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abinormal
Knowflake

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From: Great Falls, MT
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posted July 22, 2005 03:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for abinormal     Edit/Delete Message
I am normally a lurker on here, but something has been bugging me these past couple of weeks and I thought someone might be able to help me with some insight. I have a really close friend that by all means I should not have feelings for, but they have just came to light recently. We are mismatched in all the wrong ways, height, weight, age. When it is just us we seem to lock eyes alot and seem to know each others moods, and sometimes he is the only one who brings me out of my moods. I feel a really deep conection with him, and sometimes it seems he is the only one who understands my gemini moods (and i get his cancer moods too) and he has been the only person in forever who will actually call me on my mind games that i don't even realize I do sometimes. Well i was just wondering if someone could take a look at our charts and tell me what is this connection I feel is there.
my info: june 14, 1981 4:47am, oklahoma city, ok

his info: june 30th, 1987 1:30pm missoula, mt
thanks soo much

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Gemini Nymph
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posted July 22, 2005 07:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gemini Nymph     Edit/Delete Message
Hi, I haven't been around here for a good while, but since I'm currently working on getting over yet another Cancer guy (Cancer guys are to my heart what the vulture was to Prometheus's guts...sorry, gross analogy, but it works right now for me), so I'm feeling sympathetic about to whole gem-Can match-up thing. Perhaps doing someone else's synastry might keep me from obsessing over ours. LOL. BTW Gem-Can can work...me and this Cancer guy have great soulmate-ish synastry and it could potentially work beautifully, if it weren't for overriding circumstances that prevent us from being together (please no one say anything about "maybe you're destined to be together sometime in the future"...I'm not in the mood, sorry)...so it may seem like a mismatch at first glance, but not necessarily so.

Here we go, OK? OK!:

"Double whammy" Sun-Venus conjunctions: your Ven conj's His sun and vice versus - this is very powerful, creating a balancing symmetry within your relationship that potentially could indicate a deep, significant relationship. With Venus involved, there's a lot of mutual emotions, sympathy and intuitive understanding of one another, as well as attraction to the basic personalities in each other. "Double whammy" aspects sometimes indicate soul mate relationships, meaning this is mutually significant and profound, and could indicate a long-term relationship, but there's no promise it'll last or result in marriage. One problem that arises with Venus aspects in synsatry is when they are this powerful, there's a chance of insincerity in the form of protecting the other's feelings and a reluctence to confront unpleasent details within the relationships. How both of you handle this pitfall of Venus will have an important influence on the durability of your relationship overall.

His Eros conj your IC/Ceres, his Moon in your 4th: He feels very at "home" with you, and there's a blending of attraction with a sense of comfort and security for him. He may even be attracted to you because you mirror his mother in someways. You feel like he's fillling a personal vacancy in your intimate and personal world. You find it very easy to "make room" for him in your life. There is the slight risk that he can take you for granted, or that this relationship becomes to comfortable for him, as well as the risk of you giving up too much for his sake. But that aside, these two aspects definitely make this realtionship very comfrting and aggreeable for both of you.

Your Eros conjunct his DC, NN and Vertex, and in his 7th house: this is potentially another soulmate indicator. This probably gives the relationships a sense of destiny and fatedness. He definitely reflects many qualities you seek for romantically and intimately. This doesn't promise that he'll fulfill your needs in these areas, but he does have the qualities you're looking for.

His moon trine your Neptune, your Venus oppose his Neptune: Neptune aspects with persoanl planets give a relationship a dreamy, romantic and highly intuitive flavor. Normally these are good and make a relationship very pleasant, but Neptune can also cause unrealistic expectations and a reluctance to see the whole truth in each other, preferring see only what one wants to see. One good thing is you have each other's Saturn aspecting your respective Neptune, which could make Neptune behave a little better and stay connected to reality...or Saturn could be too severe and cause reality to come crashing in on your beautiful dreamy romance. Best to be prepared if that happens.

Your moon conjunct his Pluto in Scorpio: this will make your relationship seems filled with magic and wonder, but when the freshness of it wears off there's a real potential for possessiveness and jealousy. This will definitely be an emotionally intense realtionship for both of you, for better or worse. You are likely to be more accomendating to him than he to you, as his Pluto can bully your moon quite easily. This can cause resentments to build up over time, but at least in the beginning your moon contact with his Pluto makes him utterly enchanting to you.

Well, I think I'll leave it at that. Overall, things look pretty good between the two of you, even if some of the things I said sound negative. You need challenges in a relationships anyhow. I suspect that as along as you two can talk openly to each other and keep grounded, you could have a wonderful and mutually beneficial realtionship together.

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GemStar
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posted July 22, 2005 07:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GemStar     Edit/Delete Message
WELCOME abinormal!!

Hey Gemini Nymph!!

Would you mind letting me know where I can find those interpretations?? They were really great and more specific than many synastry interps I have found on the web.

Thanks a lot!!


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