posted March 19, 2005 12:27 PM         

Peace to you...send her good thoughts and love...

posted March 19, 2005 10:34 PM         

Cappy women like to play games, I have one Cappy gal pal who is considered gorgeous as well as gentle and kind, but she used to always make the wrong choices in men, I think there is a fatal attraction to men who can pull the wool over their eyes, because there are so few men who can do this, most Cappy women can sense people's weaknesses, and see right through them, and occasionally the liars and manipulators will project a false image which the Cappy woman cannot analyze, so she begins to idealize this person who does not exist, instead falls in love with a scumbag!

My friend also doesn't like men who gush too much for her, or make verbal confessions of love, she is finally settled down with a passionate loving Taurus, but he will never make public displays of affection, but you know she tells me inside details coz we're gal pals and all that heheheh

She is more the kind that is swayed by true actions and sacrifice, I remember she was so happy when her Taurean bf got her a coach purse, although she is rich and not a gold digger, he is poorer and works min. wage, I thought it was weird, it would not turn me on, but she loved it, perhaps its a Cap/Taurus thing, she is very much into material confessions of love, and gift giving. Try that with her? Something subtle, and not too obvious, she would not like a dozen red roses for example delivered in public, she might like a single rose given in private, etc.

Also, she tends, like everyone I think, to be attracted to people who give off the 'I'm confident, I dont care, and I dont need anyone' vibe, these men may give off these independent vibes to her which attract her, Cappys are emotionally mature, and somewhat distant, they like loyalty and trust and security, but also value independence, and status, and ambition, and people who understand these values or can help them get there, or can climb even higher than them in these areas.

posted March 24, 2005 01:14 PM         

And yes there is the challenge the sacrifice, the material things, it's hard to care when there is nothing physical on the line for earth signs, but we grow out of it. People have called me beautiful, but I don't believe it much, so possibly she doesn't know she is gorgeous?

Anyone can make you feel ugly in a day,
Keep being her friend, it's a kind thing to do, and she may need you someday.

I doubt very much she believes you when you tell her she is beautiful,