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posted March 17, 2005 08:53 AM         

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posted March 17, 2005 09:46 AM         

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Welcome!

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"Never mentally imagine for another that which you would not want to experience for yourself, since the mental image you send out inevitably comes back to you." Rebecca Clark

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posted March 17, 2005 05:36 PM         

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Hello Deliverance!

Not having ever been in a serious relationship has NOTHING to do with being a 'freak'. True love has got nothing whatsoever to do with competition. It's all about COMPATIBILTY.

One possible answer to your question is that you may be going about finding someone in the wrong way. Learn to listen to your higher self; your instincts; that subtle inner voice. That will usually draw us, magnetically to kindred souls. It's all about finding someone who you can RELATE to, who you feel at ease with, who can bring out the best in you. We usually meet that someone special when we least expect it, so maybe try to stop looking; instead enjoy life- go with the flow. And BE the person who you want to attract.

Relationships are about spiritual growth; "when the student is ready, the teacher will appear".

I hope this helps a bit.
Sorry I'm not an expert astrologer. However, I don't really think anything much in your chart would explain it anyway- except one thing- Could you actually be afraid of commitment at all? Do you distance yourself whenever anyone tries to get close?

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posted March 20, 2005 05:26 PM         

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Hi, and Welcome Deliverance ~
I don't agree that being single is a "Problem". I do agree that it can get you down when everyone around you is coupled up, but it's not the end of the world, or your life. I've been single since 1997, when I left my ex. I'm independent, I can do whatever I want to whenever I want to do it, and I'm self-sufficient. I DO want to find a special companion to share the good and bad times with, but it's not the first thing on my Life's List of Priorities. The first thing on my list is taking care of ME and my spiritual progress. We are here to learn all that we can and to help others. I read every day, write, create, go to work and take care of my son and my mom, and I enjoy my life sans the day-to-day compromising that being coupled brings. I'm not saying being single is BETTER than being seriously partnered with a special someone. You're just in a temporary holding pattern like me, waiting for the runway to open up. Watch out, happiness is probably lurking ahead on your road, waiting to pounce on you when you least expect it! Take care of yourself, invest in yourself, have fun with yourself -- people can't resist hanging out with someone who is enjoying being themselves!
Deliverance, please read what's at this link:
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum10/HTML/001239.html

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posted March 22, 2005 12:17 PM         

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posted March 22, 2005 12:42 PM         

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welcome deliverance,
consider yourself lucky, I felt like that for many years and thought I was lacking something in character, but the right person just took his time in coming around (his fault, not mine) I't will happen, you haven't even gone through your first Saturn return yet (it will probably happen then )
Relax, London is a cool place to find what you're looking for.(do you still live in London or were you just born there?)

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posted March 22, 2005 05:37 PM         

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Hi Deliverance, I didnt have my first boyfriend till I was 23 - pretty late by most people's standards. I felt like you do a lot, so I understand what you're feeling.

When there's something in your life that has never worked out or gone right, it can create a kind of 'block' in your mind, like something you cant get past. Focusing on it makes it bigger so that it feels like a huge problem. But its not as bad as you think. And you're not a freak. Sometimes we only get ONE BIG love of our life, not many. You probably just havent met yours yet.

Have you thought of trying an online dating site? I know many people who have tried this and have found relationships too. Maybe just going on a few dates might help you to relax and you might find someone nice. Not everyone is going to judge you for nt having been in a relationship - believe me, many guys actually like and appreciate that! my first boyfriend did - he thought it was pretty cool (for him that is!) that I didnt have any ex's hanging around!

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