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From: Kerman, Ca, USA
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posted May 11, 2005 08:15 PM         

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My Venus in Scorpio is driving me crazy! I'm so surprised by how intense my jealousy hits me sometimes. As I'm writing this, I'm in the school library after walking out of my German class in a pissy way. My fiance and I share our book, and we are always parnters for the group activity. Well today the professor paired him up with some girl and so I calmly told my new partner to look for someone becasue I was leaving. I'm so embarassed now, everybody looked up as I marched out that door. Now I'm feeling like an insane psycho chick... I'm an archer normally so casual and light, but when it comes to love omigod. Sorry for babling on and on, I am feeling very mortified at the moment

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posted May 12, 2005 08:30 AM         

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Oh Deira, dont apologise, I understand this totally, I not only have Venus in Scorp, but sun, venus, neptune, jupiter and then moon and mars in taurus! I am a bloody nightmare, and even look to see if my husband is looking at other women when we are out. This is after being together for 16 years. I am extremely passionate which I love, but the jealousy I HATE - maybe we shall always feel this way - AAARGHHH - love to you xxxx

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posted May 12, 2005 01:57 PM         

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Hi Sue,

whew I'm so glad you don't think I'm a pscyho I felt really stupid and embarassed afterwards. My guy was freaked out because I left in such a hurry, that I left my purse behind. I told him why I left, and thankfully he understood. He has Pluto in the first, Saturn and Mars all in Scorpio so thank god he knows how irrationally jealous we get sometimes.

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posted May 12, 2005 02:34 PM         

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I know what you mean. My venus is in taurus and so is my moon. I am very possessive.

I warn everyone I have gottten in a relationship with that I am.

I don't want my boyfriend even breathing in the same room as another girl or I'll kil him.(Not that I will...my venus talking).

I will give you the look if you even if you say hi to another woman. My blood boils when I get jealous and I go on a rampage. LOL

LOL sue it is funny you mentioned that. My ex was a scorpio and I once saw him look into a store and accused him of looking at another woman. I started a big fight in front of everyone.

When me and my boyfriend walk I am constantly looking at his eyes even through the corner of my eye.

I had to try controlling it when I met my cappy who wasn't going to have any of it!

He sometimes calls me his little physco LOL.

If he even makes eye contact with another woman....he's dead!

Oh well

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posted May 12, 2005 02:43 PM         

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Venus/Mars conjunction In Scorpio?
HOT.
Okay, Saturn is there too, which could be dampening, but when he's looking at the commitment side of things, instead of disciplining you into behaving certain ways, it'd be hot hot hot!

I hate jealousy.
It has made me do stupid things I am mortified about.
I am the opposite.. I have Scorpio Sun Mars, Uranus and NNode ( karmic lessons anyone?)
BUt my Venus *and Neptune conjunct* is in Sagittarius, which is very much against outward jealousy. I understand... and I hate it.
Okay, so its a blip on the coolness radar.. you'll be okay.
Mentally flick a booger at her, and remind yourself how much better you and your fiance connect.

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posted May 12, 2005 03:26 PM         

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I have Sun/Mercury/Venus/Jupiter/Neptune in Scorpio, and I'm not jealous at all. Seriously. If I can't trust someone completely I won't be with them. I don't mind if they look at other women, just so long as they're not rude about it (tongue hanging out of their mouths, staring rudely, etc). I don't even care if they look at porn. LOL Hell, I look at porn sometimes. LOL

I know that I'm capable of jealousy, but it's such a yucky feeling, and it can consume you, so I tend to avoid men who would elicit a jealous response within me. Also, I'm very independant and cannot stand possesive or jealous behavior when it's directed AT me, so if I expect trust I s'pose I have to give it in return.

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posted May 12, 2005 03:46 PM         

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Hee, Hee,

My little one is a Scorpio, and Scorpio is scattered throughout her chart, too. She is so possessive, I actually have to sit down with her and tell her that we don't have to be joined at the hip. Once, we were at a party with an adult/kid mix. Some guy was flirting with me, and instead of getting mad, she just affixed herself to my side the whole night. The guy of course eventually got the picture. I told her that she doesn't have to do that, that I could handle myself. She finally gets it though. I think that intense way Scorps have of loving someone is very cool, but sometimes unnerving. I'm an Aqua though.

