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Topic: He wont go away
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SavageScorpio
Knowflake Posts: 13
From: Davis, Ca. US
Registered: Mar 2005
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posted May 31, 2005 04:17 AM
 
I've been seeing a guy (Pisces)since about November. We haven't been avidly seeing each other though, don't get me wrong. We've dated, I stayed with him for a while, and I've since broken up with him, telling him pretty consecutively like every 3 weeks that I want nothing to do with him, in every variation of the phrase you can possibly think of, because he's treated me pretty horribly. Horribly I mean by being dishonest, he can't say how he really feels, and it drives me insane. Half the time I don't think he even has feelings except for jealousy or determination (moon in aquarius, mars/venus in aries). Half the time I was in the relationship, I was crying!!!! Of course he didn't offer any consolation whatsoever, unlike anyone I've ever met in my life, it was weird, so I got sadder! I've told him that we aren't good together, we bring out the worst in each other, life goes on and hence we should move on (especially since I'm leaving soon for the Air Force), my mom hates him, his mom doesn't like me, his friends don't even like me. It's absolutely pointless. Yet he won't get the hint, and it's really difficult for me, because he can be sooooo sweet. People tell me "if you have any respect for yourself forget about him", which I've done..but then he keeps coming around. I changed my phone number last week, and so he came over to my house, only to be flashed on by my mom, and he calls my housephone. I think he is just out for the pursuit, the challenge, and has no real feelings/intentions for me, or he wouldn't have done so many of the horrible things he did to me (letting his friends watch us have sex, letting them treat me badly, trying to change me, discourage me, and completely control me)...it's absolutely crazy!!! I've learned my lesson with rebounds so it's not like I'm just going to jump into anything, but the physical aspects are really hard to eh...deny. Especially when he's saying he misses me, he can change, he wants to get to know me, all the time we've spent together, and listening to how I feel for ONCE.. I dunno. After everything he's done, horrible things (all I can think is that I must have hurt his ego and he wanted to hurt me back or SOMETHING!)..I should just move on, because regardless of the moment, those memories come flooding back, and I can't forgive/forget/move on with him for fear that he just might do it again, why wouldn't he, and I wouldn't want to be with someone who would do that in the first place..then again I've pretty easy going, in the sense that I can easily block **** out like how hurt I am and mad and whatnot and get back together with him (done it b4) but then afterwards I feel horrible and never want to see him again, and he keeps coming back (I think it's because i've taken him back so many times). Anyone have any advice???? I have sun/venus/mercury scorp, moon leo, asc in gemini..he's pisces w venus/mars in aries, moon aquarius..i think his ascendant is aries or virgo (hes really shy, but kind of meticulous and clean cut looking always..and just as manipulative as I am) IP: Logged |
monad
Knowflake Posts: 287
From: new zealand
Registered: Dec 2004
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posted May 31, 2005 09:43 AM
from aspects it is easy to see why you got together in the first place.Dont worry youll find someone else. You dont have to deal with him.
Get a trespass notice or somethin Do you still like him? Be friends? Either that or say get the f outa my life wierdo. IP: Logged |
Mama Mia
Knowflake Posts: 642
From: chicago
Registered: Aug 2004
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posted May 31, 2005 10:58 AM
WOW!!! I am Pisces with Moon Aqua Mars in Aries. Let him go babe, he has issues and he is a trip, I garuntee you,you can do better. He needs to feel the void. Next time he meets a nice girl he will treat her right.Mama Mia
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