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Topic: Scorpio/Taurus
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LuLu
Knowflake Posts: 10
From: Louisville, Kentucky, USA
Registered: Feb 2005
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posted July 17, 2005 11:30 AM
 
I just need a little help please if someone could be so kind. I feel a very strong connection to this person and have from the start. I know the attraction is mutual, but I am not sure where any of this is going. Just tell me what you see if you can. I would greatly appreciate any insights!!! I would post the link to the chart, but someone took over my account last time I used it!Me
Louisville, Kentucky
4/26/1978
85w46, 38n15
Univ. Time 6:43 am Sun - Taurus, 5 degrees, 3rd house
Moon - Sag., 17 degrees, 11th house
Mercury - Aries, 14 degrees, 2nd house
Venus - Taurus, 28 degrees, 4th house
Mars - Leo, 5 degrees, 7th house
Jupiter - Cancer, 2 degrees, 5th house
Saturn - Leo, 23 degrees, 7th house
Uranus - Scorpio, 14 degrees, 9th house
Neptune - Sag., 17 degrees, 11th house
Pluto - Libra, 14 degrees, 8th house
Mean Node - Libra, 4 degrees, 8th house
True node - Libra, 5 degrees, 8th hosue
Chiron - Taurus, 5 degrees, 3rd house
Asc. - Cap, 29 degrees
Him
Bowling Green, Kentucky
11/2/1977
12noon
86w27, 36n59
Univ. Time 18:00pm
Sun - Scorpio, 10 degrees, 9th house
Moon - Cancer, 24 degrees, 6 house
Mercury - Scorpio, 19 degrees, 10th house
Venus - libra, 20 degrees, 9 house
Mars - leo, 2 degrees, 7th house
Jupiter - Cancer, 5 degrees, 6 house
Saturn - leo, 29 degrees, 7 house
Uranus - Scorpio, 11 degrees, 9 house
neptune - sag., 14 degrees, 11 house
pluto - libra, 15 degrees, 8 house
Mean node - libra, 13 degrees, 8 house
true node - libra, 14 degrees, 8 house
Chiron - Taurus, 3 degrees, 3 house
ASc. - Cap., 26 degrees
PLEASE, PLEASE let me know what you see, good or bad. Thank you all soooo much in advance!!!!!
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pixelpixie
Moderator Posts: 1539
From: Ontario Canada
Registered: Jun 2005
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posted July 17, 2005 02:52 PM
First of all.. opposing suns is magnetic between the sexes, in the best case..
there is a similaritiy, but also a difference.... you see what you wish for yourself in the other.
Your Ascendants are the same sign, conjunct, in fact! which makes a good connection..... your house positions are the same.. so you feel influences in the same sectors....
Mars conjunct Mars could be a little explosive.. passionate, but you'll both p0robably have an opinion onm everything, and express it, possibly in an agrument.. but there are sparks for sure! You'll want to be very physical together. Challenge each other.
Gotta go.. but check out astrology-numerology.com, as well as synatry sites... It looks good at first glance!IP: Logged |
LuLu
Knowflake Posts: 10
From: Louisville, Kentucky, USA
Registered: Feb 2005
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posted July 17, 2005 06:12 PM
Thank you! This person has the ability to see right through me and it is completely unnerving for me. I feel so vulnerable. But I knew from the first time he walked the door in my office. And those eyes! He just stares at me like no one ever has before. I can feel him no matter where he is in the room. He said that eye contact is a big thing for him. He ended a five year live-in relationship shortly after he and I met and realized how easily we got a long. I have to credit him for letting me know up front that he needs time to clear his head even though he says he feels all the same things I do. He told me "when I first started coming around, you were so nervous you could barely even look at me. Now you are just getting to the point where you look me in the eyes when we talk. I don't want to lose that. Does that let you know that I have put a lot of thought into this? I'm just not ready right now." It's hard to argue with the blunt honesty. Normally patience is a big part of my personality, but waiting around is starting to make me really anxious. I need to calm down and let things be. His words, not mine  IP: Logged |
LuLu
Knowflake Posts: 10
From: Louisville, Kentucky, USA
Registered: Feb 2005
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posted July 17, 2005 09:53 PM
Anybody else see anything? Good or bad?IP: Logged |
gert
Knowflake Posts: 109
From: south africa
Registered: Sep 2004
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posted July 29, 2005 10:33 AM
You are both incredibly careful and incredibly stubborn. This is probably whats gonna make the relationship a late starter.You are allso both egotistical and aggressive,your tastes and likes do differ which explains why you are both questioning the attraction.You like to talk and express what you think and he likes to keep to himself or is rather quieter than you! He is a gentlte and charming lover.You are allso charming but way more physical.You are however extremely compatible ,you should really give it a nod!!
