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Gooberzlostlovefound
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From: and the embers never fade in your city by the lake
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posted July 24, 2005 03:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gooberzlostlovefound     Edit/Delete Message
Do you play hard-to-get?

Why or why not?

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There are some days when no matter what I say it feels like I'm far away in another country & whoever is doing the translating has had far too much to drink.

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AcousticGod
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posted July 24, 2005 03:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for AcousticGod     Edit/Delete Message
Yes, because I'm a Cappy, and I'm not sure what I want until I don't have it.

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Water Girl
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posted July 24, 2005 02:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Water Girl     Edit/Delete Message
AG,

I have Cap. in my Venus, is that why sometimes I'm hot and other times I'm cold?

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LILYGIRL
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posted July 24, 2005 03:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LILYGIRL     Edit/Delete Message
"Venus in Capricorn indicates a reserved, cautious, refined and somewhat cool romantic nature. Your emotional well-being is more dependent on financial security and social status, rather than love and marriage. Great deliberation and care are taken when choosing a partner, however, once the decision is made you are a loyal, responsible and devoted spouse."

I am fairly reserved but I don't like playing super hard to get with friends or lovers. It seems to eat up alot of of precious time and moments you could simply be having. Having said that, I fear it is the general expectation of women--to play hard to get. So woe to the shy guys. I do like low key flirting, good conversation and long slow easing into bonds with others, especially the opposite sex. I think the best relationships and sex are ones where you really have gotten into the guy's head.

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LILYGIRL
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posted July 24, 2005 03:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LILYGIRL     Edit/Delete Message
"Venus in Capricorn indicates a reserved, cautious, refined and somewhat cool romantic nature. Your emotional well-being is more dependent on financial security and social status, rather than love and marriage. Great deliberation and care are taken when choosing a partner, however, once the decision is made you are a loyal, responsible and devoted spouse."

I am fairly reserved but I don't like playing super hard to get with friends or lovers. It seems to eat up alot of of precious time and moments you could simply be having. Having said that, I fear it is the general expectation of women--to play hard to get. So woe to the shy guys. I do like low key flirting, good conversation and long slow easing into bonds with others, especially the opposite sex. I think the best relationships and sex are ones where you really have gotten into the guy's head.

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Water Girl
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posted July 24, 2005 04:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Water Girl     Edit/Delete Message
Thanks Lilygirl! As much as I want to deny some of that,I can't. I'm not a gold digger or anything and I could never marry someone I didn't love, but I could also never marry someone who didn't have goals and aspirations to make something of themselves. I am extremely cautious when it comes to relationships. I don't play hard to get, I just am hard to get.

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Mama Mia
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posted July 25, 2005 10:07 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Mama Mia     Edit/Delete Message
Venus in Aqua here and yep I am a hard one to get too. I get turned off so easy..YOu almost have to say all the right things and do the right things for awhile b4 I get close. That is hard on ppl cause no one is perfect I sure in the heck isn't, but somehow that is ehat I expect. But once you got me,you got me hook line and sink...

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Gemini Nymph
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posted July 25, 2005 12:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gemini Nymph     Edit/Delete Message
Gem in Venus conjunct Sat in 9th; Mars in Aqua conjunct NN and Vertex in 6th...LOL

I am hard to get, but I don't play. I know what I want and don't want, and if I don't want to a guy, forget it. Sat conjunct Venus makes me very stubborn, immoveable and discriminating, and that Aqua in 6th house business makes me stick unwaveringly to my principles and standards.

However, I have Pisces moon in 7th, so I can be suckered... by the right guy. Doesn't mean I'd want him, or let him have me, but there's the very real potential of the right guy seriously getting under my skin. And when tat does happen, that seriously ****** off my Aqua-Martian ego, that prefers to remain detached and ummoved.

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sthenri
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posted July 25, 2005 09:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sthenri     Edit/Delete Message
I have saturn and venus both in the 5th house, and I'm a Taurus, so I have been hard to get and then I am caught. But now as I get older, I actually play the game more, which is good for me. I make sure my guy is on his toes and that way we are both happy when I am devoted. Otherwise I can be a martyr when things are bad-too devoted.

My steady guy now has a leo moon in the 7th, he can get a bit arrogant, and so backing away cools him off enough to have respect for me again. If he hasn't made plans by tuesday for the weekend, I'm doing something else, for real.

Natasha

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future_uncertain
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posted July 25, 2005 09:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for future_uncertain     Edit/Delete Message
(Sneaking in to say Hi to Natasha. Been a while!)

As you were...

I have to say I'm with AG on this one. I can totally relate!

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AcousticGod
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posted July 25, 2005 10:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AcousticGod     Edit/Delete Message
Awww...

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lovely*
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posted July 25, 2005 11:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lovely*     Edit/Delete Message
Welcome back GemNymph.. also *waves* hi Natasha.

I wanna come back to this thread and post my answers later

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Aen
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posted July 26, 2005 06:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aen     Edit/Delete Message
No, I don't play hard to get and I don't think I am hard to get either.


But I'm pretty impossible to keep.

Venus in Sag sextile Uranus, ruler of 5th hs

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SparklingSag
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posted July 26, 2005 04:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SparklingSag     Edit/Delete Message
My mars and venus in libra LOVE playful teasing and communication...but I am devoted to someone if i am with them. They are my number one but my leo moon likes to command repsect. But no, I dont play games. My sag sun cant handle dishonesty.

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