posted March 11, 2005 03:48 PM         

our "relationship" was nonetheless on-off-on-off...kinda figured when you compare our charts.

I used to obsess about WHY he just cut me off his life, a scorpio doesn't do that without a smidgeon of hurt that has been pointed towards him, right? But now all the hate and indifference is gone, I just want him back in my life.
He asked me something personal about sex and our intimacy but i joked about it and didn't take it seriously. I KNOW that was what made him grow so cold the last time i talked to him over the phone.
Im so afraid that he has tried so hard to forget all about me (probably the case, altho I find it hard to believe that he COMPLETELY did). I really miss him.

And I'm going crazy because I haven't seen him in almost a year, but I always think about him. It's so weird cos I bump into his dad and his sister and his friends, even, but never him.
Can anyone help me in comparing our charts? Linda said something that if the sun cojuncts/sextiles/trines the moon, then there are more opportunities of multiple meetings again (or something like that).

ME:
born on 28 June 1985 local time 05:00 am
in Malabon, PHIL U.T. 21-00
120e57, 14n39 sid. time 23:27:27

planet sign degree house motion
Sun Cancer 06°07'53 01 direct
Moon Scorpio 03°48'53 05 direct
Mercury Cancer 26°53'56 02 direct
Venus Taurus 21°04'33 11 direct
Mars Cancer 12°12'31 01 direct
Jupiter Aquarius 16°08'12 08 retrograde
Saturn Scorpio 22°04'58 05 retrograde
Uranus Sagittarius 15°08'53 06 retrograde
Neptune Capricorn 02°07'49 07 retrograde
Pluto Scorpio 01°58'58 05 retrograde
True Node Taurus 17°09'22 11 direct

House positions (Placidus)
Ascendant Gemini 28°30'05
2nd House Cancer 23°53'11
3rd House Leo 20°45'54
Imum Coeli Virgo 21°08'22
5th House Libra 24°30'22
6th House Scorpio 27°41'59
Descendant Sagittarius 28°30'05
8th House Capricorn 23°53'11
9th House Aquarius 20°45'54
Medium Coeli Pisces 21°08'22
11th House Aries 24°30'22
12th House Taurus 27°41'59

HIM:
born on 14 Nov 1981 local time 06:00 pm
in Queens, NY (US) U.T. 23:00
73w52, 40n43 sid. time 21:40:20

Planetary positions
planet sign degree house motion
Sun Scorpio 22°29'30 06 direct
Moon Cancer 05°10'01 01 direct
Mercury Scorpio 08°05'20 06 direct
Venus Capricorn 09°31'11 08 direct
Mars Virgo 14°06'07 04 direct
Jupiter Libra 27°32'45 05 direct
Saturn Libra 17°31'34 05 direct
Uranus Scorpio 29°54'17 06 direct
Neptune Sagittarius 23°25'18 07 direct
Pluto Libra 25°22'13 05 direct
True Node Cancer 24°22'58 02 retrograde

posted March 12, 2005 10:37 AM         

From another Cancer/8th house moon, another water moon here, I can say I obsess a lot too. The trick is to think about today-onwards. Everything past is past, even for him, and you have to be cool. Tell him you want to mention that he can always remember the past, but that you do not, think of it everyday, and you want things to be cool between you two.

Make a deal that if he asks you questions and you answer them truthfully,

He wants to know what's in your head and heart honestly,

But don't think of thepast anymore, work on your own life and invite him to know what's going on. If he starts to get moody, ask him again if everything is okay between you two, after all every relationship is a different person, it's like a third person in the room with it's own needs and you are not a mind reader. You can guess when something is wrong, and if something is dont' sit and wait for him to tell you, bring it out in the open.

It sounds like he is leaving the door open for you, why not walk through?

I understand and relate, I have a tough time staying away from Scorpio influenced men myself as they give that intimacy and warmth many others do not.

If he's worth having, he's worth having as a friend, because you don't really have someone in your pocket ever anyway,