posted July 17, 2005 05:35 PM         

As the story goes, he found me 25 years after high school graduation, he said he had noticed me way back then and he remembered me as I was always so up. My memories were not as vivid as his but he had hit my radar once or twice. Very quickly we became good friends and even confidants. He said I had impacted his life like nothing before and I gave him hope for the type of life he had dreamed of.

We truly enjoy each other, we both are career people who are accomplished and lead very independent lifes, we have utmost respect for one another and he can get under my skin like no one else and he reads me like a book. I have feelings for this guy like none I have ever experienced. I can tell that the fact that I get him so well makes him panic. He has expressed a desire to move into a romantic relationship but when it comes to actually putting it together, we can't seem to get it right even though there are feelings for each other and a very strong physical attraction.

He has asked for my patience while he gets his life in order, (two years) and he has gone away. Being this earthy cappy girl, I have to ask if I have been patient long enough. but try as I might, I can not shake my feelings for him.

If any of the knowflakes could help me sort through this, I would truly value your insights. My appreciation is heartfelt.

Here are our aspects:

His: Birthday February 15, 1957

Sun Aquarius 26°23'13 03
Moon Virgo 05°34'25 09
Mercury Aquarius 03°41'19 02
Venus Aquarius 11°51'32 02
Mars Taurus 10°54'05 05
Jupiter Libra 00°24'26 09/10
Saturn Sagittarius 13°12'10 01
Uranus Leo 04°03'03 08
Neptune Scorpio 02°33'17 11
Pluto Leo 29°16'57 09
True Node Scorpio 24°02'03 12

HOUSE POSITIONS (Placidus)
Ascendant Sagittarius 10°21'20
2nd House Capricorn 14°21'57
3rd House Aquarius 24°17'09
Imum Coeli Aries 00°57'30
5th House Aries 29°22'36
6th House Taurus 21°27'15
Descendant Gemini 10°21'20
8th House Cancer 14°21'57
9th House Leo 24°17'09
Medium Coeli Libra 00°57'30
11th House Libra 29°22'36
12th House Scorpio 21°27'15

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and mine born on 14 Jan 1958 02:15 pm

PLANETARY POSITIONS
planet sign degree house
Sun Capricorn 24°08'03 09
Moon Scorpio 22°22'21 06
Mercury Capricorn 00°21'18 07
Venus Aquarius 15°22'14 09/10
Mars Sagittarius 15°50'46 07
Jupiter Scorpio 00°07'16 06
Saturn Sagittarius 20°57'10 07
Uranus Leo 10°16'28 03
Neptune Scorpio 04°38'59 06
Pluto Virgo 01°55'03 04
True Node Scorpio 07°26'16 06

HOUSE POSITIONS (Placidus)
Ascendant Gemini 12°14'18
2nd House Cancer 03°49'26
3rd House Cancer 23°35'11
Imum Coeli Leo 15°51'01
5th House Virgo 15°20'33
6th House Libra 26°45'39
Descendant Sagittarius 12°14'18
8th House Capricorn 03°49'26
9th House Capricorn 23°35'11
Medium Coeli Aquarius 15°51'01
11th House Pisces 15°20'33
12th House Aries 26°45'39

posted July 17, 2005 09:01 PM         

Having said that, there is no combination that can be ruled out totally. Everything depends on the indivduals involved. Big things to consider in Aquarians: Does he find you mentally stimulating? Are you open to his different/unconventional ways of doing thing? Do you love in a similar style? Can you take the coldness he will sometimes give you?

posted July 18, 2005 01:09 AM         

We're friends of the zodiac and we can learn from each other. However, our individuality is very important to us to maintain. If we don't feel accepted as an individual, we just won't feel like we're part of a couple. We'll feel unequally yoked, sorta speak.

posted July 18, 2005 09:34 AM         

This match is good for friendship, but it's not so good for love. The Aquarius boy is unconventional. He likes to be on the cutting edge of things, and that's where he likes to find his fun.
Plain old regular life just isn't interesting enough for him. This, plus the fact that he is completely unpredictable from one day to the next, will make you feel very anxious around him. You'll always feel like you don't really know the real him. He also usually prefers to keep everything cool and casual, and avoid commitment.
You need someone who can commit to you and stay by your side. Aquarius is always off somewhere doing new things. He'd also prefer to spend time solving the mysteries of the universe than cuddling with you. This match actually makes a good friendship, but love might not last with these differences.

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As corny as it sounds, the combination of Capricorn girl and Aquarius boy can change the world. Capricorn girl is expert at getting a job done, and Aquarius boy is a virtual repository of ahead-of-his-time thoughts and ideas ready for implementation. Besides having fun together, you'll inspire each other to new heights. Perfection!

