posted September 12, 2005 10:24 AM         

I've been feeling really down lately.I don't know if i believe in soulmates anymore or even love.
I recently met this guy and i was and still am convinced that he was my soulmate.The first nite we met was absolute magic.
And the thing is, he thought so too. I mean literally after the first nite he was talking about marriage.

However something happened and we had to end it.He asked me not to delete his number off my phone and he told me to phone him if i ever felt like saying hi.But the thing is he just seemed to be so casual about it,as if he just didn't care anymore.Now i find myself still phoning him and texting him.He always just seems so casual as if i imagined the whole thing between us.I just don't think he feels anything for me anymore. like nothing.

i could really do with some stories with happy endings.Please!!
Anyone here who has actually managed to work it out with their soulmates.Please write bout your experience and how it turned out.
I so badly need happy endings.

lots of love
tally

posted September 12, 2005 02:27 PM         

I just typed a long reply to you, and then lost it......bugger....I will try again.

So I am sorry to hear your story, but take heart girl cos by the time I was in my late 20s I had experienced two disaterous marriages.......while the second one was on its way out....I begun to feel I would never find love....that I would become a lonely and bitter old woman.......

and then when I reached the last year of my 20s I met him........the one.......and we have been together for 16 years, married for 8 and have a 6 year old boy together. Dont get me wrong, life aint easy.......but I know he is the one for me!

After we had been together for a couple of years I went to get a reading from an I-Ching guy, who said I had met my soul mate and that we would be together for a 12 year cycle, I was elated...and then he said "and another 12 years, and another, and another".....by this time I was ecstatic!!!

If someone had told me that I would stay with someone for this long, i would have laughed at them...but I have.....and I feel blessed!

So I would say to you girl, dont give up on love.....you watch, just as you say to yourself "aahh feck it:......you will look up and there it will be right in front of your eyes.......you just see!

I will hope and pray for you

LOve to all

posted September 13, 2005 09:50 AM         

lol well a happy ending hasn’t happened to me yet, but it has happened to my mum

OK so my dad travelled loads cause of his work, which my mum was ok with…until I was born.
She felt I needed a normal childhood ( preferably back home in Britain ) - but was also unhappy in the marriage herself ( my dad was incredibly jealous for a Gemini ).

Anyways, after that she married a Cappy and is now living happily ever after It’s incredible, but their marriage is getting stronger as time passes.
Good things happen to good people - I think you should have faith
My mum was so relieved of ending her marriage that she didn’t want to marry ever…even tho she was in her early twenties AND a Libra. The Cappy just kinda came along. I think that’s why I have so much faith when it comes to love - I look at my mum and see how happy she is, and I wanna be like that.
Hope this helps

posted September 13, 2005 03:42 PM         

Thre is a local magazine here in Chicago called being single that I prescribe to it is a magazine based on african american single women ect,ect. All sotories are true they even had this couples picuture on the
cover..

They met through a mutual friend and they began dating after a year and a half of dating they decided they were made for each. They were both highly educated and both made great money. They began to do couple counseling b4 the marriage and found out somethings that they did not know about each other. They found out that he wanted her to be a stay home wife and she being raised by independent women could not live that way. The both were very fixed on their views. Neither one was going to budge. She felt like she did not go to school and get all that education to stay at home and do nothing with it.

The disagreement had gotten so bad that they decided that maybe they were not meant to be together and ended the relationship and all plans of the wedding.. Basically they were raised in two different ways..They both loved each other very much..

So about a year went by after their break up and well she did not see anyone well of course he did. Anyway their was a popular play going on in the city they lived in and she went with a girlfriend and who did she run into him and he ws there with a girlfriend of his. They bumped into each other and spoke and ws cordial. He went his way and she left with her girlfirend. Later that night he called her to tell her how beautiful she looked and that he never stopped loving her and that she could do whatever she wanted to do as far as her career goes as long as she became his wife and it happened..

It may seem like what came between them was trivial and small but when ppl believe strongly in their beliefs its not..Love is definetly stronger then pride and a whole lot of other things.. Hope that made you smile and be hopeful cause it did great things for me..

posted September 13, 2005 07:49 PM         

I like to think that even though Mr. Virgo and I divorced, what I learned about love and life was more important than just staying together for years and years. We will always be a part of each other's life and that makes us both very happy.

An ending is really a beginning in disguise and sometimes when something doesn't work out- it just means that there is something more on the horizon. When you take what you have learned - good and bad - and it causes you to evolve into a better person, then you have more to give to another and you are better able to receive a different kind of love.

I hope I am making sense. LOL... I am ending a relationship as well. In the beginning I thought it would last forever- but then realized it couldn't. Of course there is sadness, but my heart tells me that what we learned from each other will put us on better paths in the future- for someone else.. and maybe that will be the precurser to a different kind of happy ending

posted September 14, 2005 09:59 AM         

After this last breakup I had with this Aqua guy I could ot see that if we did not get back together that it could be a happy ending. But as time has gone on and I know that we will not get back together and I am so happy for that it has turned out as a happy ending for me...:-) When you learn so much from one relationship as I did it truley is a blessing. I learned so many things about myself that has made me a much better person and women. Divine order is what I like to call it..