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future_uncertain
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posted July 22, 2005 09:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for future_uncertain     Edit/Delete Message
I was thinking about my seventh house the other day and what it means, so on a hunch I decided to read the chapter in LoveSigns that matched my seventh house with my boyfriend's.

I was shocked! So many of the issues we have regarding to how we relate romantically were clarified when I looked at this.

Anyone else try it? What do you think?

I did some research on the seventh house... I knew it was supposed to describe the type of person you might like to be involved with, but I also found the following information, which could be why it made sense when I read the chapter.

The seventh house represents partnerships – both marriage and other intimate relationships as well as business partnerships. This house is all about cooperation and how you relate to others. It deals with your attitude towards your partner, the quality and type of partnership, how you choose your partner, the number of marriages you may have.

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MoonDuchess88
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posted July 22, 2005 10:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MoonDuchess88     Edit/Delete Message
Oh I did the same thing, using the moon signs. That was really acurate too. I love that book I think I'll try the 7th house thing,it sounds interesting

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WaterNymph
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posted July 22, 2005 11:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for WaterNymph     Edit/Delete Message
Interesting I’ll have to check it out.

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pixelpixie
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posted July 22, 2005 12:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pixelpixie     Edit/Delete Message
Good Idea, thanks!
I think I'll go do that!

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pidaua
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posted July 22, 2005 03:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pidaua     Edit/Delete Message
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future_uncertain
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posted July 22, 2005 05:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for future_uncertain     Edit/Delete Message
I've done the moon and ascendant things, too. I'd never thought to look at the seventh houses.

Let me know if the info rings true for you guys too...

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nove731
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posted July 22, 2005 08:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for nove731     Edit/Delete Message
Hmmmm.....I have my Descendant in Pisces...Neptune's in the 4th House for me. Jupiter's in the 10th...

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future_uncertain
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posted July 25, 2005 03:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for future_uncertain     Edit/Delete Message
Sooooo... has anyone had time to check this out yet?

*jumping up and down* I'm so so curious as to whether this worked for anyone else!!!

I know, I know... there's a whole lotta Harry Potter reading going on around here lately...

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pidaua
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posted July 25, 2005 03:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pidaua     Edit/Delete Message
I did...but it felt kind of weird. I looked at the relationship between Scorpio and Pisces and also at the point of view with it being a Scorpio male (his 7th house sign) and Pisces Female (my 7th house ruler).

I was wondering though...would we look at it from that perspective or reversed? By that I mean, the 7th house tells us what we look for in a mate... so does that mean I would at it from the Pisces male with a Scorp female?

The Ascendant to Ascendant matched pretty well. His being Taurus and mine being Virgo.. it added a lot of info and perspective to things. Like, did you know that for as much as a Taurus dude loves luxury and fine things, they can be SLOBS? Oh yeah... now I know that one (I am with a double Taurus) Me, having that Virgo Ascendant (further made strong by the Pluto conjunction) I hate messes... so I am always running around cleaning up after him.. or trying.

Ugh.. his suit case is STILL in the bedroom, halfway unpacked, clothes strewn about and I am trying to be patient and NOT put the stuff away. Besides that he is really grieving over the loss of his grandfather (who was like his dad) and I don't want to let petty suitcase issues get in the mix.

Still... having an Aries moon and Sag sun makes it hard to me to really understand the inability to help him. I can hardly make him laugh (that is my most secret weapon). He seems withdrawn..

Ahh...I know I shouldn't be talking about this on this thread LOL... just venting

Hmmmm, as it turns out the whole time he was playing grief stricken grandson he was also cheating on me with some person out in Texas. He deserves the crap that goes on in his life these days - not to mention me leaving his ass as I went to work LOL

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Mama Mia
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posted July 25, 2005 03:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mama Mia     Edit/Delete Message
Aaawwwwhhhh give him some time Pidaua he will be okay.

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posted July 25, 2005 04:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pidaua     Edit/Delete Message
Thanks MM.... I will... it is just so hard to see someone so strong (Like a Taurus Sun / Rising) look so sad and silent. I am sure part of why he did so well in NC was because there was so much going on surrounding the funeral. The whole family was there, there was a lot of laughing, reminicing..etc... Now he is back home and the feelings must be rushing at him like crazy.

I know that it all hit me about a week after my grandma died and I was back home. I sat on my bed and just broke down. Like Mr. T's grandpa, my grandma (a very strong Leo) practically raised me. When she died I felt like my world was spinning out of control and I was also going through the realization that I would be divorcing my now ex-husband. So, part of my sadness at watching him is due to my own memories.

This is our first death experienced together. When my grandmother died, my ex-husband pretty much turned his back on me and said "Well, people die". It hurt so much and I just want to make sure that I never let Mr. T feel like I did.

Thanks for the response

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JustAmanda
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posted July 25, 2005 08:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for JustAmanda     Edit/Delete Message
Aww..Piduau...*hugs*

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pidaua
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posted July 25, 2005 08:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pidaua     Edit/Delete Message
Thanks Pixie and JA... It means alot.