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Randall
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From: Columbus, GA USA
Registered: Nov 2000
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posted July 29, 2005 12:17 PM
Welcome!  ------------------
"There is no use trying," said Alice; "one can't believe impossible things." "I dare say you haven't had much practice," said the Queen. "When I was your age, I always did it for half an hour a day. Why, sometimes I've believed as many as six impossible things before breakfast." Lewis Carroll IP: Logged |
Sun_Scorpion
Knowflake Posts: 1409
From: Devon, UK
Registered: Aug 2003
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posted August 05, 2005 01:40 PM
Ohh I love Taurus's!!! Hope it goes well Lulu!  Have you tried asto.com relationship charts? Heres another good one http://astrology3d.com/tv/forms/in-relat.html remember to put your real first names in too!IP: Logged |
LuLu
Knowflake Posts: 10
From: Louisville, Kentucky, USA
Registered: Feb 2005
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posted August 06, 2005 11:44 AM
Thank you all for the warm welcome and for your comments. I have tried astro.com before, in fact the info. above is from there. But I've had my account there hijacked before when I posted links to charts!!! Things are changing slowly between us. Our conversations have changed tones and are now more feeling based. It's hard when you live in two different places and only see each other once a week at meetings. We talk and e-mail every day though. He called this week on his day off just to say hello and to see what I was doing. In the middle of playing golf with a bunch of guys no less. It made me smile. Instead of cutting conversations short when we have bad days now, we actually call each other to talk about what's wrong and to make the day better now. We've been lightly, every now and then, talking about sex. It seems to really make our conversations very charged and tense. At least it's breaking some ground. To talk about how nervous the idea makes both of us. I know he's checking in though to make sure I'm not out running around since we are not technically "dating" yet. He asked me the other day how long it has been. Lots of little tests all over the place. I could feel his smile through the phone when I told him it that there hadn't been anyone since I met him and there hadn't been anyone for a long time before that. I don't know. It feels like it is just moving at its own pace. We will get there.IP: Logged |
silvana
Knowflake Posts: 57
From: toronto
Registered: May 2003
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posted August 12, 2005 02:40 AM
Scorpios scare me and I'm a taurus. I get this anxious desire and almost worshipful wierd sensation around Scorpio men, and it's led to some pretty unhappy or just unfair love affairs...
I prefer warm, supportive friendship and comfort to magnetic control freaks...
I'm so sorry scorpios, I'm just disappointed by your male quotient. The female Scorpios in my life are brilliant. IP: Logged |
Taurus80
Knowflake Posts: 52
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Registered: May 2005
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posted August 14, 2005 12:30 PM
haha silvana!i couldn't agree more with EVERYTHING you said! i am a taurus, and boy have those scropio men sucked me in and then spit me out..way too exhausting, emotional, and intense! as for scorpio women, one of my closest friends is one..and we get along wonderfully!
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26taurus
Moderator Posts: 8906
From: the stars
Registered: Jun 2004
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posted August 15, 2005 04:15 PM
Taurus female here. Ditto.  IP: Logged |
Mama Mia
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Registered: Jun 2005
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posted August 15, 2005 05:29 PM
Shoot I am a Pisces female and I am scared of Scorp men so I really understand.. LOL!!!IP: Logged |
LuLu
Knowflake Posts: 10
From: Louisville, Kentucky, USA
Registered: Feb 2005
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posted August 15, 2005 07:13 PM
Ohhhh...but I love those piercing eyes. And such a pretty color of blue. I agree...he sees right through me, but it's what I need. He holds my feet to the fire and forces me to talk to him. I'm so headstrong that it takes someone like that to get through to me. And I can't argue with the physical attraction. All he has to do is look at me the wrong way across the room and I can't think of anything else for the rest of the day.IP: Logged |
silvana
Knowflake Posts: 57
From: toronto
Registered: May 2003
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posted August 17, 2005 01:36 AM
I understand. One of the most important relationships i've ever had was with a scorpio.. i think i'm just trying to say there's an element of danger and unknowingly being manipulated that terrifies me about Scorpios. Right when you think you understand or trust them, whooosh! out comes the rug they've been dying to pull from underneath you. My theory is they're innately sadistic and taureans and probably innately masochistic. I think the two can take turns in these extremes (and of course possess both within themselves simultaneously), but I think Scorpios enjoy driving nails in that much more. Sorry, I'm pessimistic. IP: Logged |
nannyfish
Knowflake Posts: 27
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Registered: Aug 2005
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posted August 19, 2005 07:38 AM
Hey there Lulu,I am a scorpio woman and perhaps I can shed a bit of light on your Scorp fella. I, too, have been involved in a relationship with a Taurus and a similar thing happened to me. I wasn't ready to commit in the beginning and slowed things down. I did this because my Taurus guy seemed further along the emotional path than I was. I worried that he was getting possesive and his loyalty felt more like freedom-restricting. On one hand, he was the sweetest, most charming guy in the world. He was honest and trustworthy and stable. I felt secure in his presence. On the other hand, eek "Love"?...Not ready for it...that is I didn't think I was ready for it. There is an undeniable attraction between Taurus and Scorpio. Sex is magnetic and...well...you know Scorps and sex: it's almost a relegious experience. After I slowed things down, it gave me time to consider my feelings without the great all-consuming passion I felt when I was with him. Give your guy time and support. In fact, if you want to get him back in a big way...let him know you are there for him and then don't talk to him for awhile. During that time, he will think he's lost a great gal and, if he decides he wants you, he will move mountains to get you back. Give the guy a challenge and he will rise to the occasion. Oh, and, let him win an argument every once in awhile. Hope this helps.
