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moonmaiden
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From: sydney,n.s.w.Australia
Registered: May 2003

posted May 11, 2005 09:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for moonmaiden     Edit/Delete Message
OH HELP! I BETTER START FROM THE BEGINING:
My beautiful Libran boy/man decided to tell his parents about how much he loves me and how serious he feels about us.(He is 34 and has never told his parents about his relationships so this was/ is a big deal)His mother a scorp and father a sagitarius were very happy and wished us all the best... TWO WEEKS LATER...My soon to be scorpio mother in law and MY very leo aunty had a HUGE argument that both of them swear will never mend.Apparently the scorpio told the leo to break up my relationship with her son (A Libran and me a Cancer) Heres the twist wen my Libran asked his scorpio mother if this was true she emphatically denied it saying her only concearn was our age gap (11 years ; im 23 he's 34)...My Leo aunty insists that the scorpio was insulting me and my family and that she was demanding for my aunty to break us up!!!!...wenever i speak to my aunty she is still bitter and angry about wat was said but the scorpio has said to my boy it was all a misunderstanding and cant wait to meet me...WHO IS TELLING THE TRUTH!??!

I should also mention that my boy and I, our families have known each other for over 20 years...its a long story but my Aunties husband lived with my boyfriends family in the 1970's...my boyfriends mother and my Aunties husband are both scorpios and had a few clashes over the years but nothing serious- FAST FORWARD TO 2003-2005-my boyfriend and i met while he lived with my aunty and her husband...im sorry if this is too confusing for you guys to follow but ,its all crazy...if you can ,please help.much love and thanx, MM.XXXXX
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pixelpixie
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From: Ontario, Canada
Registered: Aug 2003

posted May 13, 2005 03:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pixelpixie     Edit/Delete Message
A lil' confusing, but what is clear is that mother in laws, and future mother in laws, and well meaning family members....
WILL MEDDLE.

Bottom line. Always .. completely.. they will.
This is the groundwork. It doesn't matter, truly, in the grand scale of things, who said what and what they meant..
Granted, she does not have all the facts.. she has not seen you interact with your fiance.
Meet her, hold nothing against her, represent yourself and your relationship, and if her son is happy, that is all that matters.
Not your age, not the drama of who said what and why.....
Tell your aunt thank you for standing up for me, but you are a mature adult who can handle this.. Let her hold your hand if it makes her feel important, but no back talk.
This situation is blossoming.
The players don't know the moves yet.
To assume is foolhardy.

Be good. Be True. Enjoy.

(sorry it took a while)

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pixelpixie
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From: Ontario, Canada
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posted May 15, 2005 12:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for pixelpixie     Edit/Delete Message
B-wippity Bwipity Bump..

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pixelpixie
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From: Ontario, Canada
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posted May 16, 2005 12:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pixelpixie     Edit/Delete Message
Bump
Tired of bumping

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moonmaiden
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From: sydney,n.s.w.Australia
Registered: May 2003

posted May 16, 2005 09:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for moonmaiden     Edit/Delete Message
THANK YOU very much for your help...
The problem is continuing and gets more confusing as days pass,all i know is that we are very much in love and no amount of conniving and manipulating from any leos or scorpios is going to ruin our beuatiful Libra cancer love.The scorpio will continue to say she cant wait to meet me,the leo has and will continue to feel bitter and angry because ive realised how unhappy both these individuals are in THIER marriages so i geuss a new young couple who are head over heals in love seems like something foreign to them ...I now see they both love the drama they have both created Last night i was at my auntys house and it dawned on me...her and her scorpio husband are driving this...they dont want to let it go.i have had enough of being manipulated by ppl who should be happy for me/us.i have just had enough.
Her scorpio husband is so ultra sensetive nad insecure he ignored me wen i arrived to show that he doesnt support my
relationship,HE is the one behind all of this.im just going to stay away from the whole mess...let them have the drama they obviously need it so desperately!

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pixelpixie
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From: Ontario, Canada
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posted May 16, 2005 10:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pixelpixie     Edit/Delete Message
YAY she saw it!
And just when I visited again!
neat.
Good for you to recognize it.
Leave the queens and mother hens to their drama, just be happy.

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