posted May 20, 2005 09:49 AM         

I have never seen a synastry like this before!! In addition to **numerous favorable aspects**, we also have a favorable composite chart. In addition:
MY South Node is in his 4th house of family.
MY Neptune conjuncts his IC.
MY Sun/Moon midpoint conjuncts his Moon.
My Sun, Moon, and Venus are all in his 9th house.
HIS Sun, Merc, and Mars are in my 12th house.
HIS Moon is in my 1st house.

I have Solar Fire, Linda's "Relationship Signs", and Rose Murray's "When Planets Promise Love". All of these resources show very fated, favorable love/marriage/friendship/karmic aspects. I have only found a couple challenging aspects, so the favorable ones should override and smooth out the wrinkles.

I met him online and we exchanged some very intense, deep e-mails. We discussed meeting at a park with the dogs, we both seemed excited about that, and all of a sudden I don't hear from him anymore. Why is he so scared? What is so scarey about meeting for 1/2 an hour at a dog park? If he doesn't like me, then he doesn't have to correspond or call me anymore. Also, how can he resist the pull of the planets with these incredible aspects? You can see how I am confused.

Please I need some insight!!! Please also don't hesistate to e-mail me if you like!!

Thank you in advance. Sincerely, ~Nephthys

posted May 20, 2005 10:18 AM         

Maybe its a Taurean thing, something abt us scares them or something??!

I have a feeling these water guys have a thing for serendipity. Unless its perfect setting, perfecct mood and a perfect placement, most of them would rather not avail that oppurtunity.

posted May 20, 2005 11:26 AM         

OMG I can't believe you said that!! Because guys have been scared of me my whole life!!! What is it?

posted May 20, 2005 11:37 AM         

It makes no sense, maybe we should be more mysterious and withhold of ourselves.

posted May 20, 2005 01:00 PM         

Hey Venus in Taurus must be a good trip. And a dreamy Piscean too!!!

posted May 20, 2005 02:09 PM         

I tend to scare some away also LOL

Oh well

posted May 21, 2005 07:32 AM         

Moon in Pisces is a very sensitive soul. His reaction in emotional situations is either to hide, or to sympathize and give in. He's not likely to fight as he has a tendency to merge energy with others, taking on their feelings. He is a truly empathetic individual. Moon in Pisces nurtures others with a sweet kindness, understanding and a willingness to make personal sacrifices. He needs kindness in return. He may be deeply spiritual, and is undoubtedly an artistic person who draws inspiration from early experiences and memories.

Pisces in Love

As with so much of Pisces' life, if love can be a dreamy state of fantasies and play, a magical tour of mind, body and soul, all the better. These spiritual folk like to combine the real and surreal, so that love with the Fish becomes a creative hyper-state where almost anything is possible. Conservatives need not apply! There is an electric quality to the Fish that makes them almost magnetic in love, although their lover may not be sure just quite what it is that is so attractive. This mysterious quality that Pisceans possess can be quite the aphrodisiac in the game of love. The Fish is an empathetic sort and loves to serve their lover. These folks also love completely, for this sacred state is about the best that life on Earth can bring. Love can be scary for the Fish, but when it's right, it's likely to transcend all limits and reach a brave new world.
Pisces and Romance

Whoever coined the term "dream lover" must have been thinking of Pisces, for these folks often have their head in the clouds, playing with this fantasy or that. Truth be told, can there be a better place for romance? Once back to Earth, the shy Fish will pursue affairs of the heart slowly, carefully and prettily, their aesthetic sensibilities as finely tuned as any sign of the Zodiac. The magical mystery tour of romance with Pisces can be most unpredictable, with hearts and flowers one day and games with veils the next. Either way, they will definitely serve their lover, for this is something which brings them great joy. It's a seductive romance dance for the Fish, and a great one at that, for there is hardly anywhere else they'd rather be.

Pisces and Sex

Sex is an emotional affair for the Fish, as is the case with much of their lives. Pisces is a sensual and creative lover, adoring playful sex and romping through erotic fantasies. Shyness goes out the door, if it's the bedroom door we're talking about! The Fish has a great appetite for sex and loves to keep things fluid and changeable. If their lover can indulge them in flights of fancy, they'll be primed all night long. For Pisceans, love and sex as a complete union is best, the better to feel safe, free and totally uninhibited. The Fish also loves to please their lover, so this union will definitely sizzle for two. As for the sexiest kind of play, it's in the water for the wet and wild Fish.

There are two fishes in the Pisces soul - one of spirit and one of flesh, one who would give himself entirely for others, and one who struggles to live in a harsh reality. Because the Pisces must survive, he can be a very determined, even selfish individual, yet he can turn around and give of himself so completely that you will feel sure he is really an angel. The Pisces loves others with a selfless purity that demands that you give him the utmost respect, and he will suffer dearly without it.

If Pisces seems confused, dreamy, sleepy or lazy, it is because he can't decide which way to go - should he tend to his own needs, or take care of someone else? If he's lucky, he'll find a way to do both at once. The Pisces who can serve himself while helping others is truly blessed.

The Pisces is naturally spiritual, imaginative and artistic. Like a fish, he sometimes needs to find a quiet, peaceful grotto in which to hide. If you catch him, you can count on him to be the dearest friend, a devoted child or parent and the most compassionate and caring of individuals.

posted May 21, 2005 03:33 PM         

I think the Fish got away If he has a of Gold, then why did he just blow me off with no word? It is so much kinder to say "I have a lot of things going on right now, so I'll let you know when I can get together." OR "something has come up and I need some time to re-evaluate my situation." Then I would surely get the message.
Did you look at our synastry aspects? That's what I don't get. They are AMAZING
You know, this is about the 6th time in my life a guy has just blown me off with no word. I just don't get, why they can't just say "you know what, I'm just not available right now". Or say something.
I just read the book "He's Just Not That Into You" by Greg Behrendt. It is very good. It says that if the guy doesn't contact you, blows you off, etc. then forget about him. I agree with everything the book spells out. However, a guy told me that since we haven't met in person yet, the book doesn't count yet.
Anyhow, thanks for all of your support, Maya. I really appreciate it. If you like please feel free to e-mail me too. Nephthys@linda-goodman.net

posted May 22, 2005 11:49 AM         

I would love to post the charts and the synastry grid, however, I don't have anywhere online to do so.
Yes my Mars could be the culprit.
My Mars:
Trines his Moon
Trines his Venus
Conjuncts his Uranus
Conjuncts his Pluto
Sextiles his North Node
Opposes his Chiron

HIS Mars;
Conjuncts my Saturn
Trines my Neptune
Conjuncts my Chiron

HIs Venus;
Conjuncts my Moon
Conjuncts my Venus
Trines my Mars
Trines my Uranus
Trines my Pluto
Trines my Midheaven

There are numerous other aspects, you wouldn't believe it. I do have an Aries Moon and an Aries Rising so you are right, I could come off as too pushy.

All I did was say "we should meet with the dogs at a dogpark or something!! Is there somewhere 1/2-way between S.R. and M.V.?"
He replied " I would love to meet with the dogs at a park!! I know we would enjoy seeing each other and Jasmine and Willy would love to play together. How about a little beach near San Quentin? Would you like to meet for tea and a snack first?"

Then I replied that I would love to meet for tea first, however, Jasmine can't and won't wait in the car. Also, the road near San Quentin is busy and I am not comfortable letting Jasmine there because she is not street wise. How about McGinnis Park? Then I put a P.S. my phone # is.......

and that was it. So maybe the fact that I gave my phone # was too much for him. who knows.

Ah well.