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nannyfish
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posted August 19, 2005 07:49 AM
PS: Scorpios are the sweetest and most affectionately purry sign of the zodiac. We feel so deeply that sometimes we lash out in pure protection from getting hurt. Always be honest and sincere in a relationship with a Scorp and you will have a terrific friend and fierce lover for the rest of your life...and the sex will be pretty darn good until we are well into our 90's IP: Logged |
LuLu
Knowflake Posts: 10
From: Louisville, Kentucky, USA
Registered: Feb 2005
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posted August 24, 2005 07:13 PM
There is a big attraction between us. And it's wonderful to have someone that I can talk to like I can with him. We talk a lot about trust, since we are in two different cities, and I realized lately that we have been talking a lot about relationships and sex. He doesn't believe in divorce and really isn't okay with some people around us that have been cheating on their spouses. We had a brief talk about an ex-boyfriend of mine (I don't talk about my past relationships at all) who had cheated on me the entire two years we went out. The only reason I told him was because he asked me specifically if this was the case. I didn't bash or bad mouth, just simply answered yes, he had cheated on me the entire time. It broke my heart to hear him quietly say "Now I know why you have such a hard time trusting me." A lot of people around us lately are getting married, but he doesn't seem to shy away from talking about it. I know that he is in a place right now where he is trying to sort everything out, I just can't help but feel insecure when I think that once he figures it all out, it won't be me he wants anymore. But I am blown away by how easily he is affectionate with me in front of other people. It doesn't seem to faze him that our work doesn't condone people dating. He just seems to block them all out when he calls me dear, sweetheart, muffin and peanut. I try to ignore the looks, but I can feel the big smile on my face. I am such a sucker for cute men.IP: Logged |
Mystic Gemini
Knowflake Posts: 543
From: New York City
Registered: Jul 2005
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posted August 24, 2005 08:05 PM
MMMMmmmmmmmm I want me some scorpio love.------------------
Gemini sun, Cancer rising, mercury in Gemini, moon in Taurus *29, venus in Taurus, mars in Libra "You must live in the infinite blackness that exists when I close my eyes. I see you when I fall asleep, I see you when I dream." - Talib Kweli IP: Logged |
LuLu
Knowflake Posts: 10
From: Louisville, Kentucky, USA
Registered: Feb 2005
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posted September 03, 2005 12:06 PM
I am soooo confused about all this! My Scorp has been under a lot of stress the past couple of weeks. We are in sales and he hadn't met his quota as of two days before the last day of the month. For the past two weeks he has been so quiet and won't even joke with me. All the little ways we usually flirt, don't even get a response from him. He is fidgety and distracted and our phone calls last all of 5 minutes. I asked him the other day if he was alright and if something was wrong. He told me he is really stressed out right now and feels that all of the running around and hard work he has put in this past month just isn't paying off. He came across as very sincere when we talked about it. I told him if he needed anything, that I am here. I am starting to realize that he really goes inside of himself when something is wrong or when he is stressed out. On the last day of the month, our Sales Manager chewed his ass on the phone at 8am. The Scorp called me right afterwards and continued to call me 10 different times throughout the day as well as sending numerous e-mails. I love that I am who he goes to when the **** hits the fan, but it confuses me when he was so distant the few weeks before that. Any advice on how to look at this differently or what I should be focusing on in all this? I tend to be a bit thick when it comes to my own relationships and often have a hard time seeing the little things that are the most important. Help please!IP: Logged |
MoonDuchess88
Knowflake Posts: 371
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Registered: Mar 2005
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posted September 03, 2005 02:24 PM
awwwww, I was just reading your other posts and he sounds like a sweetheart, must be that cancer moon ....Sorry Im being corny today  It sounds like really does care for you, hang on to that IP: Logged |
LuLu
Knowflake Posts: 10
From: Louisville, Kentucky, USA
Registered: Feb 2005
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posted September 03, 2005 05:25 PM
Thank you MoonDuchess, it was nice to hear that. I think sometimes it is hard for me to remember that he does care. I'm so used to crappy men that don't show or talk about their feelings that the Scorpio really frightens me sometimes. I get caught up in my fear rather than just appreciating the way he is.IP: Logged |
sthenri
Moderator Posts: 3460
From: Montreal, Canada
Registered: May 2003
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posted September 09, 2005 09:18 PM
I also do not like it when someone goes inside himself after being so close. Taurus is not possessive, we are only concerned with getting our needs met. We can't go inside like others do, we show everything we feel.I think his cancer moon is really into your sag moon in a big way and he is scared. I have a cancer moon and I find sag moons magnetic and terrifying in that I can't hide my feelings at all. They are so honest and giving and careful. But cancer moons are very moody and we like a challenge, we need direction and guidance from our lover, in other words we need to be told what to do, what not to do, and taken charge of. We need the attention and the discipline, strange but true. Natasha
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