posted August 17, 2005 07:59 AM         

Only you can carve the path to your own happiness. Just know that if there is a will there is a way.

posted August 17, 2005 07:06 PM         

Have you done a composite yet?

posted August 21, 2005 04:44 PM         

I've read your posts with interest and with the utmost sympathy for your dilemma. I totally understand your confusion and applaud you exploring the astrology aspects of both guys so as to make sense of your feelings for each of them.

We all try to avoid making mistakes in our lives and that's great, even though sometimes mistakes teach us a great deal. Please don't be offended by what I have to say - I appreciate that it may be a cultural consideration and have no wish to criticise or offend you or your family. But when you say your parents "insist" you get married, well that concerns me. If you truly wish to marry someone then that's wonderful, but it's another thing entirely if you are rushed into something you're not sure of. You already have that instinct it seems, hence your desire to make sure you choose the right person.

A relationship with someone is such an important thing in our lives even if it's a platonic friendship or casual acquaintance. It enters us into a bond and it merges our karmas. In my humble opinion, we have therefore, a responsibility to do right by that person and they have the same responsibility to us. All I'm trying to say is I really hope you insist that you wait until it's something you want with someone you are truly, deeply in love with. You'll know beyond a shadow of a doubt when you are I wish you that joy inderjeet. All the happiness and luck in the world and a whole heap of understanding to you too!

posted August 24, 2005 05:53 PM         

As promised (although somewhat late than expected due to pressures of work!) you're reading Hope it helps a little.

1. You-state of mind, emotions - Ace of swords. Cognition; crystal clear thought. Piercing through the fog and finding the answers. Cutting through the chaos to the truth. You're literally sorting through each choice inderjeet and sifting through all the information to find the absolute truth. It's a time of being able to focus on each individual facet of your life and offers you the crown of enlightenment.

2. Situation - Ace of cups. Emotion. The new beginnings of love, happiness and joy. A feeling of abundance and all things being good. Emotional fulfillment - this is a wonderful card in this position inderjeet! It makes me feel very positive about your situation and points to you finding your love very quickly Enjoy!

3. Problem - 8 of swords; Interference. What an interesting card to turn up in this position! The 8 of swords implies that you feel that there are restraints and interference from outside forces but in truth, the way is clear. Funny, but it's often our own censorship that prevents us from moving forward; an imagined restraint or block that keeps us from our dreams. The way is clear inderjeet; there's no obstacle blocking you from your desires apart from your own fear. Remove that, and move forwards without hesitation or problem.

4. Outcome - Queen of Cups. Motherhood.A very sensual and spiritual woman who is mysterious but attainable. She is the ultimate feminine ideal. Loved and adored by all. I truly feel that once you let go of your fear of making mistakes and deeply connect and then trust your true feelings, that this will be you. This will be your outcome to the situation you find yourself in inderjeet. Have faith and look inside for your true feelings about the men you're interested in. Stop being constrained by fear of making mistakes so much as it's holding you back from your destiny. Yes it's good to be prudent and to try to make the right decision, but where love is concerned, the only decision to be made is made with your gut instinct and your feelings. Embrace your emotions however much they may seem illogical and then move forward.

Good luck inderjeet and I wish you all the happiness in the world