel PR game with me, her family is super influencial back home and she even is in the process of getting some negative article published about me in the newspaper so that i can never return to my hometown again...

I have never hoped anything bad for anyone lately, trying to keep the new years resolution. Please pray that I get to keep it...Its really tryin my patience right now I Want to send a million bad wishes flying her way , tons of negative energy....but I must refrain..

posted March 18, 2005 03:00 AM         

She is a Virgo, I could check her moon placements, but she is a potty-mouth, my mom likes to say she has diarrhea of the mouth. Quite literally actually. She talks nonstop, once she talked for 15 minutes nonstop without letting anyone else get a word in otherwise, until my husband actually got sick of his mother and broke a vase in a fit of temper. Then she shut up for like 2 seconds, then she started talking again about how rude of him, blahblah blah, for the next 20 minutes. He almost started crying...

Btw he was a Virgo too. His father was a Pisces, and sis a Gemini. I think too many mutables in one place together, which led to major CHAOS.

I saw that the only mature people were his father (Pisces) and myself (Gem sun), his Gem Sun/Aries moon sister was surprisingly immature, do Aries moons have a tendency toward that?

Btw I have no grudges against Virgos. I just personally don't get along with them. One of my best friends used to be a Virgo, until he tried to lock me in a room one day and undress me, I slapped him and never talked to him since.

I think you are right that she was jealous of me, because I am considered pretty in my culture, I was the good catch, and she was jealous that so many people said wow your daughter in law is prettier than anyone in your family, at the wedding.

My husband was a good person, but he had temper and abuse problems, and if he could refrain from emotionally, verbally, and physically abusing me, we would still probably be together, because I was willing to overlook many faults of his because I could see his good nature shine through it all...