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Moonfairy333
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posted March 18, 2005 06:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Moonfairy333     Edit/Delete Message
What's with men who have a Cancer moon? LOL I mean this in a respectful way. I am just curious if anyone can shed some light on this subject.

Will he always be tied to mum's apron strings? LOL

Any other insights into personality, behaviors, etc. would be appreciated...

Love and Light,
L

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Gooberzlostlovefound
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posted March 19, 2005 03:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gooberzlostlovefound     Edit/Delete Message
Ahahahaha! Oh lord...

One of my ex-boyfriends had a cancer moon. He was VERY close to his mom, I mean, a real "mama's boy." But I didn't realize how much so until one day we went shopping together and I was looking for perfume. I was testing a bunch of different ones out, and then he suggested the perfume his MOTHER WEARS!!

Oh my god, I could not believe he was serious!!! I dunno, to me, that's just WEIRD. But to cut him some slack, we were both very young at the time. (14..so maybe he just wasn't very familiar with too many kinds)

Hehe, well....other than that, though, he was for the most part a very sweet, good-natured person. But yeah, a bit close to his mom.

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posted March 19, 2005 03:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gooberzlostlovefound     Edit/Delete Message
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Gooberzlostlovefound
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posted March 19, 2005 03:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gooberzlostlovefound     Edit/Delete Message
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Gooberzlostlovefound
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posted March 19, 2005 03:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gooberzlostlovefound     Edit/Delete Message
sorry!!

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sue g
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posted March 19, 2005 05:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sue g     Edit/Delete Message
Hi Moonfairy, I know only one Moon in Cancer, my six year old sons friend. Now I know he is only young, but looking at him and the others, he seems very tied to his mom, even though he has Gemini Sun, its like he doesn't wanna join in the parade, or go to parties, he would rather be with mom. She has her moon in aquarius - oh dear isn't that gonne be difficult for both of them?? Love Sue x

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lllog
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posted March 19, 2005 08:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for lllog     Edit/Delete Message
I'm a Cancer Moon, and I am not and never have been tied to my mother's apron strings.

I am very emotional however, and have been known to cry at commercials.

I think that my Cap ASC and Virgo sun have helped me control my emotions, as displayed to the outside world.

Lanny

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Heart--Shaped Cross
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posted March 19, 2005 10:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Heart--Shaped Cross     Edit/Delete Message
"The lady whom I feel maternal love for
cannot look me in the eyes,
but I see hers and they are blue
and they c0ck and twist and masterbate."

- Kurt Cobain (Cancer Moon)

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Moonfairy333
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posted March 19, 2005 12:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Moonfairy333     Edit/Delete Message
I don't like generalities so I wasn't saying that all men with a Cancer Moon are tied to mum's apron strings...I was just raising this question as food for thought more or less...don't mean to offend any men with a Cancer moon...

Just trying to understand so I can be a more understanding, compassionate person/wife...

Love and Light,
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GemStar
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posted March 19, 2005 12:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GemStar     Edit/Delete Message
What are you exactly curious about?

"What's with men who have a Cancer moon?"

Are you having a challenge with one? Tell us a bit more about what you are experiencing and maybe more people will have answers to help you.

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GemStar
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posted March 19, 2005 12:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GemStar     Edit/Delete Message
Is it 'mother' oriented only or are there other behaviors you are trying to understand?

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Gooberzlostlovefound
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posted March 19, 2005 01:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gooberzlostlovefound     Edit/Delete Message
Sue G~ ooh yikes, yes, that does sound like it will be difficult for your sons' friend and mom.

Oh and just wanted to say I hope I didn't offend anyone with a cancer moon out there.

Ahhh, foot-in-mouth disease. (sigh...merc in sag )

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Moonfairy333
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posted March 21, 2005 01:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Moonfairy333     Edit/Delete Message
Hmmm...didn't realize I wasn't specific LOL. I don't really like to discuss my personal stuff with people who I don't know very well as of yet, so that's why I didn't include the details about how this is affecting me. Thanks for understanding that And, again, I started this thread with the intention to gain knowledge or information to help myself evolve more as a person and as a wife.

I was asking more about mother-son relationships really. I was curious what type of dynamics could potentially exist in that primary relationship.

Also, if a guy with a Cancer moon is very close to his mum, how might this affect his marriage specifically?

Also, my guy has a Cancer moon while his mom is a triple Pisces while I have a moon in Libra...I feel like I am always stuck in the middle of the two of them for no good reason really LOL.

Does this help clarify things? My apologizes for not being clear enough...

