posted March 18, 2005 08:44 PM         

I am so confused rigt now. I met a guy in January. While conversating with him the second time, I heard, very cleary "this is the man you will marry." I was NOT thinking about anything of this sort. I had just six months ago, ended a two year relationship. However, I trust my intuition because it has lead not only me, but others as well. I asked questions about this(asked questions to my spirit guides, angel,higher being. I got what I thought were signs and answers to let me know that what I had heard, was right. I had a nagging feeling about somethings that had taken place, but I thought.. "I heard this. Another person who has similar abilities, felt and saw this also. It must be right."

Last night, everything came tumbling down. I found out that he is a serial lier, and is not the man I thought he was.

posted March 19, 2005 03:36 AM         

You go on acting as if it had nothing to do with you.

*whistles innocently*

posted March 19, 2005 04:08 PM         

He may have been putting suggestions into your mind (by that I mean, we can all project, silently and otherwise. Maybe the two of you have some strong Neptunian contacts which enables him to "see" into you).

A con artist will play on your desires, wants, fears..etc.. and they, like a chameleon, will change to fit your environment, until they have you. People cannot maintain a lie for too long, it does come out and their real persona will break through.

I am sorry that you had to go through this, but don't blame yourself. You did do the right thing about asking the questions and finding out his story.

posted March 21, 2005 12:08 PM         

I am glad you are posting.

When I was 18 years old, I saw a man in a large crowd of people. I knew I would marry this man. I stood in the middle of the street (a block party) and waited and waited to meet him. His friend finally came over to me, and then (my) Bill came over to talk to his friend. His friend asked me if I would like to go on a motorocycle ride with him (I had never met him before). I said -"No, I want to go on a motorocycle ride with - " (my Bill). That is how we met. We have been married for many years.

Because I also think I am intuitive, I have sometimes taken online tests - you choose which figure will appear next - to receive your score. I wish I could remember the site. Any way, some days I could get (9) out of (10) answers right; other days, just (3) out of (10). Who knows how this stuff works?

Any way, I am so sorry this has not worked out for you. Maybe you are as much concerned about your incorrect feelings - as the loss of this relationship. You will be okay. Spring is almost here. It is a nice time to take long walks, or to do some digging and planting. I have venus in taurus, so I can relate to your taurus sun. This digging and planting always seems to comfort and calm me.

KEY

posted March 21, 2005 11:14 PM         

One day, he will mellow out and not be so anxious to make an impression, but he will always feel he is not as good as he could be, liars want to boost their self worth.

If you are feeling worthless at anytime, it's because you feel you could not boost his self esteem, or that he saw you as someone who wasn't very smart. Actually nothing has changed, he gave up trying to win you, because he knew he needed to take care of himself,
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You forget to be selfish sometimes, and if you want a relationship bad enough, you will overlook almost anything in a man. I have found as a Taurus that I get into a relationship and expect a certain course, dating, marriage, and so on, but it doesn't always work that way.

Your voice is what you really want, but it was about what you want, not what you need right now. Maybe that man is similar to the man you will marry someday, keep the good qualities in your mind. It's normal to want, and express it. This man, did not know what he wanted, and you made him feel so good, he lied to keep you around, as more than a friend. once you see him a friend, you won't care if he lied.

honestly, if your cousin or friend lied to you, you wouldn't care and you would forgive right? Do not depend on this man or any man for a relationship where your life will change, not ever. Since you are a Taurus, your life will not change for a man, even if it's romantic, instead his life will change for you, and he has to be strong enough to accept it.

Once you accept that the men you attract will have at the start low self worth, you will not expect anyone to tell you the truth 100%, it comes from being socially anxious and wanting to decieve? you into being happy and stable. Be charming, but be wary and more hard to get, you don't have to let any man know you love him.

That's the lesson for a Taurus woman, you have to pull back, mentally, emotionally and physically, because you need to let the man take the lead-it will make you happier in the long run.

That's my advice, don't depend or expect much from any man, because each one will say anything to keep you happy, that doesn't have to be bad, unless you are attached.

the only way to appear and be unattached is to be happy with several different people, but do not show off. Do not get wrapped up in any man who wants you all to himself very quickly, because that is his way of testing to see if your self worth is low, you will get lots of testing,

Luckily you are a very strong person who will get stronger,

Natasha
Taurus
Cancer moon

posted March 22, 2005 12:57 AM         

I thank you sooooo much for your wonderful advice.

posted March 22, 2005 11:24 AM         

Running Bull, we all need to hear that sometimes don't we?

Protect your heart,

posted March 22, 2005 11:51 AM         

Painting, drawing, writing poetry, all these things help.

Natasha

posted March 22, 2005 11:56 AM         

You're right, if they learn their lessons well and re-member that the most lasting and precious thing is love, not hatred and revenge - it can be the most amazingly magically passionate relationship in the world.

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posted March 23, 2005 06:41 PM         

You all are so supportive here! I am glad that love guided me to this 'sight'.