posted August 06, 2005 07:39 AM         

Bathurst population _ 30 000 people. Featherdale Population- 30 000 people. Bullseye population 3000. Butterfly population- 8000 people. Lilypond area maybe 50-100 people

My life through coincidence always returns to the same small farming area 30 mins from Bathurst (I’ll call it Lilypond ) with connections to the same people. I currently live in Bathurst NSW.

I was born in Bathurst spent some of my childhood there but most of my childhood in another town 1 hour away (I’ll call it Butterfly). My grandmother lived in Bathurst and my family used to visit her in Bathurst. When I was about 11yrs old I remember going out to Lilypond for my grandmother to see someone -I remember the house.

I married when I was 18yrs and the marriage ended when I was 23yrs. After this time I have had 3 major relationships and one other that all link to this small area.

When I was 27 I met a man- Paul who eventually took me to his mothers house at Lilypond, it was the same house that I was at when I was 11 (as above). His ex wife is Veronica who also grew up in the same area.

This relationship ended and I moved to Sydney, Perth ... and eventually I moved back to Bathurst. I began working at Bullseye a small town 25 mins from Bathurst. At work I met people from the Lilypond area but that may not be coincidence as Bullseye is only 20 mins from there. Through work I met a man - Greg when I was 37, he was born and raised in Featherdale another city further west (45 mins from Bullseye and 45 mins from Bathurst). This relationship ended due to him having an affair with his cleaner Rona.

After that relationship ended I had a brief relationship with a man called Ken who lived and worked in Bathurst (born and raised in Sydney). His ex-wife is Kate. As it turns out Kate and Veronica (as above) are sisters and Rona who was born and raised in Featherdale was very good friends with Kate. Due to the distance and population I think that was a major coincidence.

I am 43 yrs old now on 11 sep last year I went to a work party, Rod (a guy I work with) and I had not been close but he told me that night that his marriage was over (and had been for a long time) and that he had been interested in me but due to his marriage he had not been in a position to start a relationship with anyone. (Had known him for about four years). He is from Lilydale area and as it turns out his 1st cousins are Veronica and Kate (as above). Rod’s wife moved out and Rod and I began a relationship probably at the end of October. This relationship ended at the end of March early April.

I was born on 11/6/62 at 1045 hrs at Bathurst NSW, Rod was born on the 11/ 7/58 at Bathurst NSW, don’t know the time of his birth.

Rod is a sceptic of anything "spiritual" but has a special affinity with an uncle (Claude) who I think died in the 1st world war. His military number was 1111. Rod made the connections with our birth dates. The number 11 has been very significant since this time and key things seem to occur for example a 11:11hrs etc. it was a turbulent relationship and I have been driving along thinking about him and a number plate of a car that passed me was RO 111. Many other coincidences, I applied for a loan recently and my payments were worked out at $111 per fortnight.

Bathurst is a city of 30,000+ people. Butterfly is a town of 8000 people. Featherdale is a city of 30,000+ people (and I have lived there also) it just seems more than coincidence that my life always connects with Lilypond with a population of maybe 50- 100 people. And my relationships revolve around Kate and Veronica. I was not aware of the links back to Lilydale at the time I began these relationships and due to where I lived it would be far more likely that I have links with Butterfly and Bathurst. I realised when I was with Rod that this seems to be more than coincidence, I knew that Kate and Veronica were his first cousins but at the time I had not thought of this chain of links to him. Since my marriage failed every significant relationship I have has links back to this.

There are more links to this story (even my mother bought a second hand vehicle from a dealer in Bathurst, it had belonged to Paul”s mother without any knowledge of this. I recognised it, same number plate) Rod’s wife worked at my doctors surgery as a receptionist during the time I was seeing Paul. There are many doctors in Bathurst and my doctor was in a practice by himself. She could have worked anywhere else or at any other time but she worked there in the same time frame that I was involved with Paul. I did not know Rod then. Veronica’s and Kate’s mother recently moved from Lilypond to Bathurst. She now lives in a retirement home on the same block as I do. Rod’s brother and mother both work at the same place I do, (though I have transferred out for six months, I started work at another place 11/7 Rods birthday. I was also given a locker key on this day, number eleven of course and I was not the only new person that day, my colleague got locker 17) and Rod’s mother asked me to pick her up and bring her to work with me one day.

Rod’s and my relationship ended very badly. There was lots of sabotage from his brother (also a Cancerian). I have lodged a serious complaint about Rod's brother's behaviour at work because the sabotage affected a lot of work related things as we were all working together. Rod is in a new relationship with the telephonist at work at Bullseye. I would never have him back, though still love him and finding it very difficult to get over him.

Does anyone have any idea of what this is??? And does anyone have any suggestion of what I should do?? Leave the area? I think this will follow me.

posted August 06, 2005 05:43 PM         

I was moving away but life stepped in and made it difficult. I really would like to know what this is. It is statistically very improbable to conect to these people so often.

I looked at your username and noticed that you are from Austrlia. Also number of posts caught my eye. 111 LOL I feel the elevens are trying to tell me something-but I dont know what.

Cathy

posted August 07, 2005 12:39 AM         

what you describe sounds like a "soul group". Think of it like a group of people that continue to be in one another's life in each incarnation.

Why it is happening - without knowing more information about your life, I'm not sure.

The cyclical nature of your relationships indicate that there is some unresolved issue. So, the pattern recurs until you work it out.

It is also interesting to hear of your 11 (Master Number) connection. Traditionally, 11's are loners but often come together. Actually, you will probably find that about Master Numbers in general. I am a 22 and my last four relationships have been (couting backward) with an 11, an 11, a 33, and an 11.

You might be intersted to come and visit the Master Number Gathering.

posted August 07, 2005 10:00 AM         

Thanks for answering.
I think you are right, I have thought that this may be a soul family, but is it a good thing or a bad thing? The conections are very deep, very intense emotional stuff. What else would you need to know about my life? And are these soul groups good to stay conected to or not. I have ended the relationship with Rod but the number 11 keeps hitting me in the face to the point where I just cannot believe it. I was driving to work the other week and I heard Robbie Williams song Better Man. I thought I will go and buy a CD. So I bought his greatest hits CD. Better Man was number 11. OK that may be nothing but again I am driving to work listening to better man and I hit a pot hole. The CD jammed at 2 minutes and eleven seconds through the song, so what I saw on my CD player screen was 2 11 11. This seems to be a common way I notice the 11's (with a number 2). I also get my birth date 11 6 and his birth date 11 7 a lot. I really am a rational person. This is more, much more than coincidence. One thing I have noticed with this relationship I feel that it mirrored me somehow. He has done some awful things and I would never have him back but I can see my part in it very clearly, like whiplash Karma. I have to admit I was not perfect.

Thanks for your reply