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sthenri
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posted March 22, 2005 04:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sthenri     Edit/Delete Message
I know a Cancer Moon and he has a love/hate relationship with his mother. He chooses women who are strong, even domineering. I believe if a man had a good relationship with Mom, then he is happier, but he will probably always choose a strong, patient woman with structure, and possibly children. Love and intimacy are very significant more so than sex.

As for a triple Pisces, he may feel responsible for her since they both have water moons. He can feel guilty and accountable sometimes and Pisces Moons do too. Most likely they would be very close, and want constant communication.

Cancer Moon men tend to have a lot of anger and don't know what to do with it, and they are kind.

The one I know is an Aqua, Venus in Pisces, so I can't say for all, but I would think marriage, would be good, still the compassionate feeling is stronger than the passion sometimes, and Mothers have that.

Again it's go to be in your case, two water moons, emoting together.
I have a Cancer Moon, and I love Libra Moons, but sometimes, I can feel insecure.

That's the best way to describe it,

Natasha
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GemStar
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posted March 22, 2005 10:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GemStar     Edit/Delete Message
http://www.lunarliving.org/moon/moonmatch.php

Just a little fun match-up for you!

I have Moon in Cancer and am not close with my mother. My ex-husband is a Cancer Moon and he is not close with his Mom however, she is always around. The family ties, for better or worse are a huge part of our lives. The key I believe is knowing how to set your boundaries. This is a tough one for us because we want everyone to get along and be happy. Family ties are very important-even the bad ones affect us greatly.

Getting in the middle of your man and his mom does not sound fun. Probably easier to step back if possible...just maintain your boundaries and allow him space for that family tie. If it is unhealthy and is affecting your relationship, I suggest finding ways to compromise both of your expectations so each of you does not feel put in the middle....chances are, he may feel put in between you and his mom too!

Or become closer to his mom and make peace with her in your man's life. Lots of ways around it, just depends on the circumstances and personalities involved.

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Midvy
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posted March 23, 2005 02:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Midvy     Edit/Delete Message
I think, typical Cancer Moon is "Doctor T.." and Richard Gere(Cancer Moon himself)Woman is always written for them with capital letter, they know that Woman - is good, Love - is good, and there's much love in this world (compare to Scorpio moon!!)
....always feeling... compassionate...sentimental...looks like he understands you - there's something in their eyes that you feel safe, sort of emoyional blanket...
mom's son... well, yes, sometimes.... depends on aspects - I think... But they are definitely inclined to motherlike women - I don't mean like THEIR Mom, but with strong mother instinkt, as they need emotional comfort too...

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Mama Mia
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posted March 23, 2005 05:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mama Mia     Edit/Delete Message
I have a 13 yr old cancer moon son. Our relationship is good and I can see him
being really emotionally close to me but physically free from me if you can understand that. I can see him moving far away from me but always staying in touch no matter what. He is my oldest and he tries to treat me like his girl instead of his mom. He has a Leo moon and well he likes to run things he can be so fixed. But his Cancer moon mellows things out for him. And melts right into my Pisces Sun..

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gert
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posted April 07, 2005 07:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for gert     Edit/Delete Message
All cancer mooners are perceptive,manipulative and very sensitive to hurt.They are the friendliest of people,hate superficiality,are tolerant and really very moody.All take slights and rebuffs personaly,hate to be made a fool of or ignored,dislike being screamed at or told off.I am CANCER MOON and am very close to my mom(she has taurus moon).The reason so many of us form intense bonds with our mothers is because our strongest belief is LOYALTY,and who is more loyal and understanding then mommy dearest.If you can get a cancer moon to trust you completely,and I mean COMPLETELY,you'll find that they are not as clingy as alleged and you'll find that you'll be competing less and less with their mothers for attention.Give them exclusive attention either by smiling or hugging them publicly,these people,myself included,are very vulnerable to outside hurt and are their own worst enemy.Give us a break,it really is not esy being us!

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Sweet Blue Moon
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posted April 07, 2005 08:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sweet Blue Moon     Edit/Delete Message
Every cancer man I know is such a momma's boy!

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LeoSweetHeart
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posted April 10, 2005 05:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeoSweetHeart     Edit/Delete Message
my boyfriend is a Cancer moon, but he doesn't seem to be very close with his mom. Maybe its the Virgo Sun and Venus..probably He can be sensitive sometimes and he does like when I'm nurturing to him..like when he's sick and I'm extra loving or when I hold his head on my chest and rub his head and he loves cuddling! And I love that he loves that!

Does anyone know if Cancer moons are prone to live in fantasy worlds sometimes? I read that somewhere and it seems to be true for him.

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