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LILYGIRL
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posted July 19, 2005 06:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LILYGIRL     Edit/Delete Message
I'm having a hard time reading my Pisces friend. Here is his background:

Pisces Sun
Moon Libra
Pisces Mercury
Aqua Venus
Aqua Mars
Cancer Rising


At first he was very shy and solemn. Now he is opening up with humor. We recently began discussing astrology (he's really interested) and I even imputed his chart and talked with him about it.

Sometimes he seems very shy and nervous and other times bold and silly. I'm not even sure what he thinks about me or the evolving friendship.

How do Pisces/Libra/Cancer/Aqua act when they like you?

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ARIESPINK
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posted July 19, 2005 07:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ARIESPINK     Edit/Delete Message
Hi, Lilygirl

Ariespink here. I am trying to study Astrology in my spare time. I know a Pisces with an moon in Gemini and I think as your Pisces guy has a Libra Moon, he will be very bubbly and like being on the move alot and most of them are loving and loyal in relationships. As he has a Cancer Ascendant, this would show that he is shy as alot of cancer ascendants take a while before they let you into their space. They are just cautious at first. Having a Mercury in Pisces shows his intuitive side and he can pick up on people's moods sometimes, also there is a tendancy to daydream. Venus in Aquarius is a dreamer and an idealist and he will seek nothing less than the perfect soul mate. He will be vulnerable to the pain caused by more ruthless folk and by those who take advantage of his kind nature. A stronger relationship, based on mutual respect, will emerge if you set clear boundaries early on and confront problems rather than suffer in silence. He will yearn for romantic love for the promise of bliss and being whisked away from the harsh, mundane reality of life. He will need to seek someone who is able to respect his feelings and show him how much they love you and respect your feelings. Find out that special someone and share your romantic vision and live out that enchanting and magical connection between you.

Mars in Aquarius

Do not be too possessive and over dependent on him.
No
Hen pecking and nagging

No prejudice of any kind
When he is hurt he will remain detached deafening others with his deadly silence. He would rather develope friendship first and see what develops. He will succeed inwinning over his object of desire.

You should

Keep him interested by looking to the futureand its possibilities

Be cool and detached on the surface and passionate beneath

Share your goals and beliefs

I hope this has been of some help. By the way, what is your star sign, would love to know, just to check compatability.

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LILYGIRL
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posted July 20, 2005 12:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LILYGIRL     Edit/Delete Message
Thanks a bunch ARIES! I mentioned this person in this thread when I first discovered Lindaland:
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum1/HTML/005774.html

Since then he has shared his birth information with me and I was right. He has a WATER ascendant (Cancer).

I have been researching our charts, composite, synastry, etc, and there is absolutely nothing extraordinary on the face of it. (some good, some hideous, lots of pedestrian remote trines and sextiles)

Yet, what's odd is when you get into looking at points such as vertices, asteroids, and nodes our connection seems more conceivable. We were also born in the same year within weeks of each other. Thus the sign placements of our Jupiter, Saturn, Uranus, Pluto and Neptune are the same.

Our nodes are identical/conjunct (Virgo (N)/Pisces (S)). My Ascendant (Sag) matches his Vertex (tightly). My Vertex (CANCER) matches HIS Ascendant (tightly). His Sun conjuncts my Chiron. Our Junos are tightly conjunct--identical again.

On the surface it would seem with my Gemini and Aries mixtures that we would not connect, but we do (Maybe it is the Gemini, Aquarius, Libra (his moon) mixtures). But I always feel like my Taurus Venus wants air time and runs the show with my heart. It is a conflict I want to be protected emotionally. I can be extremely quiet and to myself. Yet sometimes I just want to intensely go fizz bang whizz wild (and I don't --not really). I am a Gemini in terms of my energy and communication style and considered friendly though sort of a writer intellectual at times. I require a ridiculous amount of privacy and quiet time alone.

I have one Water (4 Earth, 3 Fire, 2 Air). He has one Fire and three to each of the others. I have a Neptune Singleton in Scorpio and that completely alters me. I attract a range of individuals but almost exclusively those with deep seated secrets. This has been the case since I was a child.

Anyway. Both of us are in committed relationships but this is the first person I think I have met in my life who I feel like taking my mask off to. I am at an odd place in my life and need to not be the perfect wife, mother, etc.