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Aquarius Sun Man & Capricorn Sun Woman
The Capricorn loves rules and regulations --- to make them, to obey them and to enforce them. Aquarius laughs at rules and looks upon them as pathetic artificial limitations to the infinity of creativity.
Time stands still for the Capricorn when a rule is broken; there can be no progress for her until the rupture is healed. But the Aquarian just shrugs and walks away from the whole question. Both signs are more than capable of making their own decisions in life and these two are most likely to decide to part curtly, albeit amicably, and to go their separate ways.

There is a fascination here, but Capricorn's schedules are not what Aquarius wants, Aquarius has never used a clock --- a near miss.

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For Capricorn: Although you can appreciate the Water-bearer's mind and originality, the Aquarian's lack of direction and carefree nature will cause you to shy away.

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For Aquarius: Although this is probably the most inventive coalition, it is lacking in the sexual arena. Not a lasting relationship but it can be fun for the moment.

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Capricorn finds Aquarius too unpredictable, and Aquarius�s impersonal attitude makes Capricorn uneasy. Aquarius roams while Capricorn prefers home. They make okay friends but not very good lovers.

posted July 18, 2005 09:40 AM         

Spirited's Sun in Capricorn and Boy's Sun in Aquarius

Both of you invest a lot of time in work and career and your talents and interests complement each other nicely. Spirited brings practicality, objectivity, persistence, reliability, and tenacity, while Boy brings greater ingenuity, sensitivity to current trends, an awareness of the complexities and intricacies inherent in any situation, and the ability to reach out to a lot of people.
A problem in your relationship is that it may become very focused on outer things and not enough on each other, allowing you to become a bit detached and aloof from each other, and the domestic and romantic aspect of your relationship could be weak.
Hopefully both of you have other astrological factors (which would be discussed elsewhere in this report) to provide warmth, emotional sensitivity, and romantic attraction to your relationship.

Boy's Sun Conjunct Spirited's Venus

The warmth, appreciation, admiration and love between you is very strong, and you enjoy a high degree of harmony and congeniality in your relationship. You have much in common in terms of styles, tastes, and enjoyment of the same pleasures. In many ways Boy embodies all that Spirited finds attractive and beautiful, and Spirited also makes a special effort to please Boy Boy responds with much generosity, love, and loyalty. An excellent match!

Boy's Sun Trine Spirited's Jupiter

The two of you really enjoy each other's company! Spirited has a great deal of confidence in Boy and is able to see Boy 's best qualities. You are very encouraging and supportive of each other, helping each other to be more confident, open new doors, and advance and grow in both inner and outer ways. This positive note of good will and harmony is also invaluable in helping the two of you overcome differences in temperament and other stressful aspects of your relationship discussed elsewhere in this report.

Boy's Sun Opposite Spirited's Pluto

There is a powerful, inner bond that has drawn you to each other. You draw out each other's inner feelings, goals, and ambitions, and it seems that any encounter between the two of you becomes a deep, heart-to-heart encounter; this is not a light, frivolous, or superficial relationship! You are fascinated and intrigued by each other, and there is a compelling quality to your interactions.

Boy's Moon Trine Spirited's Mercury

You enjoy long talks and you feel very much at home with each other. You are able to openly share your feelings about various issues, whether they are political, religious, or personal in nature.
You will find that as you spend more time together, your tastes, interests, hobbies, and activities tend to blend together harmoniously.
The feeling of friendship and inner understanding of each other is very satisfying and of a very positive nature.

Boy's Moon Sextile Spirited's Neptune

You feel extremely comfortable with each other, and it is not surprising that you have become close friends. The intuitive rapport for each other is very strong, and you connect strongly on a deep, compassionate, almost mystical level. You also work well together in artistic, musical, and humanitarian areas.

Boy's Moon Conjunct Spirited's Pluto

Boy s emotional responses to Spirited are very intense. If Spirited is physically attractive to Boy then the attractive power of Spirited over Boy is extremely powerful. However, the attraction tends to have a love/hate quality to it, and you feel drawn to each other, but also wary and distrustful of each other. It is likely that you feel both drawn to each other and repulsed by each other at the same time!
The emotional response to each other is intense and complex, and the ultimate outcome of this deep, complex emotional tie is difficult to predict, but one thing is certain: this is not a lukewarm relationship and you "get under each other's skin", evoking intense feelings from each other. Boy can easily become obsessed with Spirited !

Sun in Aquarius

There is a lot of freedom in this relationship. You bring out what is unique and unusual in each other. Your interests as a couple are often futuristic and offbeat, even eccentric. Your goals are humanitarian. A socially active, interesting pair.

