posted August 07, 2005 03:30 PM         

I broke his heart with a letter and he ended up marrying a local farm girl within 4 months of our break-up. We didn't talk for about 4 years, then out of the blue he dropped me a line.

I never stopped thinking about him and in all my travels (especially in agriculture in the NW I would daydream about seeing him again). We had this really deep connection from the get go..

When I first saw him on campus I was in my roomates dorm room (this was in 93) and I said "Who is that man? He is the most beautiful person I have ever seen". They said "Oh that is Mr. Pisces, every girl wants him but he has been dating a girl for a couple of years and he's a big jerk".

Well, he and I would bump into each other on campus and I would just get weird all over. He would try to say Hi and just stammer. He ended up single and we started to talk. I found out he was actually shy (and since he was / is also freaking hot - full lips, dark blue eyes, face like Brad Pitt but smoother... 6 foot 2, muscular.. OMG.. I HAVE to stop) shyness made people think he was a jerk. In actuality he was very conservative and a gentleman.

Long story short - we ended up together for over a year and then he left for the farm. Sexually, the only problem we had was that he seems a bit intimidated about trying anything too....you know.. he is very vanilla in bed, but also very sensuous. I remember EVERYTHING with him.

After he contacted me, we started to talk off and on for these last 4 or 5 years. He was still married and at one time I was with the Leo and then the Taurus. Now I am almost single and he is separated. I knew he was having problems a year ago, but encouraged him to work on things.

In any event... he his now almost free and so am I. He wants to open communications to a more... personal level and even come out here to see me when I move out.

I don't want to jump into anything and he also still lives up in Oregon.

If anyone has any advice.. here is his birth info but I don't have the birth time - I will get it tomorrow or the next day. I suspect he has a Libra rising- especially with those dimples of his:

Mr Pisces

March 15, 1972
Portland, OR
Time unknown

Me:

Pidaua

December 16, 1969
Artesia, Calif
11:45pm

We both have Aries moons... which I think adds a nice spark to him. He also has Venus and Mars in Taurus.. Hmmmm....

Thanks for the advice knowflakes!!!

posted August 07, 2005 08:57 PM         

My gut says, "Don't force things with him," which I guess means take it easy, and realize that even while you've been in contact when you guys get together it will be another story altogether.

posted August 07, 2005 09:19 PM         

Jazzabel,

posted August 08, 2005 08:07 PM         

As far as the Pisces.. I just think it's cute that he still has a thing for me- but I don't anticipate anything growing out of it more than a friendship. He lives too far away and I am just going to take time to enjoy life (and when I move out I will take time in the whole relationship department too... dating sounds good for the next year or two..just kidding.. who knows what will happen).

Okay..this is a novella eh?

I hope your well.

posted August 08, 2005 10:16 PM         

Yes, you are right (spoken like a true Virgo - always to the point and on target). I was afraid of commitments and falling in love. Like I said, there were several issues that even on their own would have made it impossible for us to be together, but in their totality would cause harm to either one of us in the long run. But yes, this relationship opened my eyes to many things and that relationships / commitments aren't that scary.

How are you doing?

posted August 09, 2005 01:00 PM         

For some reason I didn't know that you had a Pisces rising - my opposite Is it also conjuncting your Neptune? I guess I just never knew much about your chart. What is your moon?

Do you find it hard to be a Virgo with a Neptune rising? Sometimes I feel a bit conflicted with my Sag Sun / Virgo ascendant square - Pluto conjuncting the Asc also lends its one weirdness.

I find myself in a dream....on cloud nine so to speak, only to talk myself out of being a dreamer LMAO.. does that make sense.

Someday I'll find that guy.. but for now, I am just taking it easy. Mr Taurus finally got his orders and will be heading for San Antonio in November.

So, you're in love? What is the lucky guy? You don't seem to come around here much anymore...

posted August 09, 2005 10:45 PM         

P.S. My ASC is at 1' Pisces, and my Sun is at 1' Virgo, my Nodes are 1' Virgo/Pisces. Neptune, my chart ruler, is at the top of my chart and squares them all.
Moon Gemini. Mercury rules both my Sun and Moon and conjunct Pluto at 0 degree. My love flames are mostly Scorpios

posted August 10, 2005 11:52 AM         

I am usually the more conservative one in my comments. However, I think this sounds good. You know Mr. Pisces and you have history together. My only concern would be - why did you break up with him before? Something bothered you, or you would have continued with the relationship. Is it something you could live with now?

I also have an Aries moon...

At the very least, it is nice to have possibilites.

posted August 11, 2005 09:34 AM         

I don't know why, but I get good "vibes" from the connection you are describing...I think it could be a good match. Maybe see how it goes...

posted August 11, 2005 03:48 PM         

Jazz,

Thank you for the advice and the information on the progressions / transits. You have a point with the Saturn transits.. why is Saturn always kicking my butt? LOL... At least I have pluto in my court

I will be flying into Atlanta first and I think we stay there a day before heading out to the Fort. I'll know more in the next month or two and will post to ya when I find out.

Key,

We broke up because I wasn't ready for a relationship. The whole thought of getting married right out of college and moving to a pretty small town was scary to me. Especially with my student loan debt. In the end though, we are just friends. I am not looking for anything at this time, but it is just so nice to talk to someone that has known me for so long.

Aries,

Ahhh...yes, you are right about taking it slow. We are just talking - getting reacquainted with each other. So far we are finding that we have all these things in common- especially when it comes to domestic issues. We are both all about getting things out in the open, being able to argue knowing that it doesn't mean the end and then moving on when something is resolved. He is very outdoorsy and keeps a clean house (like to cook, clean, organize...keeps up on the outside of the house and also has outside interests like the rodeo, hiking, camping fishing...)

I am very much like him..but I can also be a homebody at times.

I just found out that he doesn't have an Aries moon.. he was born at 4:30am and has a Pisces moon...he's an uber Pisces.

His Mercury in Aries conjuncts my moon while his Neptune conjuncts my Venus in his 10th house and his Jupiter conjuncts my Mercury in my 4th house.

He also has his Sun in the 1st house LOL... I seem to attract either Sun in the 1st house men or Taurus risings. He is an Aquarius rising.

But like I said... we are just talking and it does feel great to talk to someone from my past that knew me when I was just beginning like I knew him. We have exchanged pics (he had an old one of me) and we both commented how much we still look like we did in college, with with a slight bit a gray hair (he has more than I LOL).

posted August 11, 2005 06:51 PM         

I was kind of worried because I thought he would be closed to it. Mr Taurus also seemed to have an interest until we started getting serious, then he said it was crap and he didn't believe in it. That hurt, but I figured to each their own... some people are afraid of what they don't understand and some just don't believe and that's their right.

posted August 12, 2005 12:36 PM         

I don't love him and I know that we will soon part ways -maybe that is another reason why it is easier to just go with the flow. He will be out of my county / state within the next 3 months and that gives me comfort.

If you want to e-mail me, I can give you the low-down.. I worry that he has been checking these boards.

posted August 12, 2005 02:17 PM         

Other areas of life are gathering momentum, some things seem to be starting to happen all of a sudden, 'tis a real gear change.

posted August 12, 2005 03:01 PM         

You and I have ALOT in common. I'd like to talk to you more if you want to e-mail me (it's on the profile).

posted August 13, 2005 01:45 PM         

I can't see your email address on the profile, but you can email me at martianmaiden2000@yahoo.co.uk.