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future_uncertain
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posted July 25, 2005 09:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for future_uncertain     Edit/Delete Message
Pidaua... this sounds really rough.

It makes perfect sense that you feel his pain. You're close to him. You love him. Even if that means something different now than it did in the past.

Your situation is frustrating because you don't want to be inconsiderate of his feelings, and yet there comes a point when if the person with the issues isn't going to do anything to resolve them, it becomes unfair to those who have to deal with the effects. I wouldn't begin to know how to approach someone about this issue. And how long to wait before doing so.

I'm sure I speak not only for myself when I say that you're more than welcome to vent here. Especially in a situation like yours when the time just may not be right to talk to the person you need to speak with the most.

Take care

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JustAmanda
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posted July 26, 2005 07:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for JustAmanda     Edit/Delete Message
Pidaua (sorry for misspelling it the first time)...I second Future Uncertains sentiments....come here as much as you need...

my sister is a Virgo (and she cleans my house all the time)...*double hugs*

I have Taurus rising and can say that sometimes I just have to be left alone when grieving..the more people are "in my face" the more likely I am to clam up even more and potentially become quite b*itchy. Give him some time..he'll come around...

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posted July 26, 2005 02:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pidaua     Edit/Delete Message
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Mama Mia
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posted July 26, 2005 02:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mama Mia     Edit/Delete Message
Piduau reading this I got a few vibes babe. 1. he is in mourning right now and and I think that he is looking for comfort immediately from his pain and doing what his papa did and having things the way his papa did helps him with his pain...Its like keeping his Papa alive in his heart or something..

2. Waited out I know that it is ruff right now and seems things are going haywire but it is not over yet he just needs time like I said b4. The decision is his whatever happens here cause he is the one with the issues.. Well mostly..Continue to let him know how much you love him and would like to work things out if that is what you want to do...Pray with him and for him and for yourself more then you have been right now..That heartbreak transit has left some dust behind..Do all that you can do on your end and if things do not work out then you will can be satisfied in knowing you did just that..Hopefully he will see that he is letting the best thing in his go if he does that..I am praying for you guys too here on my end.. Peace and blessings and huggss....

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pidaua
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posted July 26, 2005 02:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pidaua     Edit/Delete Message
Ahh... Mama, your post brought me comfort.

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Mama Mia
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posted July 26, 2005 03:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mama Mia     Edit/Delete Message
Well just be still for a minute and wait and see..He has to see what is what right now..I know that he is feeling the pressure to fill the footsteps of his papa, sounds like his papa was a strong and good man..But that is who his papa was and your guy is who he is not saying that is is not strong or good or anything but he needs to understand that that they are individuals and his papa would be happy as long as he remained to do his best and remained a good person thats whats important..And he can keep his memory alive by doing that..

Why would your family be happyif you guys split??? If you do not mind me asking??

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posted July 26, 2005 03:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pidaua     Edit/Delete Message
*edit...just in case

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Mama Mia
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posted July 26, 2005 04:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mama Mia     Edit/Delete Message
Yes I see..

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posted July 26, 2005 05:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ScotScorp     Edit/Delete Message
Pidaua:

Not that I talk to you that often, but I read two things from your posts.

1. You want your freedom to do what's important to you. (And might/might not be the same things that are important to him)

2. He wants to retreat into the comfort of what he already knows: the Army. Might be because of his father, might not be.

The question is, do you both want to live how others might be "influencing" you, as in, your family not minding you breaking up with him and his family saying he would do good following in his father's footsteps? Sounds like everyone else could be sending out signals to pull apart. Is there merit in this?

You basically can live without him and picture a life without him, so ... go for it. (Like I make that sound so EASY or something.) And even easier.. is there ever a "right" time to break up? Is the kindness you give him in holding off worth your own happiness, or even his?

The funeral could have jogged Mr. T's brain into taking stock into his life and the direction he wants to go. Sometimes major life changes, like funerals and births, get people to thinking and changing. I could compare them to mini-Saturn returns? Or maybe gettin hit in the head with a brick? I know I went through one w/my mother's suicide. Talk about a shock... alot of my relationships changed, including walking away from a few "friends". In the end, I'm better for the things that happened then. Felt incredibly raw and overwhelmed, but I'm much better off now.

I hope that whatever decision you make at whatever time is as pain-free as possible.

Lots of luck and love...
Angela

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pidaua
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posted July 26, 2005 06:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pidaua     Edit/Delete Message
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Mama Mia
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posted July 27, 2005 10:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mama Mia     Edit/Delete Message
Well Piduau you know whats best for this situation..I just knew that he was in mourning and when ppl are in mourning they do all kinds of things impulsively too just to ease the pain..You expressed so much love between you guys, I was just hopeing that you guys could save it if possible.. (you know how us Pisces are LOVE LOVE) Anyway continue to pray for him as he goes through this mournig period he needs it.. Good luck girl...

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