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posted May 12, 2005 04:04 PM         

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Cute, about your daughter.....

Isis~ I am with you. I like porn, and will indulge myself.... I don't mind looking at people, what's good for the goose is good for the gander, I am independent, and encourage this as well....
That's why I hate that sometimes I DO get jealous, it is so against how I live my life, and how I truly am... it is such a primal thing.
I want to control it, and I am pretty good now.... I used to be SO jealous!
Now, I will be mildly irritated at times, but it must be when I am feeling insecure, as any other time, I am the first to say "Hey, check HER out.."
Such a duality there, It bugs me.

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posted May 12, 2005 04:37 PM         

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I trust my man and yet I still feel prickled when he looks elsewhere - what am I like, a bit of a dickhead I think!!!!!! xx

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posted May 12, 2005 04:50 PM         

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*I'm a dickhead too.

I called someone a dickhead today, (I was like.. did I ACTUALLY just say dickhead?) so excellent choice of words.

I hate hate hate jealousy.

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posted May 12, 2005 08:02 PM         

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Dickhead here as well. I have Sag sun which hates the jealousy in my Taurus moon and Venus Scorpio. But it happens. The best thing to do is walk away and calm down. You did the right thing.

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posted May 12, 2005 10:56 PM         

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I've got that placement too, and even though I'm usually happy about it, I've been trying to reign in my jealousy and emotions for years. Pair it up with my Cancer moon, and you're in for one heck of a ride...next time this happens you should try what I do. Just say to yourself that this is your Scorp. Venus acting up, and you must be rational.

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posted May 13, 2005 12:09 AM         

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I have a cancer rising.

If I could I'd lock him up in a cage. My sister says the same thing. She has venus in scorpio not sure of her mars though. She has a taurus rising and a capricorn sun.

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posted May 13, 2005 01:41 AM         

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Venus & Mars in scorpio here.
Deira, i know what you speak. Being jealous and not wanting to be jealous !
At the same time i love to give and take freedom..! Its all contradictions. Sometimes even the passion (which i love the most) is unbearable. even my aqua moon cant tone it down.(Sigh) wish i were less passionate..

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The more you chase it,
The more it will elude it.
But if you turn your attention to other things,
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posted May 13, 2005 04:56 AM         

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Awww you guys are all too awesome for words. I am so glad I expressed myself here, everyone is always so cool on this thread. Pixie, yes the Sag-Scorpio contradiction is annoying. My Mars is in Sag, I'm always getting pulled in two directions. A part of me is a crusader of independence and freedom, and the other part is wanting to lock my Cancer in the closet LOL. I'll take the advice to remind myself its my Venus acting up next time.

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posted May 13, 2005 12:18 PM         

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What do you guys think of Venus conujunct Sun conjunct Uranus in Scorpio? Its giving me hell right now!

And me with my Venus Mars conjunct in Aries in Eigth - damn damn damn!!!

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posted May 13, 2005 12:51 PM         

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Hey Deira,

I'm a guy with Sun/Venus/Uranus conjunct in Scorpio. That Uranus really throws a curve in the spokes (just ask maya). My feelings, especially my romantic feelings, are so unpredictable. Sometimes I'm like a visitor from another planet, and I can't for the life of me feel connected to myself, let alone somebody else. Other times, the emotions come flooding out with the force of a tsunami. As for the jealousy, I'm in denial about it, but, yeah,.. been there, done that. I find that, having been burned in the past, I can't truly let myself go with a person until I'm 100% sure that I'm the only one for them. Hence, at the age of 26, I've only been in three serious relationships (i.e. 3 relationships - period), with about four years time passing in between them.

My mars is also in Sag, and I can definitely relate to "getting pulled in two directions", particularly, in the mental sphere (mars/merc). I'm usually engaged with myself in a game of tug-o-war with two opposing philosophies,.. and then the rope snaps.

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posted May 13, 2005 01:02 PM         

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Maya and Heart Shaped Cross,

LOL you guys my Uranus is also conjunct Venus. Its weird, there have been times when I'm jealous but I still want my space. Weird. Or, I'll be really content with someone and then get a flash of inspiration to be single. I've also just been in about three serious relationships, and I'm 26 like you HSC. My bday is 12/7/78 is yours in October or November?

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posted May 14, 2005 04:34 AM         

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Any more Dickheads out there???????

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