Thanks for what you wrote. It is very helpful particularly the point about the shyness. His decision to move out of his shell has startled me. (You know Geminis always trying to cajole and entertain verbally even the most silent guy on the block. LOL.)I won't bother him with possessiveness. Ethically, I am not in the position to be possessive though I do secretly yearn for his gentle acceptance.

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ARIESPINK
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posted July 20, 2005 03:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ARIESPINK     Edit/Delete Message
Thanks for replying - you know alot about Astrology and I am only a beginner and it was great to read about your chart etc. All I can tell you re Pisces is that they are very shy to open up to people and only like speaking with as few people as possible at one time. Pisces, once they get to know you, will show you the real side of their personality. They value someone they can trust. If they like you, they will make extra time to have more conversations with you and thus being in your company more, yet they are very slow to release their feelings, in case they are rejected. They can be very overpowering in a relationship and you have to keep reminding them of how you feel, as they need assurances all the time. They also like quality time on their own and may disappear now and again, but turn up when they are feeling in good form again. Their moods fluctuate sometimes. Hope you find same of some help.

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LILYGIRL
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posted July 21, 2005 11:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LILYGIRL     Edit/Delete Message
Thanks Aries. I have been reading alot, but I don't really know alot. Do I? I'm not sure. I have been completely immersing myself for the past month but the Gemini's lament--perhaps breadth not depth? LOL.

I need to ask you something about Pisces men. Do they ask direct questions? I am not kidding when I say, this guy seems to know alot about me and is capable of getting an inordinate amount of information with very few direct questions.

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ARIESPINK
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posted July 21, 2005 02:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ARIESPINK     Edit/Delete Message
Hi, Lilygirl,

Its amazing once a pisces man likes you and once there is trust, he will then ask you alot of questions, but in a different way, say, for example, he might say, oh someone was telling me that the guy you are seeing, that you are serious about him, is that right?. Now the somebody of course is Mr. Pisces, but he will not admit it. He just works around the question in a different format. He might say gosh, can you see yourself getting married to Mr. ? He is testing you. It is amazing what they can come up with and you might think, oh my god. Because pisces is a feminine sign, they are into all the feminine manners, like if you are feeling down, they can pick up instantly or even on the phone, they will know what way your mood is. They are so psychic,it is scary sometimes. You can tell them anything but once your trust them with a secret, then he will be thrilled to share same and will not gossip.

I hope you find same of some use. Bye for now.

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LILYGIRL
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posted July 21, 2005 06:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LILYGIRL     Edit/Delete Message
Well Aries, I have clearly stumbled into that net! When we first went from being acquaintances to friendly acquaintances he began making these uncharacteristically hilarious comments about one of his colleagues (sort of competitors but they have worked on research projects together)--who I know fairly well---. But first, he just casually asked me what I thought of this person, and when I said, "Oh well he seems like a decent type." He said, Oh yes, you're right he is pretty decent--I guess."

Well rest assured within the coming months that other (poor) guy has completely decelarated in multiple shared jokes between us about his hair, his clothes, his somewhat egomaniacal way with others. And you are completely correct, he never asks me anything about myself directly, he often asks me what I think about something or someone. Once in a while he will be very shocking and simply come out with it.

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ARIESPINK
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posted July 22, 2005 01:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ARIESPINK     Edit/Delete Message
Hi Lilygirl,

I don't know how long you know this guy, but as time will go on, they do tend to discuss topics and can be shocking with what they come with, the only reason is that, he is very comfortable in your company and feels he can trust you. Pisces are very attached to their family roots and what even though they may have lots of friends, they are only a few who are the chosen few in their life. You can tell them anything and they will not tell anyone, they love being told secrets. As he has Aquarius in his chart and you are a Gemini, he will have an instant attraction and in time, once he has figured out how your other relationship is going, he will stick around and only when the time is right, will be devulge how he feels. These guys are afraid of rejection and can be very insecure and have a tendancy to retreat to their own space now and again. They like a person who is happy go luckly and makes them laugh and I know alot of Gemini friends in my life and they can be every so good humoured and happy. So if he was ever feeling down and out, you would have the ability to cheer him up instantly. I hope I am not boring you but if you ever need to ask any more questions on pisces people, I would be delighted to reply.

Bye for now

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