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Topic: Playing Hard to Get...
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Gooberzlostlovefound Knowflake Posts: 579 From: and the embers never fade in your city by the lake Registered: Jan 2002
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posted July 24, 2005 03:00 AM
Do you play hard-to-get? Why or why not? ------------------ There are some days when no matter what I say it feels like I'm far away in another country & whoever is doing the translating has had far too much to drink. IP: Logged |
AcousticGod Knowflake Posts: 1228 From: Pleasanton, CA, USA Registered: May 2005
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posted July 24, 2005 03:38 AM
Yes, because I'm a Cappy, and I'm not sure what I want until I don't have it. IP: Logged |
Water Girl Knowflake Posts: 7 From: Chicago, Il, USA Registered: Jul 2005
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posted July 24, 2005 02:31 PM
AG,I have Cap. in my Venus, is that why sometimes I'm hot and other times I'm cold? IP: Logged |
LILYGIRL Knowflake Posts: 75 From: MD Registered: Jun 2005
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posted July 24, 2005 03:45 PM
"Venus in Capricorn indicates a reserved, cautious, refined and somewhat cool romantic nature. Your emotional well-being is more dependent on financial security and social status, rather than love and marriage. Great deliberation and care are taken when choosing a partner, however, once the decision is made you are a loyal, responsible and devoted spouse."I am fairly reserved but I don't like playing super hard to get with friends or lovers. It seems to eat up alot of of precious time and moments you could simply be having. Having said that, I fear it is the general expectation of women--to play hard to get. So woe to the shy guys. I do like low key flirting, good conversation and long slow easing into bonds with others, especially the opposite sex. I think the best relationships and sex are ones where you really have gotten into the guy's head. IP: Logged |
LILYGIRL Knowflake Posts: 75 From: MD Registered: Jun 2005
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posted July 24, 2005 03:45 PM
"Venus in Capricorn indicates a reserved, cautious, refined and somewhat cool romantic nature. Your emotional well-being is more dependent on financial security and social status, rather than love and marriage. Great deliberation and care are taken when choosing a partner, however, once the decision is made you are a loyal, responsible and devoted spouse."I am fairly reserved but I don't like playing super hard to get with friends or lovers. It seems to eat up alot of of precious time and moments you could simply be having. Having said that, I fear it is the general expectation of women--to play hard to get. So woe to the shy guys. I do like low key flirting, good conversation and long slow easing into bonds with others, especially the opposite sex. I think the best relationships and sex are ones where you really have gotten into the guy's head. IP: Logged |
Water Girl Knowflake Posts: 7 From: Chicago, Il, USA Registered: Jul 2005
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posted July 24, 2005 04:44 PM
Thanks Lilygirl! As much as I want to deny some of that,I can't. I'm not a gold digger or anything and I could never marry someone I didn't love, but I could also never marry someone who didn't have goals and aspirations to make something of themselves. I am extremely cautious when it comes to relationships. I don't play hard to get, I just am hard to get.IP: Logged |
Mama Mia Knowflake Posts: 216 From: Registered: Jun 2005
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posted July 25, 2005 10:07 AM
Venus in Aqua here and yep I am a hard one to get too. I get turned off so easy..YOu almost have to say all the right things and do the right things for awhile b4 I get close. That is hard on ppl cause no one is perfect I sure in the heck isn't, but somehow that is ehat I expect. But once you got me,you got me hook line and sink... IP: Logged |
Gemini Nymph Knowflake Posts: 636 From: Registered: Jul 2004
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posted July 25, 2005 12:33 PM
Gem in Venus conjunct Sat in 9th; Mars in Aqua conjunct NN and Vertex in 6th...LOLI am hard to get, but I don't play. I know what I want and don't want, and if I don't want to a guy, forget it. Sat conjunct Venus makes me very stubborn, immoveable and discriminating, and that Aqua in 6th house business makes me stick unwaveringly to my principles and standards. However, I have Pisces moon in 7th, so I can be suckered... by the right guy. Doesn't mean I'd want him, or let him have me, but there's the very real potential of the right guy seriously getting under my skin. And when tat does happen, that seriously ****** off my Aqua-Martian ego, that prefers to remain detached and ummoved. IP: Logged |
sthenri Moderator Posts: 3358 From: Montreal, Canada Registered: May 2003
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posted July 25, 2005 09:12 PM
I have saturn and venus both in the 5th house, and I'm a Taurus, so I have been hard to get and then I am caught. But now as I get older, I actually play the game more, which is good for me. I make sure my guy is on his toes and that way we are both happy when I am devoted. Otherwise I can be a martyr when things are bad-too devoted.My steady guy now has a leo moon in the 7th, he can get a bit arrogant, and so backing away cools him off enough to have respect for me again. If he hasn't made plans by tuesday for the weekend, I'm doing something else, for real. Natasha
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future_uncertain Knowflake Posts: 1333 From: ohio Registered: Aug 2004
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posted July 25, 2005 09:16 PM
(Sneaking in to say Hi to Natasha. Been a while!)As you were... I have to say I'm with AG on this one. I can totally relate! IP: Logged |
AcousticGod Knowflake Posts: 1228 From: Pleasanton, CA, USA Registered: May 2005
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posted July 25, 2005 10:04 PM
Awww... IP: Logged |
lovely* Knowflake Posts: 1040 From: CA Registered: Jul 2003
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posted July 25, 2005 11:57 PM
Welcome back GemNymph.. also *waves* hi Natasha.I wanna come back to this thread and post my answers later IP: Logged |
Aen Knowflake Posts: 481 From: Registered: Nov 2002
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posted July 26, 2005 06:03 AM
No, I don't play hard to get and I don't think I am hard to get either. But I'm pretty impossible to keep.
Venus in Sag sextile Uranus, ruler of 5th hs ------------------ No hesitation. No regret. No looking back. IP: Logged |
SparklingSag Knowflake Posts: 301 From: Kent Registered: Nov 2003
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posted July 26, 2005 04:47 PM
My mars and venus in libra LOVE playful teasing and communication...but I am devoted to someone if i am with them. They are my number one but my leo moon likes to command repsect. But no, I dont play games. My sag sun cant handle dishonesty. IP: Logged |