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calliope
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From: The Ether
Registered: Feb 2005

posted June 08, 2005 11:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for calliope     Edit/Delete Message
I never thought I'd be the sort of person who would write this, but I am in love with a Scorpio who is attached. Not married, but attached.
The thing is that we communicate so well, and have so many very specific interests in common it's unreal. Most of the time he or I are busy with work and I would really like to communicate more. I've read a lot on here about soul mates, or similar, not necessarily needing to be a romantic connection. But - ahem - he's male, I'm female, the age gap is not too great! Go figure!
I love communicating with him because the world always seems more colourful, brighter, when I do. I get annoyed with him sometimes because, of course not all our opinions are the same - but I'm afraid I'm hooked! And it's not that I don't have a busy life, but I just feel he is something special, he's really "got something".

Obviously I daren't tell him how I feel, although I wonder whether he already "knows" instinctively!!! I have absolutely no idea how he feels - although the communication is fantastic, he probably sees me as just a friend.

I never, ever thought I would find myself in this situation. Please tell me I'm mad and barking up the wrong tree!

Calliope

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pixelpixie
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From: Ontario Canada
Registered: Jun 2005

posted June 08, 2005 12:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pixelpixie     Edit/Delete Message
Well.. do you really want me to tell you that?

It's your tree and your bark to put where you choose.
Everyone has been attached at one point or another.
I understand it is respectful to appreciate unions and not mess with them.. but if they are messy by themselves, there are reasons.

Enjoy your crush, or love, wherever you draw the line. I have a feeling this story is going to be long running......
Is it reciprocated?
You don't just announce love for someone with no merit or context.
Have you.... never mind, too personal.

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pixelpixie
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posted June 08, 2005 12:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pixelpixie     Edit/Delete Message
(in my experience, forbidden things are awesome... for a time.)

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calliope
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From: The Ether
Registered: Feb 2005

posted June 08, 2005 01:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for calliope     Edit/Delete Message
I told him I liked him (desperately wanted to tell him how much), when we had a difference of opinion over something (we're both strong personalities) - and I stressed that that difference wasn't a reason to forego what could be a potentially good friendship. Which I think (I hope) he was okay with. He has been really helpful - as in REALLY helpful - in giving certain advice - when I particularly needed it, I get the feeling he is very loyal to his friends.

I have absolutely no idea what his relationship with his partner is like, and I would hate to be responsible for destroying a good relationship. I would feel a bit guilty no matter what the situation was!!!

I've also heard that Scorpios like subtlety and like to take things slowly - also that it is difficult to fathom their motives and they like to keep people guessing. True or false?

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calliope
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From: The Ether
Registered: Feb 2005

posted June 08, 2005 02:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for calliope     Edit/Delete Message
BTW, I have other male friends. This is different from my normal friendships, I don't feel it is "normal" camaraderie because there is an understanding on certain levels that I don't usually get.

I think I'm going to burst from not being able to tell him how much I like him!

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