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pjm1953
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From: Houston TX USA
Registered: Jul 2005

posted July 30, 2005 11:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pjm1953     Edit/Delete Message
I am a Libra (10/9) and have just begun dating a Libra (9/26). We have been dating for about a month now. He hasn't made a move on me yet. Am I being impatient or is this characteristic of a male Libran? I sometimes feel that he isn't as interested as I am. We get along great and have much in common. Please help.

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AcousticGod
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From: Pleasanton, CA, USA
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posted July 31, 2005 02:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for AcousticGod     Edit/Delete Message
Ok, jump his bones! Easy, huh?

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sue g
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posted July 31, 2005 03:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sue g     Edit/Delete Message
Ditto, ditto, ditto !!!

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pjm1953
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From: Houston TX USA
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posted July 31, 2005 08:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for pjm1953     Edit/Delete Message
that's what I think too, but am a bit hesitant to do that, might scare him! Thanks

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pixelpixie
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From: Ontario Canada
Registered: Jun 2005

posted August 01, 2005 10:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for pixelpixie     Edit/Delete Message
Brush your teeth.
Put some fabulous smell pretty and taste vanilla-ish lipgloss on.
Bathe, slather yourself in scented lotion and some pulse point purfume which is very much you.
Have a great conversation.
Smile.
Lean in.
Take the hint from his body language.
Kiss him.

It should follow more easily from there.
Librans love the luxury, and the idea that someone takes care of themselves and are special.
You llike to do those things too.
So let Venus move you in love and all things sensual.
Have fun!

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pixelpixie
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From: Ontario Canada
Registered: Jun 2005

posted August 02, 2005 12:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for pixelpixie     Edit/Delete Message
Just a thought..
I was thinking more about Male Librans.
They have this unassuming charm about them.. and are led in love.. even though they are a Cardinal sign... when it comes to romance, they can be very concerned about their partner to the point of not pushing anything until there is no momentum.
They have this charming unassertiveness and sensitivity when it comes to initiating romance.
So you may have to lead them... but once it is established, no leading required. Let him know you are comfortable, set the scene, and let him seduce you ( by seducing him.. passively) Take the Yin role, and allow him to take the Yang. Once his feminine ruler- which is where the passivity in these matters may stem from- (Venus) is allowed to assert, he will be more forthcoming with the romancing. It's almost a gentle, delicate insecurity. Squash it silently, reassert those things you like about him.. those masculine things.

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pjm1953
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From: Houston TX USA
Registered: Jul 2005

posted August 02, 2005 06:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for pjm1953     Edit/Delete Message
Thank you pixelpixie. That makes sense, I didn't want to come over as too pushy, but you are right, Will try it, have nothing to lose.

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goobertally
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From: south africa
Registered: Aug 2005

posted August 17, 2005 03:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for goobertally     Edit/Delete Message
hey...

just a word of advice to you and any other female interested in a libra man, they can be very charming, so be careful.
The best way to get him to really notice you is to stimulate his mind. Libra's can't resist a good debate.
Hey do you want to stand out or not?

If you guys do get together, don't give him too many decisions, libra's hate making decisions, it really stresses them out.

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spellbound
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From: Illinois
Registered: Aug 2005

posted August 24, 2005 02:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for spellbound     Edit/Delete Message
I totally get what you guys are saying about Libra men..My hubby is one and it took a lot of subtle suggesting for him to get the idea that I was interested and even longer for him to make a move..But I agree, that after they are cozy that things seem to fall into place. He definately has this unassuming charm about him and just seems to shine where ever he goes (must be Leo rising). But the thing about decisions and debates...bingo..he always sits on the fence until I decide which side I am on, then he chooses the opposite. Sometimes I just want to scream at him, but then he makes me laugh and all is forgotten. He's a sweetie, but OMG he drives me nuts.. Isn't love wonderful.

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