Moon in Libra

You feel very at ease with each other. You react to each other with charm and grace. You may have trouble expressing anger or harsh or negative emotions because you need to have things be pleasant and harmonious between you. Enjoyment of the arts.

Ascendent in Virgo

This relationship is capable of projecting a critical air that can make people feel hesitant in your company. Your image as a couple is that of practical, hard-working people. Your privacy is respected. Your social life needs an invitation.

Sun Trine Moon

Overall, a feeling of harmony, flow, mutual acceptance and supportiveness characterizes your relationship. You simply dovetail very naturally together and neither of you feels that you have to sacrifice too much of yourself to be together. You may take this ease for granted, as your partnership or friendship "just happened" without a great deal of effort or even intention on your parts.
You complement and complete one another in ways that are both gratifying emotionally and also helpful to you in meeting challenges and struggles you encounter outside of your relationship.
Honoring and developing the feeling of soul kinship that you have with one another is an important purpose in your relationship.

Sun Conjunct Venus

Quite simply, one of your purposes in being together is to create and express beauty, whether this is in the form of a beautiful, loving relationship, or gracious and artful works. There can also be an element of vanity, artifice, or show-offiness - the desire to be seen and recognized as a Beautiful Couple, whether or not that's entirely true. Hiding or downplaying your difficulties and the "uglies" in your relationship may be helpful to a point, but if you try to maintain this image of yourselves as a happy, loving twosome despite your actual conflicts, then deeper troubles may never get attended to. However, whatever friction, dissonance, or ill will develops between you, there will also always be an urge to harmonize, reconcile, and ease your differences, and to create cooperation. It will take a lot for the two of you to ever turn against each other entirely.

Sun Opposite Uranus

Your relationship may or may not be long lasting, but it will always have a flavor of unpredictability, spontaneity, and surprise. Periodic unexpected events and changes create an unsettled feeling between you, as if you can never quite relax and settle down into a comfortable, established pattern. While you will never be bored with one another, neither will you ever feel quite certain or peacefully secure. However, if your temperaments enable you to he highly flexible and adventurous and willing to take risks, you may be able to ride through the ups and downs.

You are destined to act as "awakeners" for one another. One of you may open the other to something totally new and different, even shocking, which revolutionizes the way you view the world and your place in it - something you may once have considered weird or too "far out". Always there will be the element of experimentation, of following the unexpected twist in the road. Being with one another encourages you both to be more free, unconventional, and impulsive than you might be otherwise.

Moon Trine Venus

Mutual devotion, tenderness, affection, and caring are the essence of your relationship, and creating a home together, making a family, and/or nurturing one another are an important part of the reason you two have come together. The love you share will sustain you and buffer any blows, difficulties, or problems that you will face.

There is a protective, almost maternal feeling generated between the two of you. A relationship based on compassion as much or more than passion is apparent. A high degree of fertility is also clearly indicated.

Moon Sesquiquadrate Mars

Constant irritation, aggravation, defensiveness, and friction between you can make your relationship a war zone instead of an oasis of comfort and peace, especially if you live together. Your feuds are not likely to be of the quiet, underground variety, either - everybody nearby will see and hear all about it. At least you can't be accused of bottling up your feelings, and if you both are the type who enjoys stormy confrontations, you may be comfortable with the level of volatility in this relationship. However, your children or the people who live around you may not. Your effect as a couple can be very unsettling.

Part of the purpose of your relationship appears to be to stir up unresolved controversies, rivalries, and competitive feelings from your pasts. Try not to blindly lash out or respond to each other based on these old feelings.

Moon Conjunct Jupiter

You are destined to bring many wonderful blessings into one another's lives, and to prosper together. Material well-being and comfort will never be a problem; when you are together you'll always have plenty and be well taken care of. You bounce back from misfortune rapidly, and are able to support and uplift one another during bad times. In general, being together increases your optimism and positive feelings about life. As a couple you will be known for your good humor, generosity, hospitality, and warmth. Others will feel more expansive in your company. If you share a home, it will be spacious, welcoming, and very comfortable - the source of a great deal of satisfaction for you both. You will do quite a bit of traveling together, but always return to the "little piece of heaven" you create together.

posted July 18, 2005 11:10 PM         

BTW, his getting his life in order involves carrying for a terminally ill ex-wife. Sounds kind of nuts, but I had it checked out and it is legit. While he says all emotional ties have been broken, he feels he must honor the commitment he made to care for her during her illness. While I have to admire his sense of honor, I don't think it altogether fair that he asks me to wait without further explanation, there is that conventionalism thing that goes so against his grain, right? Is this the grounded cappy trait that clashes with his free spirit that is referred to?

posted July 19, 2005 04:11 PM         

P.S.sorry for the caps ,posted in a hurry..didnt even notice till now!

Love,
Nasya.