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Topic: no idea what's going on!!
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limelight Knowflake Posts: 3 From: Pa, US Registered: Jul 2005
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posted July 20, 2005 10:23 PM
I am not very good in reading that he is in serious love with me or not. I need help to know him.I am in a strange position this time. I have a guy who is working with me from last five years. Recently, we both started sharing talks a lot after office hours. We just stand in parking lot for hours and just talk(which whole office has noticed). I have no idea what's going in his mind. I have always kept a barrier of age. I always stopped myself about people younger than me. I can see he enjoys talking to me. He talks bit less but then he does not even let me stop conversation. Recently we started sharing our knowledge about sex too, but never gone on dating. Are we just friends, or can I think about him though he is too younger than me or does he really liked me or he is just talking to me as he didn't get anybody else. I am too suspicious and got lot of questions as this talking after office hours hold my other things everyday. He is Sagitarius and I am Virgo.
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LibraSparkle Moderator Posts: 4838 From: Vancouver USA Registered: May 2004
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posted July 20, 2005 11:49 PM
Welcome, limelight. Go for it, girl! As long as he's not a child, have your fun! IP: Logged |
sue g Knowflake Posts: 1451 From: ireland Registered: Sep 2004
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posted July 21, 2005 11:25 AM
Welcome to LL Limelight,Is he very much younger than you, is that what is stopping you. I am married to a guy who is 11 years my junior, but could see myself with someone even younger if I wanted to be. Like Libra says, "go for it girl" - have fun and enjoy - younger man and older women are becoming very popular these days and I think that is cos a woman reaches her sexual peak at 40 and a man at 18, now isnt that something to bear in mind!!!!! Love Sue xx
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Svetlana Knowflake Posts: 54 From: USA Registered: Jul 2005
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posted July 21, 2005 03:45 PM
Are you comfortable enough asking him what these talks in the parking lot mean to him? After all he's the only one who knows the answer to that question.------------------ You can't lead a cavalry charge if you think you look funny on a horse. J. Peers IP: Logged |
pidaua Knowflake Posts: 3521 From: Sierra Vista, Arizona Registered: May 2002
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posted July 21, 2005 04:00 PM
Yep... I would go for it and also, try to steer your conversations from the Parking lot to a restaurant. Neither of you need nosy people talking about your conversations.I am also with a younger man - he's a Taurus and is 5 1/2 years younger than I am I don't know that I would go much younger - unless I was 40 years or older. I don't put much stock in men that are under the age of 30 (unless it is just to play with them LOL). IP: Logged |
limelight Knowflake Posts: 3 From: Pa, US Registered: Jul 2005
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posted July 24, 2005 05:27 AM
Thank you for all your replies!!Sorry being late in responding!!I was out of town. I think that's nice idea to sit in restaurant instead of parking lot. He is around about 10years younger to me. I know the way he looks at my face while talking that means something. But how can I be sure that what I am thinking is right. I haven't asked him what are these talks mean. But I am thinking to control them like telling him that I can just stop after work for 15-20min.IP: Logged |
sue g Knowflake Posts: 1451 From: ireland Registered: Sep 2004
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posted July 24, 2005 08:44 AM
Hi Limelight,I wish you well with this. He is only 10 years younger, such a small gap, no need to worry there girl!! God obviously intended us to have younger men - women sexually peak at 40 and men at 18 or 19 LOL!!! Please keep us posted how things go, hope you get it together and E N J O Y Love to all Sue xx
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