posted June 29, 2005 04:37 PM         

so obviously Mr Virgo has talked about me with the boys....and told them that we didnt do it...i cant quite get my head around it all for some reason, then to top it all off one of them makes the moves on me and i was like....ummm i dont think so.....

Can any one shed any light or am i just hungover.....lol

posted June 29, 2005 05:03 PM         

These comments would be a bit disconcerting. Kind of makes you wonder if they're just "boys being boys" or if that's the nature of his conversation with them regarding you.

And if they are just being guys, that still doesn't excuse their comments!

Apparently your Virgo has been talking about you which could be a good thing. It could all have been very innocent... maybe they had been giving him a hard time, wanting to dig for *explicit* details. Hopefully, he didn't just offer the info, followed up by something like "I hope to hit it soon!"

Seeing as how he hasn't acted like much of a player when he's interacting with you, I would be inclined to give him the benefit of the doubt. Just keep your eyes and ears open for anything that doesn't seem right to you!

posted June 29, 2005 06:47 PM         

I bumped into a girl i know as well who has known virgo for years and she said at parties he is a real player. So he either isnt into me at all (which i am really starting to think) or he has other fish to fry at the moment.

Either way i am steering well clear of him. Sounds like trouble with a capital T which ever way i look at it. On the postive side, it is good that he was honest about not doing it with me, he could have lied i guess.

All this explains why i havent seen him, i think he is probably feeling stink about it all. I know he has a concience.

posted June 30, 2005 09:56 AM         

Kiwi, just be careful too, this may not be anything girl,but talk to him first and let him know how you feel, maybe this happened so you can decide whether you want to be with him or not!

Love to all

posted June 30, 2005 10:55 AM         

Having read what you posted and reading other people's impressions it sounds to me like there is a bit of competition going on but not in the way you might think. It sounds as if he's been honest and perhaps isn't being 'a player' with you as he actually does respect and feel an awful lot for you. I don't want to start getting your hopes up but it seems to me that if he thought nothing of you, he'd have lied and bragged to his mates that he'd slept with you. I think they took it upon themselves to make it a competition, desperate to succeed where they perceive he's failed sort of thing. But he hasn't failed has he? He's just not leapt in with 2 feet and bulldozed you into submission as it sounds like he's done with other girls. I don't take that to mean he's not into you as such, rather that he doesn't want to take such an obvious and blunt approach to you??

Trust your instincts - they don't lie and they'll tell you everything you need to know.

posted June 30, 2005 04:46 PM         

Cardinalgal, you were 100% on the nose right about it all. He has tried to do the right thing in this situation and the "boys" have tried to slant it in a different way.

I plan on having a chat to him this weekend, and once and for all clearing the air.

My friend Emma said last night that the more he likes someone the more he distances himself from me. I did notice last night (my power went out and the power board had to come around to fix it) that when the power guy turned up virgo walked out his front door and wandered casually out to his room all the while trying to suss out what was happening at my place!!! lol.

Thank you all for taking the time, which ever way this goes you have all helped keep me sane lately.