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From: monterey, CA
Registered: Jul 2004

posted August 17, 2005 09:55 PM         

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Hi everyone!
I am new to this website but not new to Linda's philosophies! I have been a quiet observer and decided to post a question because I need some enlightened souls to help shed some light on concerns that I have. My husband and I have been together 7 years and have two children. He is tall dark and handsome and still looks fantastic after all this time because he is committed to taking care of himself. I having fleeting thoughts that he may be gay! How would a wife know this? I asked him point blank and he denies it...I want to believe that he is not, but I always trust my intuition, and these feelings have not alleviated thus far!
So bottom line...how do you know if your man is gay?
Thank you ahead of time for your response!

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posted August 17, 2005 10:25 PM         

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There is no way astrologically to tell if someone is gay, or bi, or straight for that matter.

Lanny

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From: Pleasanton, CA, USA
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posted August 17, 2005 11:17 PM         

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As a straight guy who's often been mistaken for gay, I say to trust him. It's not detrimental to you that he takes care of himself.

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From: Alabama
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posted August 17, 2005 11:50 PM         

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I think ILLOG is right, astrology won't help you there. But -- for what's worth, I'll give you my opinion as a woman who has known gays all her life: I would watch very closely when he is around other attractive men. Of course he is going to be on his guard now because you confronted him about it, but still... there is eye contact, there is body language. 75% or so of communication is supposedly nonverbal. The way he acts in the company of men should give you some good clues.

Hope female intuition is wrong this time around!

Loggerhead

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From: Columbus, GA USA
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posted August 18, 2005 08:22 AM         

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Welcome!

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"There is no use trying," said Alice; "one can't believe impossible things." "I dare say you haven't had much practice," said the Queen. "When I was your age, I always did it for half an hour a day. Why, sometimes I've believed as many as six impossible things before breakfast." Lewis Carroll

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posted August 18, 2005 01:17 PM         

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Wow... that's a tough one. I'm not sure. You would know him best. Could he possibly be a man with slightly more feminine qualities? (Ex: worries about his appearance, soft spoken, etc.)

I do believe that Loggerhead gave you about as sound of advice as any.

Acoustic, you said that you have been mistaken for gay. Do you think that that is a Capricorn male thing?

My friend is a Cappie, and he has also said the same thing.

I personally don't see it in him... but I can see where some of the stereo-typical "ideal" male traits are not prominent. Which is refreshing.

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posted August 18, 2005 01:25 PM         

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would you dump him if he was? He is with you...so he'd have to bi...or straight....not gay...at least that is usually the case. There are exceptions of course.

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From: MD
Registered: Jun 2005

posted August 18, 2005 02:00 PM         

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Welcome Josiejo. What makes you wonder?

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