posted April 04, 2005 10:24 PM         

Also, let him know that you don't have any big expectations...well, at least make him feel like that - he might get claustrophobic if he feels you're expecting a lot up front. Both Aries and Cap feel better when the cards are on the table and no ones forcing their hand.

posted April 05, 2005 10:42 AM         

Hmmm! A question… (Only one? ) His whole approach is a big question mark…

How is he supposed to play the game if he is interested? Is all this caution a subtle approach? Is this the way he understands a conquest? I never though an Aries could be so… non-invasive!!!

He did asked VERY direct questions about my previous love life and current situation regarding men... And he made very clear he was available and there was no competition…

Is he making his mind up? Or just playing safe because he is not sure of my intentions?

I don’t know really… Any other information would be very useful…

posted April 05, 2005 10:01 PM         

I hope I can hang on your coattails awaiting an answer on the modus operandi of Aries/Caps from the wondrous Ms. Pixie!
steelrose, I'm ROFL about your Aries/Cap being so...."non-invasive" !!! It does seem to be out of character. I think the Aries/Cap that I'm interested in also Cap Rising, and he's got six planets in Cardinal signs but they really do not outwardly show. I've done some research on the combinations that I'd like to share with you:

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Sun in Aries/Moon in Capricorn
You have that inner drive of ambition that makes almost inevitably for success. You're a hard person to get the better of, for you know your own mind and have definite ideas of where you're going and how you're going to get there; and you let nothing stand in your way. No matter how sweet and gracious you may be -- and there's every chance that you are, at least when you want to be -- there's a hard underlying foundation of rock in your nature that does not get shaken and does not yield to blandishment. You're an excellent businessperson and may find yourself at the top of the heap -- or rather not find yourself there so much as force yourself there. You seem to know the laws of the conservation of energy and to be able to take all the pep, energy, enthusiams, and magnetism of your makeup and put it into constructive action through the power of a rigidly controlled poersonality. Your manner of expression is foreceful without being offensive; you seem to know instinctively the right way to say the right thing at the right time, and powerful people will help you at the beginning of your life as you will help others at the end. One or both parents is likely to mean a great deal to you both psychologically and materially.
-- Grant Lewi

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From www.astrology.com profiles:
Sun in Aries/Capricorn Ascendent
Behind your rather pragmatic, hard-headed exterior, you are really an adventurer and a risk-taker. Your cool, conservative manner masks a much more fiery core.
Sun in Aries/Moon in Capricorn
Serious and responsible, you try to carry the world on your shoulders and rarely let others know that you need help and support. You deny or ignore your own emotional needs and feel that others will not accept you if you appear "weak". To others, you may appear to be rather hard-nosed and tough, with a businesslike attitude toward their personal concerns and feelings. Actually, no one is a truer friend. Your feelings and loyalties run deep, but you often do not let people know how much you care.
Sun Square Moon
You often feel that you are at cross purposes with yourself, for your conscious intentions and desires conflict with your subconscious emotional needs and drives. You are pulled in two different directions. You have difficulty satisfying both your need to be an individual and your need for caring relationships and a sense of belonging. Also, you send out mixed messages so people don't always know how to respond to you or what you really want, thus creating confusion or conflict in close relationships.

posted April 06, 2005 10:14 AM         

I'm Aries/Capricorn moon.. That was a very true description.

I'm pretty sure an Aries/Capricorn guy would be somewhat different.. For what it's worth I love the beginning stage of a relationship, before anyone's made their intentions clear. I don't like things being set in stone from the onset. That flirty stage is cool. I also like attracting, luring in.. but not actually saying: I like you or Go out with me. I have a Pisces Mercury too though so maybe I just like things being more so felt and unspoken.. Sometimes I think trying to put a connection into words would ruin it. Specially when I know we both strongly feel that there is a connection.. I think to myself why say it? I'd rather it drift of into a relationship.. Though I gotta say, however unstable this perfect beginning may sound, Stability is one of the main things for me once I am in a relationship. My bf is very stable. I feel I can count on him, even though I don't technically need to, I just like to know he's there.. always, no matter what. So someone flighty, gemini-like (though I love them as friends)is a no no in a relationship with me. Flightiness hurts me, it's an emotional thing..

posted April 06, 2005 02:10 PM         

I don’t know about that thing of “being born for success”... He appeared to be for a while... But now everything is so different... He appears to have grown inwards... I bet he has with all those 5 retrogrades (Venus, Saturn, Uranus, Neptune and Pluto)... He appears to be a loser if you look at the shell... but I sense that impression is deceiful...

Me
Sun – 26º Virgo
Moon – 17º Sagittarius
Mercury – 9º Virgo
Venus – 26º Leo
Mars – 11º Cancer
Jupiter – 4º Cancer
Saturn – 25º Leo
Uranus – 9º Scorpio
Neptune – 13º Sagittarius
Pluto – 13º Libra
North Node – 15º Libra
Chiron – 5º Taurus
Ascendant – 15º Sagittarius

Him
Sun – 20º Aries
Moon – 16º Capricorn (degree not exact - unknown birth time)
Mercury – 10º Taurus
Venus – 14º Aries (R)
Mars – 17º Pisces
Jupiter – 1º Gemini
Saturn – 10º Leo (R)
Uranus – 11º Scorpio (R)
Neptune – 16º Sagittarius (R)
Pluto – 13º Libra (R)
North Node – 24º Libra
Chiron – 1º Taurus
Ascendant – ??? (unknown birth time)